@hellosaggy
9 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius
And I got her off...
no that sounds strange
A lot of women have orgasms uncontrollably when they've been victimized. If she had a trauma like that and that was the only time she's ever orgamsed then it could have been a reminder of the trauma. Have a conversation wit her and talk it out and make sure she feels safe with you.
If she needs some space to sort through stuff, let her have it but tell her your there if she needs you.
Yeah I was excited I got her off. She was just like just hurry up. Hadn’t acted nothing like this before.
Before she left my place she was like... “what will you do when I stop wanting to spend time with you”
Wtf
No men do sometimes (go cold after orgasm)
She had a sex change op
😛
Has she EVER had one before? If no, then I could see how that utter loss of control could be a bit terrifying, especially to someone who is proud of their self control.
Posted by hellosaggy
Yeah I was excited I got her off. She was just like just hurry up. Hadn’t acted nothing like this before.Before she left my place she was like... “what will you do when I stop wanting to spend time with you”
Wtf
Awwwwww!!!! This is so cute! Tell her you're not going anywhere. You're not gonna leave her!
She’s had quite a bit of trauma in her past. She is normally the dom in her relationships with women.
Thought after a month and a half of talking and last two weeks playing house she wouldn’t be weird about it.
I’m really just a rebound from her ex wife. Im totally fine with that. Maybe actually getting off made her mad.
Posted by hellosaggy
Yeah I was excited I got her off. She was just like just hurry up. Hadn’t acted nothing like this before.Before she left my place she was like... “what will you do when I stop wanting to spend time with you”
Wtf
Awwwwww!!!! This is so cute! Tell her you're not going anywhere. You're not gonna leave her!
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I don’t want to be with her lmao. I’m just the rebound. I really just like her lesbian stories and going through her toy collection 😂🙆🏾♂️🙌🏾
She’s had quite a bit of trauma in her past. She is normally the dom in her relationships with women.
Thought after a month and a half of talking and last two weeks playing house she wouldn’t be weird about it.
I’m really just a rebound from her ex wife. Im totally fine with that. Maybe actually getting off made her mad.
Has a women ever got her off?
Posted by hellosaggy
Yeah I was excited I got her off. She was just like just hurry up. Hadn’t acted nothing like this before.Before she left my place she was like... “what will you do when I stop wanting to spend time with you”
Wtf
Awwwwww!!!! This is so cute! Tell her you're not going anywhere. You're not gonna leave her!
I don’t want to be with her lmao. I’m just the rebound. I really just like her lesbian stories and going through her toy collection 😂🙆🏾♂️🙌🏾
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You're so full of shit lol
This is what you pretend to be! I see through that shit lol
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Did u put it in the right hole?Lol
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Wheres my lunch internet hubby. I'm hungry 😛
Posted by Koniuchaa
All of your posts are completely normal, don’t worry
Pffft. Never a dull moment. I just hope she will loosen up and not run away.
I’m not dating anyone at moment and she makes good food and other than her bringing her Pitbull over every damn day... I like her company.
My cap friends birthday is today and she’s having a party Saturday. It’s going to be awkward if she tries to hang out Saturday night and I don’t have energy to lie about who the cap is.
Posted by edgelord
@nikkistar does this sound like a troll to you? 🤔
I have always thought this douche bag was a troll. I called him out in another thread, and he sent me some convoluted PM about going to prison and some other bullshit, that I said LULZ to.
She’s had quite a bit of trauma in her past. She is normally the dom in her relationships with women.
Thought after a month and a half of talking and last two weeks playing house she wouldn’t be weird about it.
I’m really just a rebound from her ex wife. Im totally fine with that. Maybe actually getting off made her mad.
Has a women ever got her off?
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Yeah she said her ex wife got her off playing with toys.
She and I are good friends. We talk about her problems. Drink and have sex. I’m just a distraction.
I think the orgasm and me being male got her feeling weird.
As soon as we finished after she told me to hurry up she goes ... hurry up and put some pants on... the fuk... she never talked to me like that when she didn’t orgasm and it was just pleasurable for her.
Posted by MiZLeo
That has happened to me before. Ptsd from past relationships. Best I can describe it. The emotions probably got to much for her.
What can I do about it? I don’t get how she can tie me to anything else because she and I have no problems. It’s actually been an easy “relationship” between us.
Posted by _gg
Maybe she didnt really cum. Or your dirty talk crossed some line and got disrespectful. Did you call her a b?
Yeah I called her a b... because she said “I’m your b”... and I said “you know you my b”
Posted by _gg
Possible rape victim?I never bother with aquarius women anyways. Weirdo's!!
Yeah she’s been abused by a few people in her first 16 years... hard to hear... she did say with men, sex is detached with women that’s the only time she feels intimate.
Sex with men is more about power over them for her...
I can say from my standpoint. It’s ok. I can see how some guys would love to have sex with her and her “rules” from a purely physical standpoint.
Posted by Koniuchaa
All of your posts are completely normal, don’t worryPffft. Never a dull moment. I just hope she will loosen up and not run away.
I’m not dating anyone at moment and she makes good food and other than her bringing her Pitbull over every damn day... I like her company.
My cap friends birthday is today and she’s having a party Saturday. It’s going to be awkward if she tries to hang out Saturday night and I don’t have energy to lie about who the cap is.
weird, do we have the same cap friend? are we going to the same party?
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If you live in va beach maybe lol
Posted by MiZLeo
That has happened to me before. Ptsd from past relationships. Best I can describe it. The emotions probably got to much for her.What can I do about it? I don’t get how she can tie me to anything else because she and I have no problems. It’s actually been an easy “relationship” between us.
Nothing you can really do. For me it can be triggered by a familiar smell, the way you had sex with her... like once I was having sex with a guy I've had sex with many times and for what ever reason this one time he was on top of me and the way he was doing things was the same way someone else did it or reminded me of the other person. I can't even masturbate a certain way anymore cause it reminds me of someone who really fucked with my head.
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Yeah she has a lot of control issues.. don’t do this or this or this... I don’t do this and this and this...
But after we drink or during sex she will do things she said she didn’t want. It’s weird. Of course being a sag I am intrigued lol
She’s had quite a bit of trauma in her past. She is normally the dom in her relationships with women.
Thought after a month and a half of talking and last two weeks playing house she wouldn’t be weird about it.
I’m really just a rebound from her ex wife. Im totally fine with that. Maybe actually getting off made her mad.
Has a women ever got her off?
Yeah she said her ex wife got her off playing with toys.
She and I are good friends. We talk about her problems. Drink and have sex. I’m just a distraction.
I think the orgasm and me being male got her feeling weird.
As soon as we finished after she told me to hurry up she goes ... hurry up and put some pants on... the fuk... she never talked to me like that when she didn’t orgasm and it was just pleasurable for her.
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what ? lol
"put the D away"
She’s had quite a bit of trauma in her past. She is normally the dom in her relationships with women.
Thought after a month and a half of talking and last two weeks playing house she wouldn’t be weird about it.
I’m really just a rebound from her ex wife. Im totally fine with that. Maybe actually getting off made her mad.
Has a women ever got her off?
Yeah she said her ex wife got her off playing with toys.
She and I are good friends. We talk about her problems. Drink and have sex. I’m just a distraction.
I think the orgasm and me being male got her feeling weird.
As soon as we finished after she told me to hurry up she goes ... hurry up and put some pants on... the fuk... she never talked to me like that when she didn’t orgasm and it was just pleasurable for her.
what ? lol
"put the D away"
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Yeah... I was like... ummm. My D just got you off. It was rude.
Posted by Capmercury87
Its possible that she decided to be with a women because a man traumatized her. My sister would run to the same sex every time a man fucked up. And its also possible orgasms are attached to that part of her life. Perhaps she was sexually abused by a male sometime in her life.I would definetly ask her about it, in a nurturing way not a "why are you like this" way.
-aqua
Yeah a few men have abused her.... it’s sad. She’s written a journal. Shit is depressing to read.
I read online hyper sexuality comes from it. She’s very very sexually driven.
I was thinking that’s why she wasn’t orgasming with me.... and seemed ok with it.
Now that she has, she acted differently. Her texts have seemed normal since the day has gone on. Maybe she’s over the situation. I really don’t want to bring it up.
She’s had quite a bit of trauma in her past. She is normally the dom in her relationships with women.
Thought after a month and a half of talking and last two weeks playing house she wouldn’t be weird about it.
I’m really just a rebound from her ex wife. Im totally fine with that. Maybe actually getting off made her mad.
Has a women ever got her off?
Yeah she said her ex wife got her off playing with toys.
She and I are good friends. We talk about her problems. Drink and have sex. I’m just a distraction.
I think the orgasm and me being male got her feeling weird.
As soon as we finished after she told me to hurry up she goes ... hurry up and put some pants on... the fuk... she never talked to me like that when she didn’t orgasm and it was just pleasurable for her.
what ? lol
"put the D away"
Yeah... I was like... ummm. My D just got you off. It was rude.
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she has control issues and is just plain weird
Posted by hellosaggy
Yeah I was excited I got her off. She was just like just hurry up. Hadn’t acted nothing like this before.Before she left my place she was like... “what will you do when I stop wanting to spend time with you”
Wtf
Awwwwww!!!! This is so cute! Tell her you're not going anywhere. You're not gonna leave her!
I don’t want to be with her lmao. I’m just the rebound. I really just like her lesbian stories and going through her toy collection 😂🙆🏾♂️🙌🏾
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Yeah. Can’t imagine why she would immediately regret feeling a connection with you or anything.
Posted by hellosaggy
Aqua that “couldn’t” orgasm. We had sex last night and I started talking dirty to her, but I finished quick because I knew she wouldn’t get off. She got upset saying the talk was hot and she could probably get off.Woke me out of my sleep this morning and asked for some morning sex. I decided to create a mind connection by talking dirty to her. Wow did it work. She was shocked by the talk and it got her going. Needless to say she came after about 10 min and IMMEDIATELY started acting funny. Telling me to hurry up and finish.
She grabbed a t shirt from me and asked me to put some underwear on to go back to sleep and not to touch her...
I don’t know wtf that was about. Never seen her act like this. It was off putting.
I thought women liked orgasms. Any other woman go cold after a release?
Looks like you got used
Posted by hellosaggy
Aqua that “couldn’t” orgasm. We had sex last night and I started talking dirty to her, but I finished quick because I knew she wouldn’t get off. She got upset saying the talk was hot and she could probably get off.Woke me out of my sleep this morning and asked for some morning sex. I decided to create a mind connection by talking dirty to her. Wow did it work. She was shocked by the talk and it got her going. Needless to say she came after about 10 min and IMMEDIATELY started acting funny. Telling me to hurry up and finish.
She grabbed a t shirt from me and asked me to put some underwear on to go back to sleep and not to touch her...
I don’t know wtf that was about. Never seen her act like this. It was off putting.
I thought women liked orgasms. Any other woman go cold after a release?
Looks like you got used
He’s trolling for attention
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Probably. I don’t have anything personal against him as his battles are his to fight.
OP, I’m sorry but this woman seems like she’s got some serious issues that she probably needs to see a therapist about and you sleeping with her is only adding to that burden...you’re not helping her. I’m not going to speak to your character or judge you, but if you have any decency you’d cut the sex out.
Posted by hellosaggy
Aqua that “couldn’t” orgasm. We had sex last night and I started talking dirty to her, but I finished quick because I knew she wouldn’t get off. She got upset saying the talk was hot and she could probably get off.Woke me out of my sleep this morning and asked for some morning sex. I decided to create a mind connection by talking dirty to her. Wow did it work. She was shocked by the talk and it got her going. Needless to say she came after about 10 min and IMMEDIATELY started acting funny. Telling me to hurry up and finish.
She grabbed a t shirt from me and asked me to put some underwear on to go back to sleep and not to touch her...
I don’t know wtf that was about. Never seen her act like this. It was off putting.
I thought women liked orgasms. Any other woman go cold after a release?
Told you it was mental with us
Posted by sultrykitty
Has she EVER had one before? If no, then I could see how that utter loss of control could be a bit terrifying, especially to someone who is proud of their self control.You're a Leo, you're literally self-reflecting here. Aquarius is 100% your opposite, think about what that means.
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Actually it could be less a sign thing and more a female thing, but he updated the situ and apparently that's probably not her issue.
And opposites in astrology doesn't mean completely different, it means 2 sides of the same coin.
Posted by sultrykitty
Has she EVER had one before? If no, then I could see how that utter loss of control could be a bit terrifying, especially to someone who is proud of their self control.You're a Leo, you're literally self-reflecting here. Aquarius is 100% your opposite, think about what that means.
Actually it could be less a sign thing and more a female thing, but he updated the situ and apparently that's probably not her issue.
And opposites in astrology doesn't mean completely different, it means 2 sides of the same coin.
Ocjack a. Doesn’t know much about astrology and b. Argumentatively trolls everyone to get attention
You’ll find you’ll have better back and forth with a brick wall
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I'm well aware, we've gone a couple rounds before.
Posted by sultrykitty
Has she EVER had one before? If no, then I could see how that utter loss of control could be a bit terrifying, especially to someone who is proud of their self control.You're a Leo, you're literally self-reflecting here. Aquarius is 100% your opposite, think about what that means.
Actually it could be less a sign thing and more a female thing, but he updated the situ and apparently that's probably not her issue.
And opposites in astrology doesn't mean completely different, it means 2 sides of the same coin.
Ocjack a. Doesn’t know much about astrology and b. Argumentatively trolls everyone to get attention
You’ll find you’ll have better back and forth with a brick wall
I'm well aware, we've gone a couple rounds before.
Ah gotcha 😃
Carry on
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😄. You can spot terramine coming a mile away. Kind of like the town crier. Every town has one.
So this follow up is for your ego...humble boast thread alert. Great job big guy, three thumbs up 👍👍👍.
Happy?
Big deal I get women off by just posting blurred pics of my peen
Maybe this is her ploy.
She’s all, I can’t cum ever. Your all, challenged accepted!! Her, you made me cum wow. You, sense of achievement and closeness wow.
How to catch a player in 3 fucks (perf book title btw)
Posted by hellosaggy
Sex with men is more about power over them for her...I can say from my standpoint. It’s ok. I can see how some guys would love to have sex with her and her “rules” from a purely physical standpoint.
Proof, you're a total beta male chode. Like every Sag male.
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(isn't she hot, Lordy??!!)
....nah jk, come here Lordy, your big bro is right here
Tomorrow I will ask your mom to take you with me to the zoo. I will even buy you an ice cream if you promise me to not get too excited when seeing the donkeys, what do you think about that, huh? Right, I know, you are wecome!!
Posted by sultrykitty
Actually it could be less a sign thing and more a female thing, but he updated the situ and apparently that's probably not her issue.And opposites in astrology doesn't mean completely different, it means 2 sides of the same coin.
I rarely see women who even try to defy this, and they are always Leo or Taurus with strong fire influence. Meanwhile Aquarius pretends to rebel but in a "come and get me" kind of way.
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Well then you're barking up the wrong tree with me because I'm predominantly air and have very little fire. It's actually last on my dominance list.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Maybe this is her ploy.She’s all, I can’t cum ever. Your all, challenged accepted!! Her, you made me cum wow. You, sense of achievement and closeness wow.
How to catch a player in 3 fucks (perf book title btw)
Okay I say porn is cheating, post dick pics, replace Mena, etc you bitches rail me endless.
Op treats a sexual abuse victim like she's a worthless peasant, and everyone is just like "Cool story bro."
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Boofuckinghoo
Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
She's probably pist because she actually didn't orgasm and you looked so damn proud of yourself when you did absolutely nothing.I'm surprised you of all people said nothing about the fact that she's a sexual abuse victim, and subsequently OP's attitude towards all this.
Instead, you just took a lame ass shot at his sex skills? I honestly thought better of you.
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So sexually assault victims are not entitled to have consensual sex when and off their choosing? Gtfoh
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Aqua that “couldn’t” orgasm. We had sex last night and I started talking dirty to her, but I finished quick because I knew she wouldn’t get off. She got upset saying the talk was hot and she could probably get off.
Woke me out of my sleep this morning and asked for some morning sex. I decided to create a mind connection by talking dirty to her. Wow did it work. She was shocked by the talk and it got her going. Needless to say she came after about 10 min and IMMEDIATELY started acting funny. Telling me to hurry up and finish.
She grabbed a t shirt from me and asked me to put some underwear on to go back to sleep and not to touch her...
I don’t know wtf that was about. Never seen her act like this. It was off putting.
I thought women liked orgasms. Any other woman go cold after a release?