@Aerazo
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What is the cure for Unrequited love?
How to Cope with Unrequited Love
There is no universal cure for unrequited love, but healing involves accepting your feelings, focusing on self-care, and giving yourself time. Building new interests and social connections can also help you move forward and find emotional balance.
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Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.
the usual..
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Hahha love it!
Cliche, but i hear requited love does wonders. 😆
Loving yourself. Easier said than done, but that’s the cure.
You havent changed 😆
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
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I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
Your happiness should not depend on others. Self worth. Someone else will appreciate
Posted by WarAngel1
Sadly, nothing except a new love.Walking away cold hearted sometimes yields results once the other person pulls their head outta their ass.
"Walking away cold hearted sometimes yields results once the other person pulls their head outta their ass."
Interesting. I always walk away cold hearted, just because if it isn't serving me then don't waste my time.
Posted by gyrados
Find you a Sagittarius man, he will show you how beautiful a life can be
Funny you say this, one time someone did a "tell me your dob and I'll find the dob of your soulmate " my soulmate was a Sagittarius. haha
It cannot be "any" I have met a couple but I didnt click with them. They did want to click with me though lol
Won't work, I would have thrown them at the wall already hahaha 😂
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
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I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
Posted by airycap82
Don’t know if there’s a “cure”.Time and distance, perhaps.
Definitely channeling energy towards other creative and productive pursuits. Until you heal and develop a new affection and love for another.
I wouldn’t suggest diving into another affair — not fair for you or the other (new) person that will be involved.
Hard to keep distance when we have just made a "pact" to grow financially together for the next years.....
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I think black magic spells might be better than voodoo. You just need to get those love potions and rub a little on their skin. They prolly look stupid or I would rather say almost zombie like, but it's way better than voodoo. Especially if you need a helper at home to take care of your pets or such. They will obey and do everything you told them to. Sounds exciting enough? I guess so.
Stalking will trigger my friend for the most part. I don't think that's a good idea. She have lots of Scorpio placements. She will probably go nuts and make a wrong move by killing that dude.
NO,NO! I ain't wanna see her living her life in prison. I love her! She's family.
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Eeh we are living in the days of Harvey weinsteins downfall. Rubbing anything on anybody is a bad idea.
Look at it this way though if they kill them they can inject them with a plastic resin to keep the body from decaying. All depends what they are willing to settle for.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
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It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
plus they don't look so cute anymore by the dim basement light
their faces all scrunched up in fear, red and wet with tears
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Ah sounds like you have some experience.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
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That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Well ... I'm not sad.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
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Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
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Yep! but going with the flow, either way something will work out. Business partnership or both will be great.
I actually asked because I saw a post today about unrequited love and the images I saw seemed like it hurt a lot, but I don't feel that way. Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
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You have a lot of weird friends lol.
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Well ... I'm not sad.
Yeah but you’re bummed out. Doesn’t really matter anyway, I posted this cos your thread reminded me of this scene. Not cos I was honestly giving you advice. When it comes to stuff like this I’ve got no advice to give.
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It's fine, it actually made me realize that I'm not saddened by it. I asked because of a post I saw earlier today, I will see if I find it. Most people hear come to ask how to get your crush or what to do, but not many posts about unrequited love and I think it happens in a lot of cases.
Yes is hard to give advice in situations like this
Time and
Self love
I would think ?
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
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See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
You have a lot of weird friends lol.
Well, I know you're feeling jelly cos' you're normal. It's okay. Lol
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Well i was including myself as well. May i ? 😛
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
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I never said you were wrong in your previous post 😉
Posted by clownloyal
first of all congrats on finding lovesecond unfortunately it was one sided, I am sorry about that
third you gotta get a revenge body w/ a revenge personality so they know they missed out on a great thing
four wait... you'll find love again hopefully it's mutual that time
1.Thanks!
2.I dont know if it's one sided yet..
3.Im sure he knows that, he always points at how look I good (in his eyes I suppose) lol he likes my personality too.
4.Yes! it will come. 🤗
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
I never said you were wrong in your previous post 😉
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Apology accepted 🙂
it still hurts though..
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
I never said you were wrong in your previous post 😉
Apology accepted 🙂
it still hurts though..
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I never apologized because I wasn't wrong or right. As for hurting, get you some tiger balm.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
I never said you were wrong in your previous post 😉
Apology accepted 🙂
it still hurts though..
I never apologized because I wasn't wrong or right. As for hurting, get you some tiger balm.
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Apology accepted 2.0.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
I never said you were wrong in your previous post 😉
Apology accepted 🙂
it still hurts though..
I never apologized because I wasn't wrong or right. As for hurting, get you some tiger balm.
Apology accepted 2.0.
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There's no dislike button so I'll just say I dislike this post.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
I never said you were wrong in your previous post 😉
Apology accepted 🙂
it still hurts though..
I never apologized because I wasn't wrong or right. As for hurting, get you some tiger balm.
Apology accepted 2.0.
There's no dislike button so I'll just say I dislike this post.
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hate you.. 😡
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
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He hasn't, but I haven't made initiative to have something with him because I think it will be pressuring, we just got back in contact after not talking for a while (dumb mistake) but he seems to be good. I'm sure he knows I like him. I think that he may just be scared that if he asks me i most likely will say yes..?
Eh, Idk we will see... it doesn't bother me at the moment, we have a good friendship and if it stays like that, is good. But it makes me feel uneasy to think that someday soon he might find someone so idk, I just don't have any expectations at the moment.
So I was posting this because of a post I saw about unrequited love and the video seemed painful, more like she wouldnt understand that she is being rejected. It wasn't about a cheating person, so it showed that she kept going after him and it said to stop and realize that it won't happen, and forget and look elsewhere BUT at some point it felt like they were portraying her as a victim because he doesn't love her and that doesn't make you a victim.
So, if someone feels like a victim for unrequited love, there's definitely a bigger issue.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
He hasn't, but I haven't made initiative to have something with him because I think it will be pressuring, we just got back in contact after not talking for a while (dumb mistake) but he seems to be good. I'm sure he knows I like him. I think that he may just be scared that if he asks me i most likely will say yes..?
Eh, Idk we will see... it doesn't bother me at the moment, we have a good friendship and if it stays like that, is good. But it makes me feel uneasy to think that someday soon he might find someone so idk, I just don't have any expectations at the moment.
So I was posting this because of a post I saw about unrequited love and the video seemed painful, more like she wouldnt understand that she is being rejected. It wasn't about a cheating person, so it showed that she kept going after him and it said to stop and realize that it won't happen, and forget and look elsewhere BUT at some point it felt like they were portraying her as a victim because he doesn't love her and that doesn't make you a victim.
So, if someone feels like a victim for unrequited love, there's definitely a bigger issue.
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Is that a CAP guy? ^^
Why would he be scared if you said yes?
I don't know your history with him but I think many men like it step by step, building things up slowly when it comes to relationships. We don't get too much credit for it but despite our image, we are romantics deep in our corazones. It just gives you a special thrill when you can build up the excitement slowly yet steady. Maybe you or many women for that matter in general are not patient enough. Like I said, depends on your history with him though.
Posted by Seleukos
Do the Aqua thing:
Unshackle your mind and allow yourself to get lost in your mind/visions/imaginations.
Go back to live behind the clouds for a while and then come back:
I did that for over a month and he didn't give up.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
He hasn't, but I haven't made initiative to have something with him because I think it will be pressuring, we just got back in contact after not talking for a while (dumb mistake) but he seems to be good. I'm sure he knows I like him. I think that he may just be scared that if he asks me i most likely will say yes..?
Eh, Idk we will see... it doesn't bother me at the moment, we have a good friendship and if it stays like that, is good. But it makes me feel uneasy to think that someday soon he might find someone so idk, I just don't have any expectations at the moment.
So I was posting this because of a post I saw about unrequited love and the video seemed painful, more like she wouldnt understand that she is being rejected. It wasn't about a cheating person, so it showed that she kept going after him and it said to stop and realize that it won't happen, and forget and look elsewhere BUT at some point it felt like they were portraying her as a victim because he doesn't love her and that doesn't make you a victim.
So, if someone feels like a victim for unrequited love, there's definitely a bigger issue.
Is that a CAP guy? ^^
Why would he be scared if you said yes?
I don't know your history with him but I think many men like it step by step, building things up slowly when it comes to relationships. We don't get too much credit for it but despite our image, we are romantics deep in our corazones. It just gives you a special thrill when you can build up the excitement slowly yet steady. Maybe you or many women for that matter in general are not patient enough. Like I said, depends on your history with him though.
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He is a Cap hahah
Well, yes it has been over a year since we know each other and now we are closer. 🙂
Yes I do like the building something little by little at least to make sure we can get along well as friends, I wouldn't jump in a relationship but I would try something.
The thing is that even now that we are closer is hard to adjust schedule to see each other .
I haven't verbally told him how I feel, but he does know what I'm looking for in a partner and I try to leave myself open to see him when we both can.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
He hasn't, but I haven't made initiative to have something with him because I think it will be pressuring, we just got back in contact after not talking for a while (dumb mistake) but he seems to be good. I'm sure he knows I like him. I think that he may just be scared that if he asks me i most likely will say yes..?
Eh, Idk we will see... it doesn't bother me at the moment, we have a good friendship and if it stays like that, is good. But it makes me feel uneasy to think that someday soon he might find someone so idk, I just don't have any expectations at the moment.
So I was posting this because of a post I saw about unrequited love and the video seemed painful, more like she wouldnt understand that she is being rejected. It wasn't about a cheating person, so it showed that she kept going after him and it said to stop and realize that it won't happen, and forget and look elsewhere BUT at some point it felt like they were portraying her as a victim because he doesn't love her and that doesn't make you a victim.
So, if someone feels like a victim for unrequited love, there's definitely a bigger issue.
Is that a CAP guy? ^^
Why would he be scared if you said yes?
I don't know your history with him but I think many men like it step by step, building things up slowly when it comes to relationships. We don't get too much credit for it but despite our image, we are romantics deep in our corazones. It just gives you a special thrill when you can build up the excitement slowly yet steady. Maybe you or many women for that matter in general are not patient enough. Like I said, depends on your history with him though.
He is a Cap hahah
Well, yes it has been over a year since we know each other and now we are closer. 🙂
Yes I do like the building something little by little at least to make sure we can get along well as friends, I wouldn't jump in a relationship but I would try something.
The thing is that even now that we are closer is hard to adjust schedule to see each other .
I haven't verbally told him how I feel, but he does know what I'm looking for in a partner and I try to leave myself open to see him when we both can.
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I KNEW it was a Cap lol
Well I guess you either continue waiting for him to do something, or you be more direct phyically and verbally or you use your female tricks to lure him. Do you dress up when you see him? I mean do you think he notices? Like wearing more make up, more parfum and hotter dresses, pants etc? If he is not too stupid he will notice and start being curious whether you do it for him or somebody else and then he will ask you about it or make comments about your looks maybe even become jealous - assumed he is interested in you.
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
And all of it works as a charm...lmao
Posted by WarAngel1
Sadly, nothing except a new love.Walking away cold hearted sometimes yields results once the other person pulls their head outta their ass.
Yesss!!! 👍
You havent changed 😆
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What do you mean? She used to have it between her legs! Now it’s just...fingers...and it lights up!
Huge change!!! Lol
Posted by Sheever
Your happiness should not depend on others. Self worth. Someone else will appreciate
Cliche!
We're all different - so the same thing may not work for everybody. But clarity and a change of perspective - are usually quite necessary. After all, the main reason you're still clinging to someone that dosn't share your feelings (unrequited love), is... false hope (self-delusions). Might still hurt for awhile - even after you gain enough clarity (due to feelings of rejection), but at least - at that point - you should be able to move on.
Also, there's this short article - about ways to get past the pain of unrequited love - which might help you understand some things (such as: why that happened in the first place / or why it keeps happening - if that's the case).
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-couch/201502/6-ways-get-past-the-pain-unrequited-love
Will definitely look at it.
It isn't my case right now but I'm trying to find this video that brought me to asking this question.
In the video it portrayed the person as the victim, like if it was humiliating to be rejected but the woman kept pursuing the guy and he clearly posed boundaries.
For me, I simply walk away if the person I'm interested into doesn't reciprocate and now days is easier because people walk in and out of your life all the time. Sadly.
Now, in my case I did that with the guy I like, I turned my back because he wouldn't show continuous interest, but he kept texting through various ways until he found me. I was clear, I told him I wasn't gonna waste my time with him, told him what I want and he did not say "I will do it" in fact, he didn't say nothing at all. But he has been persistently there.
I'm just waiting to see how this will continue to unfold. 🙂
Posted by Weeds
Kidnapping, voodoo, stalk them till they figure out a restraining order ain't doing shit.the usual..
Will that really works? Asking for a friend.
I find voodoo to be more of a novelty and not worth the effort.. taking blood and hair without people asking questions is really hard.
Kidnapping is great but they always have the urge to escape in the back of their minds.
Stalking works wonders in breaking down their will and really shows how much you care.
I actually think I do the stalking 👀 now I'm stuck with him, but I still don't know if it's reciprocated, but he's still there...
It takes a bit of patience. Sometimes you yourself lose interest and then they start stalking because they miss you.
That already happened and now he offered me to work along with him for the next years... but he doesn't make things clear as if he just wants a business partnership or more. and I don't ask, because I think that if he wanted more he would say, but some guys don't say it until they are sure which is fine too. I do know that he missed me.
Mm that's a bit of a pickle isn't it.
Maybe because when I am with him and I look at the way he looks at me and I feel something, which is different from others, even others who have said that they "love" me for years, their eyes don't tell me the same thing, it made me feel that they love me because they know I care about them and always will, but I don't see love.
In fact, when they (refering to my ex anda another guy) talk about their love for me, I feel like they don't know what love is, or that they just feel some sort of attachment.
Buy when I look at him I can't help but smile because it makes me feel safe.
See, that's what I have been saying, with Aquas, it's all about the eyes! I demand a serious apology from you or I will never like anything you say again, ever!
OP, I don't get why you are talking about unrequited love, since I can't see where he even rejected you...
I never said you were wrong in your previous post 😉
Apology accepted 🙂
it still hurts though..
I never apologized because I wasn't wrong or right. As for hurting, get you some tiger balm.
Apology accepted 2.0.
There's no dislike button so I'll just say I dislike this post.
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There is no dislike button because it would be overheated and require maintenance every hour!
So use like button and bitch! Same difference...😂
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Drown yourself in depressing music, drink your sorrows and cry.
Bad idea.
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Drown yourself in depressing music, drink your sorrows and cry.Bad idea.
Agreed. Bad idea.
Better to self-care than self-destruct.
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Only drink when i'm happy 🍺 lol
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Drown yourself in depressing music, drink your sorrows and cry.Bad idea.
Agreed. Bad idea.
Better to self-care than self-destruct.
Only drink when i'm happy 🍺 lol
Same here.
And only socially. I don't like to drink alone.
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+1👍
Finding someone else.
Writing, and writing, and more writing about it. Exorcise those feelings!
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