What things do you guys doing during dating time?

In my experiences there are something like this
dinner at fancy restaurants/go to the cinema,go to the park/go skiing/swimming,cook and spend nite-in at home watched movies/tv shows,travel together hang out with his/my friends
I'm asking because with my ex bfs we did all of things i told above after 2moths dated,but with my current guy,I feel like things is so slow,or it's just not normal dating?because after 4months dating he did not ask me to join his friends's events or hang out with his friends
Am I too overthinking ,is this to soon to introduce me with his friends or he is just not take this seriously? Or 3months with on/off make he need more time to introduce me? Or what?
All is great between us,unless that thing,it's bother me very much 😢
Let me hear your opinions/experiences.im so aprricitate it 😉

When I'm dating someone we typically do things like:

- Hang out with mutual friends
- Go for a walk
- Movies
- Meals at restaurants
- Sporting events

etc. etc.

If you haven't met his friends, then he's probably vetting you still. If it bothers you, just ask him.

Posted by Linhnguyen
... but with my current guy,I feel like things is so slow,or it's just not normal dating?
because after 4months dating he did not ask me to join his friends's events or hang out with his friends
Am I too overthinking ,is this to soon to introduce me with his friends or he is just not take this seriously? Or 3months with on/off make he need more time to introduce me? Or what?
All is great between us,unless that thing,it's bother me very much 😢
Let me hear your opinions/experiences.im so aprricitate it 😉

Wow

Have you even MET any of his friends?

What do you two do when you go out?

If you aren't out in public, I would very suspicious.

@impulsv : he is libra man 🙂
@montgomery : - one of his friend is friend of my friends,and I met that friend and the other 2 best female friends of my libra man,first time in weird nite after we broke up last time by accident (so I did not count this time )
And I met one of his female best friend again when we back together .
And that's all.
- we hang out as a real couple,go to fancy restaurants,movie,parks,go for a walk...etc i mean in public,he acted like he is my boyfriend,we holded hands,kiss. As a real couple.nothing to hide.
I'm planing to ask him this Sunday on our next date.but I don't want he think I'm obsessed about that,if that a not big deal,or should I wait more time? @.@
Thanks guy for the comments xoxo

I mean how many months this problem turn to be a problem ? We have deadline for that or it depend ? @.@

Weren't you just asking if this guy even liked you a few weeks ago? Now you been dating for several months?

I must be thinking of a different name.

Maybe he doesn't have any friends...is he a dork?

^ I think girls have a strange perception of time.

Talking to mutual friends about this supposed fling, when I said 3 days, they told me she thought it was 4 weeks... so yeah.

to OP, maybe your guy just likes to keep things separate. My friend time is generally just my friend time. And yeah 2 months? Provided your time perception skills are actually working, why don't you just invite yourself and see what he says.

Tks guys for opinions and now I'm confused.its depend on each people right? Week it's the best way to ask him and see what is going on?
Does he want to make sure more about us after on/off times? 😢 so after 2-4 months i have right reason to meet his friends if this guy is serious,right?

Posted by Linhnguyen
@impulsv : he is libra man 🙂
@montgomery : - one of his friend is friend of my friends,and I met that friend and the other 2 best female friends of my libra man,first time in weird nite after we broke up last time by accident (so I did not count this time )
And I met one of his female best friend again when we back together .
And that's all.
- we hang out as a real couple,go to fancy restaurants,movie,parks,go for a walk...etc i mean in public,he acted like he is my boyfriend,we holded hands,kiss. As a real couple.nothing to hide.
I'm planing to ask him this Sunday on our next date.but I don't want he think I'm obsessed about that,if that a not big deal,or should I wait more time? @.@
Thanks guy for the comments xoxo

Ok... well

Maybe he prefers being with just you.

Not everyone is super social and wants to

hang out in groups all the time.

I wouldn't worry about it so much.

When I was dating with someone..usually we are inseperable. the only time we are not with each other was when we are at work and asleep.

Activities

+ Eat together be it restaurants, dinner on his place or my place
+ watch movies
+ go bowling
+ hangout either in his place or my place

In all cases, I get to meet all of his close friends (real friends and childhood friends)and then meet his parents and his other relatives. When that happens I introduce him to my friends and family as well. the kids get to meet us both after 6 months.

If it all turns out great and my child likes him then he can start to go with me to school activities etc.

Honestly I don't mind meeting his friends or family at all within the 1year mark. I dont even have a time for it. I just enjoy the ride and see where it will lead us. I like to date with the me and him in mind.