@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts
What's so scary to be in love
Feeling vulnerable maybe..?
Once you fall in love, your heart opens, your feelings come out and it feels incredible (and vice versa) .but it can be scary because you've opened yourself. .
So what if you open up to a person?
Do you have some homeland security info to protect?
I think people get scared of being hurt emotionally by the other person.
I know what you mean though.
I think dumping someone is a bit extreme though.
Maybe the dumping come from not being ready?
Love is a complex thing eh!
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?
I lost count of the many times I used this^
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?
I lost count of the many times I used this^
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How dare you? Lol
Can't be honest and say - you are a sloppy kisser!!! Enough!
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?
I lost count of the many times I used this^
How dare you? Lol
Can't be honest and say - you are a sloppy kisser!!! Enough!
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LOL!!! True that!!!—
I really dunno why even do that
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?
I lost count of the many times I used this^
How dare you? Lol
Can't be honest and say - you are a sloppy kisser!!! Enough!
LOL!!! True that!!!—
I really dunno why even do that
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Chicken! Lol
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?
I lost count of the many times I used this^
How dare you? Lol
Can't be honest and say - you are a sloppy kisser!!! Enough!
LOL!!! True that!!!—
I really dunno why even do that
Chicken! Lol
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Ikr ??
Love itself isn't the scary part, it's the fear of going through the pain of losing that love that makes people run away.
Posted by Deedee86
Love itself isn't the scary part, it's the fear of going through the pain of losing that love that makes people run away.
That's what strikes me as dumb! Let's lose it before I lost it? What—
Posted by Deedee86
Love itself isn't the scary part, it's the fear of going through the pain of losing that love that makes people run away.That's what strikes me as dumb! Let's lose it before I lost it? What—
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Have you ever lost someone you were deeply in love with?
I would rather be alone forever than go through that pain again.
Posted by Deedee86
Love itself isn't the scary part, it's the fear of going through the pain of losing that love that makes people run away.That's what strikes me as dumb! Let's lose it before I lost it? What—
Have you ever lost someone you were deeply in love with?
I would rather be alone forever than go through that pain again.
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So now no one should fall in love and being love because they might lose them?
What a logic!!!
Let's not be happy because it might end?
I am in pain for years and would
not ever want my love not to happen! Because moments are amazing!
Yes it hurts 99% of the time so...it's price
for happiness!
Posted by PootyButt
Right now I feel like dying. I know I'll get over it, but it's the shittiest feeling in the world, and nothing will make it stop except time. If I had avoided love, I wouldn't be feeling it. That is what people are afraid of, and frankly, you know it. I remember those threads you've posted begging people to explain to you why a broken heart hurts so much.
Oh I know is just as I type it.
But avoiding it is like avoiding life itself!
Specially at younger age?
And it is still going to happen! Marriage kids erc.
Posted by PootyButt
Right now I feel like dying. I know I'll get over it, but it's the shittiest feeling in the world, and nothing will make it stop except time. If I had avoided love, I wouldn't be feeling it. That is what people are afraid of, and frankly, you know it. I remember those threads you've posted begging people to explain to you why a broken heart hurts so much.
How long have been in this position?
Just want to tell you embrace yiurself.
Time is not a good healer.
Time doesn't give a crap! Lol
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Why do I read it all the time that people dumping people because they are scared of their feelings that are getting deeper?
What's so bad about falling in love?
How horrific really is it?
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?