When an ex comes back

How many of you guys have had an ex try to pop back up after years of being apart what’s the story behind it?

This comes off the back of my own experience I was split from an ex for 4-5 years within that time I have had another relationship and had children with my current partner 🥳 and we are still happily in the relationship engaged to be married.

Within the first year of our relationship I had a friend request on fb from my ex in early 23 just randomly I did not accept it no way.

I told my partner about it after our weekend away because I didn’t want it to ruin our weekend. She wasn’t too happy about it but just got on with it anyway.

My ex was very manipulative and use to gaslight me I was so blind at the time as I was in love with her but after giving my all to her and her children It changed me as a person.

When I eventually come out of the relationship or non relationship as she use to call us just friends I was someone I didn’t recognise anymore it destroyed me as I gave so much of myself to it.

Anyway I took no notice of the request and just went about my business hell to the no would I ever jeopardise what I have or let her back in!!

Within a day the request was gone as she must of taken it away.

Fast forward to now 25 - 26 New Year’s Eve I was led watching fireworks when all of a sudden I had another request come through yet again from my ex this is 2-3 years down the line now like wtf.

Once again I ignored it and just went about my business and sure enough by the next day the request was gone again.

Why keep on trying to add me we have been split quite awhile now and she was the one who played games and messed around while I stuck by her side.

She also had another relationship and seen other people the question is why?

The audacity of it is beyond me lol

I am finally happy after trying to recreate myself and find the old person I once was after all that toxic stuff.