Why would a guy text you how's your day and then when you write back he ignores you?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Stensco21 on Wednesday, November 22, 2017 and has 21 replies.

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And then I said good night and he never wrote back? Like what's the point of even texting. The day before he told me to text him after we hung out and I forgot and then the next day he said how's your day? At like noon and then ignored me the rest of the day

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He's at work.

He's driving.

His phone is on silent.

His phone is off.

His phone battery died and he didn't have his charger.

He read the text but got distracted by work and forgot to respond.

There are literally a ton of reasons. Chill out and stop taking things so serious and personal. It's a freakin text dude.

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Posted by Stensco21
And then I said good night and he never wrote back? Like what's the point of even texting. The day before he told me to text him after we hung out and I forgot and then the next day he said how's your day? At like noon and then ignored me the rest of the day

He was already asleep.

His phone was turned off.

His phone was charging and on silent.

Jesus Christ dude! He texted you the following day.

How is it ignoring you...? Most people have work or school or other shit going on. If he gets back to you and it's not immediately after you sent the text it's not the end of the world.

Your gonna have to get over these insecurities you have if you want to ever have a successful relationship.

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i’ve been wondering the same thing for years. tbh I think they like to waste my time and get my hopes up.

with one guy I straight up went off at one point and go “I don’t know why you waste your energy asking me how my days going when you’re not going to reply anyways. there’s no point and now you’re just wasting your and my time.”

his response: “sorry”

LOL. i’ll never understand, and there’s no point in even questioning it anymore. some people are inept

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
i’ve been wondering the same thing for years. tbh I think they like to waste my time and get my hopes up.

with one guy I straight up went off at one point and go “I don’t know why you waste your energy asking me how my days going when you’re not going to reply anyways. there’s no point and now you’re just wasting your and my time.”

his response: “sorry”

LOL. i’ll never understand, and there’s no point in even questioning it anymore. some people are inept

Exactly!! It's just games. I've actually gone off on guys who tried to pull this with me. It's a big big turn off.

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Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by pisceswoman123
🙄 So annoying when they are so immature...

You all are the immature ones if you are judging maturity levels on speed of text responses. Jc.

I don’t think so. To have a mature relationship you need to able to communicate. Not playing games.

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Texting is not communicating. Communication happens face to face.

Playing games is texting your dude while you know he's busy at work and then pouting when he doesn't text you back immediately.

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Posted by blvckphase

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by pisceswoman123
🙄 So annoying when they are so immature...

You all are the immature ones if you are judging maturity levels on speed of text responses. Jc.

I don’t think so. To have a mature relationship you need to able to communicate. Not playing games.

OP just said she wasn't really interested in him anyways though.. And they weren't in a relationship. No idea why this thread even happened then.. Now I am just confused.

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Ok, I am confused too 😂 Maybe they are meant for each other’s