
It means no nagging



Posted by Sagittaire_2 peas in a pod ! We can be such assholes, huh! ๐๐๐Posted by saggurl88
You're not supposed to go away and be unreachable. That's annoying. If he likes you he will want to see you. I never get bored of seeing a person I'm interested in. The key is seeing them in person. I won't sit on a phone all day or text for hours.
We like freedom to do what we want without you nagging or cookiemonstering. We don't want to hear your complaints when we don't want to do what you want us to do. We make our own choices. lol We will compromise on our own terms too. If we like you, we will go all out for you and be extra nice and do lots of things for you. But with me I have to know your not the type that takes advantage of that, so I won't do that at first. The more time you spend with me and the more I like you, the more I unravel and give you everything.
The only time I need space is when I don't like you. I always throw stuff out and retract too. He probably meant what he said, he just tried to be light hearted about it. There are always truths in our jokes.
Hahahahaha i chuckled hard at this ๐
But OP.. This.. exactly what she said.
Space = let us be ourselves and do whatever we want and dont cookiemonster about it.
You want to come wherever we go? Fine. We love doing things together. But dont nag when we dont stay at 5 stars hotel if you want to travel with us.. dont nag when your hair is messy coz we chose to walk than wait.. dont cookiemonster about the food.. just... dont.. nag.. we hate people who constantly complain over little things.
You want attention and effort, you can get it naturally if you dont force him to do so or play mind games.
For us, Out of sight = out of mind
There's no such things as absence makes the heart grow fonder..
Your tactic will work against you if you do that click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Celesti
Thanks for the clarification everyone. I'm not playing any kind of games, I hate games. I usually go away because I've got things I need to do and I say so. But when I read Sagg need space, I think that must mean alone time, but I wasn't feeling that vibe, you know? That's why I came here to ask, so confusing. Everyone says space, no one says anything about the nagging. Yea, I hate nagging too, I understand now.
About the throwing comments out and retracting, what's that all about? Is it, oops I shouldn't have said that, let me take it back?

Posted by Sagittaire_You may not be, but I am one ๐ Must be the Sag mercury lolPosted by saggurl88Posted by Sagittaire_Posted by saggurl88
You're not supposed to go away and be unreachable. That's annoying. If he likes you he will want to see you. I never get bored of seeing a person I'm interested in. The key is seeing them in person. I won't sit on a phone all day or text for hours.
We like freedom to do what we want without you nagging or cookiemonstering. We don't want to hear your complaints when we don't want to do what you want us to do. We make our own choices. lol We will compromise on our own terms too. If we like you, we will go all out for you and be extra nice and do lots of things for you. But with me I have to know your not the type that takes advantage of that, so I won't do that at first. The more time you spend with me and the more I like you, the more I unravel and give you everything.
The only time I need space is when I don't like you. I always throw stuff out and retract too. He probably meant what he said, he just tried to be light hearted about it. There are always truths in our jokes.
Hahahahaha i chuckled hard at this ๐
But OP.. This.. exactly what she said.
Space = let us be ourselves and do whatever we want and dont cookiemonster about it.
You want to come wherever we go? Fine. We love doing things together. But dont nag when we dont stay at 5 stars hotel if you want to travel with us.. dont nag when your hair is messy coz we chose to walk than wait.. dont cookiemonster about the food.. just... dont.. nag.. we hate people who constantly complain over little things.
You want attention and effort, you can get it naturally if you dont force him to do so or play mind games.
For us, Out of sight = out of mind
There's no such things as absence makes the heart grow fonder..
Your tactic will work against you if you do that click to expand
2 peas in a pod ! We can be such markers, huh! ๐๐๐ click to expand
Lol not markers... just being real ๐โ๐ click to expandclick to expand

This makes so much more sense now, thank you ๐
I do it because I want to get out what I want to say and it will just be to see what you're reaction to it is. If you take it well, I will know I can keep saying nice stuff. If you take it badly then I know to keep my mouth shut and not say that type of stuff again. It's like testing the water for me.
I do it when it's a little heavier then the typical light flirting stuff.
What sign are you? click to expand

Posted by CelestiBut you are the type of Libra that can have open relationships and juggle a few people in rotation just for balance ? ๐ ๐
I do it because I want to get out what I want to say and it will just be to see what you're reaction to it is. If you take it well, I will know I can keep saying nice stuff. If you take it badly then I know to keep my mouth shut and not say that type of stuff again. It's like testing the water for me.
I do it when it's a little heavier then the typical light flirting stuff.
What sign are you? click to expand
This makes so much more sense now, thank you
I'm a Libra, but not a typical Libra in the way that some of them are about materialistic things/social status quo or that need to be in a partnership/relationship, I have a lot of Fire/Air in my chart. click to expandclick to expand
No, actually haven't been in a relationship in years, never had a people in rotation either. But thanks for your other input. :p
But you are the type of Libra that can have open relationships and juggle a few people in rotation just for balance ? click to expand
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