A little Chat

I've been with my Saggy for nearly 4 months now. Things are going pretty well (considering I'm a Taurus); he's affectionate, makes time for me, is interested in what's happening in my life etc.

Recently he's been having financial, job and family worries and has been getting increasingly stressed, although he still makes time to see me and doesn't let it affect us much.

So last night, out of the blue he tells me that he's very happy and he hasn't felt a connection like this for years. He then starts telling me about how if I'd have met him a year ago, he wouldn't have understood the value of the bond we have as he was too bothered about material things and that now he's 'suffered' through the past 6 months he realises there is more to life and that it has changed him for the better. He also went on to say that although he has always wanted a proper relationship (we have been dating exlcusively since we first met) he never actively sought it and was happy to have casual encounters and then move on, he enjoyed the freedom. He said this had changed when he met me and that he was still getting used to it, but he stressed that this was not a bad thing, just a different thing for him and that he loved spending time with me etc. He mentioned that he usually had the 'grass is greener' syndrome (I do too actually, might be my Gem moon/Sag Rising!), but that he wasn't feeling that with me at all, and that again was a new experience for him but it wasn't a bad thing. And then to top it off he said he was still nervous when it came to sex with me (we waited about a month before we first slept together), and that he had always been nervous in this area with everyone, but that because we were in a relationship he felt the pressure more; with the casual encounters he said it hadn't mattered to him as he knew it meant nothing. I had noticed that he felt some degree of pressure, sometimes he doesn't seem to be 'in the moment' as it were, as if he's concentrating on his technique waaaay too much!

I suppose I'd just like you Saggy's to tell me if you think this conversation is a good sign. It felt like he was trying to pay me a compliment in a roundabout way and he stressed afterwards that he was very happy and hadn't felt like this about anyone for years.

Oh yeah, and he also said that he wasn't sure if he was seeing me too much/too little, like he said he didn't understand anymore the kind of 'dating rules' and stuff. I just said that we should see each other as much as we feel like really!

This is exactly what I said to my scorpio lol. Sags are so naive about what a romantic relationship is. What it should look like, how it should feel, ect. We are like little children that need to be pushed along to get how to do things. We are the sign of freedom and friendship. We are really child like in a way. We aren't like a libra where their sign is based on relationships, or a caring considerate cancer, or emotional pisces. We are just like so use to being alone and going from place to place, person to person and not a real care in the world. So whenever someone comes along in a nice (not pushy way) and teaches us how to grow up a bit and have a stable relationship, we really appreciate a teaching. Sags love to learn. So I'm totally sure he was paying you a very high compliment. I've done the same🙂

Thanks Sagittarius89 🙂

I can totally understand what you mean when you say you Saggys are used to being alone and moving from place to place etc. This is the impression I have of how he was before he met me. It's almost like this whole thing is new to him; like making plans and spending quality with another person that doesn't involve having to be busy if that makes sense. Some of the best times we've shared have been when we've just sat and watched films and chatted all the way through. He definitely has a more adventourous streak than me, but I love the fact that he pushes me to force myself out of my comfort zone!

^^ Thats sweet🙂 I like you taurus. You love at the prefect medium🙂