are we saggis hard to read?

ive been noticing a few threads where people cant pick up on if we like them or not..

Posted by crabcakesandmayo
Quite the opposite 🙂

agree

the posters wanted to know how does a sag act when they are in love or like you?


i think its pretty obvious but perception is the reality. yeah sutekh, i hear ya with the water, makes things a bit cloudy. but even so, i think i through out certain signals. maybe the love language is off between the 2.

Posted by Sutekh
But I guess in that sense yes. Because of the flirting with many people, sometimes people think that we really like them when its harmless flirting. Then they are intrigued then wonder why we don't follow up.

so if a sag guy is flirting with 2 girls..which one does he really like? if any...

same with sag women, if you treat everyone the same, how does your lover know that you like him?

Posted by Sutekh
easy to read

That is of course unless you have a Cancer asc, Scorpio moon, .. Sag is wedged and hidden in between two bowls of water.


- I suck at lying
- my face tells the whole story
- Im so un tactful that at times where I should lie just to save others time, feelings, money whatever, the truth just comes out anyway.

its so hard to lie. exactly, i have no poker face sometimes.

Posted by crabcakesandmayo
I dated a Pisces sun/Sag moon once and without spitting on any of the individual signs, it was by far THE worst experience in my life. Too pushy, too emotional, too detached, too needy and too of everything and it was NEVER his fault , ever, and it was always " OOOMMYYGOODDD I CAN NEVER DO AAAANNNYYTHINNG RIGHT 😢 😢

I had to amputate him.

But back to Saggis. All I've known and met have always been very upfront. No bs. No lies. Tactless at times, yes, but I appreciate that because I don't have to waste energy trying to figure something out.

ive learned with fishies is to leave them be, but i deal in reality so you can see the disconnect. you cant even bring anything to their attention without them trying to swim their way out of trouble. man please

Posted by Rockthenerds
For scorps maybe we make it hard to read sags when they're are really not, we're looking for more, the meaning behind this, the truth behind that, but yes you guys are very direct. I think that's where most of these threads are coming up, people just afraid to disappoint their sag, they want everything to be perfect because sags come off as perfect.

Posted by DMV

Posted by Sutekh
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so if a sag guy is flirting with 2 girls..which one does he really like? if any...

same with sag women, if you treat everyone the same, how does your lover know that you like him?

Hmm, in a relationship or flirting? Sag always makes me feel special and appreciated.

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flirting wise...

yeah my sag sister does come off as perfect.

I am a Sag and we are just really friendly, which can sometimes come off as if we are filrting, the truth is when we like someone we are much more catious, we dont tough the person we dont flirt it is just weird to us we become very awkward!

I think we are very straightforward. Although a water moon can muddy that a little.

It's funny, as long as I know a guy won't violate and grab my butt or something, I'll be friendly. I never thought of myself as a flirt until I said, "Blah blah...uz I don't flirt..." and about 4 guys were like *ahem ahem cough cough*. I was like, "Really?". Lol. I never noticed.

But if im feeling a guy, and it isn't known, I'm very conservative. If he makes it seems as though he likes me, I become very playful and pick on him or play fight with him a lot. I'm weird if I like a man.

I think it's hard to tell when we are being serious or joking. And when it's serious how serious is it>?

Prefer NOT lying......but ONLY lie to protect myself or others..... 😉
I only have one water sign but half fire signs in my chart...... Am I easy to be read—

Not really! I only let others read the part that I would like to be read......😛
Otherwise, I never tell, then nobody can read me at all. 😏

Prefer NOT lying......but ONLY lie to protect myself or others..... 😉
I only have one water sign but half fire signs in my chart...... Am I easy to be read—

Not really! I only let others read the part that I would like to be read......😛
Otherwise, I never tell, then nobody can read me at all. 😏

I'm hard to read. I've missed out on some things because I didn't appear interested, when in reality it was quite the opposite.

Im a Sag male and I agree with everybody about Pisces. My two worst relationships were with them. Too much of everything and it all was my fault lol. Ok, call me when you've figured things out. Better yet...don't call me. I don't think that we're hard to read at all. Most of us, when we like you, will pursue you and make our intentions known. This can be dangerous, depending upon the person because we tend to be too trusting and subject to manipulation. But, our instincts are very sharp and we have a strong bs and manipulation detector lol. It does seems like we're flirting, and often times I've been accused of it when I wasn't even doing it. I even discovered that a female friend liked me because she got jealous. I was like, if you wanted to flirt with a guy while I was around, I wouldn't have a problem because I have no interest in you. Honestly though, I think us males get a bad rap on commitment. While there are cheaters in every sign, the male Sag is probably more scrutinizing when it comes to commitment than Libras. It's not about the perfect partner per se, but we're very cautious as to who we settle down with. We tend to be more romantic than our female counterparts but since we're a mutable sign, our mind changes a lot. As for reading us, we're not hard to read at all because we want to be honest and genuine with the people we date. Just need to be more tactful.

Other than the guy I mentioned, Sags are one of the few signs I don't analyze, and don't feel the need to analyze. I wonder if it was his Libra moon *in combination* with his Sag sun that made him hard for me to read. Usually I'm good at grasping people's personalities, but there's always a fickle few.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Im a Sag male and I agree with everybody about Pisces. My two worst relationships were with them. Too much of everything and it all was my fault lol. Ok, call me when you've figured things out. Better yet...don't call me. I don't think that we're hard to read at all. Most of us, when we like you, will pursue you and make our intentions known. This can be dangerous, depending upon the person because we tend to be too trusting and subject to manipulation. But, our instincts are very sharp and we have a strong bs and manipulation detector lol. It does seems like we're flirting, and often times I've been accused of it when I wasn't even doing it. I even discovered that a female friend liked me because she got jealous. I was like, if you wanted to flirt with a guy while I was around, I wouldn't have a problem because I have no interest in you. Honestly though, I think us males get a bad rap on commitment. While there are cheaters in every sign, the male Sag is probably more scrutinizing when it comes to commitment than Libras. It's not about the perfect partner per se, but we're very cautious as to who we settle down with. We tend to be more romantic than our female counterparts but since we're a mutable sign, our mind changes a lot. As for reading us, we're not hard to read at all because we want to be honest and genuine with the people we date. Just need to be more tactful.

sag men do get a bad rep with the cheating thing. i think most women expect to be the only one and they arent. sag men can be elusive. its not even really cheating its dating.

Posted by DMV

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Im a Sag male and I agree with everybody about Pisces. My two worst relationships were with them. Too much of everything and it all was my fault lol. Ok, call me when you've figured things out. Better yet...don't call me. I don't think that we're hard to read at all. Most of us, when we like you, will pursue you and make our intentions known. This can be dangerous, depending upon the person because we tend to be too trusting and subject to manipulation. But, our instincts are very sharp and we have a strong bs and manipulation detector lol. It does seems like we're flirting, and often times I've been accused of it when I wasn't even doing it. I even discovered that a female friend liked me because she got jealous. I was like, if you wanted to flirt with a guy while I was around, I wouldn't have a problem because I have no interest in you. Honestly though, I think us males get a bad rap on commitment. While there are cheaters in every sign, the male Sag is probably more scrutinizing when it comes to commitment than Libras. It's not about the perfect partner per se, but we're very cautious as to who we settle down with. We tend to be more romantic than our female counterparts but since we're a mutable sign, our mind changes a lot. As for reading us, we're not hard to read at all because we want to be honest and genuine with the people we date. Just need to be more tactful.

sag men do get a bad rep with the cheating thing. i think most women expect to be the only one and they arent. sag men can be elusive. its not even really cheating its dating.

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i just have to comment on this. Sag female here.

First, it depends on other aspects. I'm pisces moon - so i'm way too emotional for a sag, then, Venus in Cap - very reserved and finally, Mars in Aqua - talkative, and when in mood (witch is very often 🙂 ) flirtatious.

When I was younger, I had a lot of weight which made me insecure, to the point where I believed I wasn0t good enough for anyone, and I could't believe a guy was really interested in me. The fact that I was super smart, funny and cute, and was told so, didn't get to me at all.

Then I went to college and my personality exploded, and I got to the point where I was aware of guy's intentions, but still had doubts if I was good enough. And hence the confusion. I would start to flirt intensively, with no shame, like another person,and back off. 😢 uhhhhhhh

And the 3rd final phase. I lost around 55 pounds, and spent months on building confidence. Then I became a true SAG in a way: direct! I like You, I show You, I tell You! If You aren't interested that's fine, thanks, You are making room for a better Man. I have an attitude which is complete now: I'm smart, funny, sexy, good looking, radiant, and ocassionaly just ocassionaly shy 🙂 That's me. I guess the age or maturing and making a peace with me contributed to that.

So I get it when people are confused by Sags. I'm confused by me, and I'm a Sag 🙂

Oh nooooooooooo I'm so sorry for posting 3 times, can someone please remove 2 posts! I got the message: 500 internal server error, and tried again and again to post my message, and now i see it 3 times! 😢 so sorry everyone!