How to tell if doesnt like you!

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@CherryOnTop
14 YearsGemini

Gem sun/Venus in Leo

Whenever I have to associate with someone I don't like, I'll first evaluate their usefulness. Can this person possibly help me get what I want? lol If the answer is yes, I will fluff their egos, kill them with kindness and basically do anything that's within my power to make them like me so they'll help me get what I want. lol

I'm not proud of this tactic but I'm not going to make unnecessary enemies out of people who may be in a good position to help me.

But if not, then I just won''t associate with them. lol They have to be useful in some kind of way.

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@Xin
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Gemini Sun/Taurus Venus

I usually give the death stare and give off pretty obvious body language signals such as crossed arms or I stay a distance away. Now that's only in a group setting because there are several diversions going on that I can get away with and cover it with masks. But one on one I will be very nice as soon as you leave it's shit talking time. Once in a while if they are rude and cross the line with me it's on.

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@westside
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

sun gemini/venus cancer
i make it a point to either look in the opposite direction of you or not mind you at all when you look at me. i make it a point to treat you different than everyone else, and not in a polite way until i think its established that i dont want anything to do with you. after this i treat them the same as anyone else.

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@westside
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

at first i thought we were discussing attractions, but if its an individual that i dont like then i will either a) treat them better than everyone else or b) treat them alittle worse than normally(depending on my mood).

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@Xin
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Oh is this romantically? Woops! Ok I just thought this topic was meant in general.

If I don't like you, I ignore you like the black plague.

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@libnicole84
14 YearsLibra

Sun Libra Venus scorpio... I dont initiate contact If I see you I'll act like we never met before.. If you talk to me depending on the extent of the dislike I'll be civil but if I absolutely am disgusted with you I'll flat out ignore you to your face.

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@AccurateAries
15 YearsAries

Sun - Aries
Venus - Taurus

If I don't like the person I'll just avoid them, but if not i'll just
probably remain neutral and talk to them subliminally for fun.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Sag89
Sag Sun/ Venus Aqua

I will just say I don't like you.

And when I see them in person don't talk at all or give any eye contact.

Same

Sag Sun/ Venus Cap

I completely ignore...look right past...leave the immediate area when they enter it.
If they try to talk to me I will pretend I don't hear them...and in an instance when it is impossible to do so I give them the bitchiest look of their life and answer them as shortly and as unhelpful as possible.

It's usually not a secret.

& if asked if I have a problem with you...my answer will be "yep."

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@Sag89
14 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by brianafay
Posted by Sag89
Sag Sun/ Venus Aqua

I will just say I don't like you.

And when I see them in person don't talk at all or give any eye contact.

Same

Sag Sun/ Venus Cap

I completely ignore...look right past...leave the immediate area when they enter it.
If they try to talk to me I will pretend I don't hear them...and in an instance when it is impossible to do so I give them the bitchiest look of their life and answer them as shortly and as unhelpful as possible.

It's usually not a secret.

& if asked if I have a problem with you...my answer will be "yep."

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It's how it's gotta be!

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

The freeze. You don't exist if I don't like you OR I will be a little too overly, coldly polite. Possibly some snide, but polite, remarks if I am forced to interact with them and they are showing their ass.

Cap Sun
Scorpio Venus

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@LouLore
15 Years500+ PostsPisces

Pisces/Taurus

There isn't anyone i don't like.

I used to tell myself this when i was younger. and while partly its true, as i get older i find a sort of satisfaction in finding people i don't like. Especially woman.

I normally love woman, and am totally into being transparent and kind with woman i don't know very well, but if someone gives me weird vibes, i will ignore, yet sometimes stare at them with semi hateful feelings from across the room if were at a social event together, for example.

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@doubletrouble
14 Years

don't contact, don't reciprocate. I'm somewhere else & way ahead of ya. if I'm ignoring you, chances are you ain't my favorite sandwich (taurus rising there). alllllllways find a way out. bullshit bullshit.

"I'm just too busy, sorry!"

pisces/pisces, mars gem

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@leilaxxlovez
16 Years500+ Posts

Cap sun/ aqua venus

It depends. If I have a really good reason why I dont like a person, they will know. I'll be cold and seriously detached with them...not really giving them the time of day

But if its someone I just do not like...I'll be friendly with them, and all cz I don't really have a reason.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

It's pretty rare I out and out dislike someone. If I do not there's usually a damned good reason.

Sun Tau/Venus in Pisces.

They do not exist. Their very presence is distasteful, I will remove myself from it.

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@rebecca83
15 Years

Aries sun / Venus... no idea

With people I just don't care about either way - neither like them, nor dislike them - I'll just be cold and polite and, occasionally, when in a really good mood, even be nice or extra nice to them (as if to compensate for all the coldness of my not-so-great moods).
With people I actively dislike... Well, as a fire sign I'm pretty intense, when I like someone I like them A LOT, but the same goes for people I dislike... I end up finding them repulsive! So I try to physically keep my distance from them and, in extreme cases, I even get a disgusted look on my face when forced by circumstances to interact with such people.
Again, this at a strictly personal level, with no one else involved but me and the "repulsive" person. If it's a professional or social context, I'll just smile and try to be nice. That usually does the trick πŸ™‚
Oh, and one last category. Potential partners I'm not interested in. Like unrequited "love" sort of thing. I just hit IGNORE, like they don't even exist at all. Mean, I know, but I've also been at the receiving end of that sort of attitude and it didn't kill me πŸ™‚

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@CreepyPants
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Cap sun/venus

I've behaved a couple different ways... I'll either nothing the person, and respond with monosyllabic responses if necessary. OR Ive put forth a little effort to get to know them more to figure out why they are so unlikable to me... Only in the cases where contact is frequent and unavoidable... Esp if I have to rely on them. Ie. @work.

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@OProserpina
14 YearsVirgo

Virgo

I look down at my crossed arms in front of me, and look up slowly so deep in their eyes with the most fiery look from the depths of hades I can conjure. Then I just don't speak to them.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Sun-Scorp/Venus-Sag. If I don't like you, there is never any confusion. I am curt, but "polite" enough if for whatever reason we must interact (e.g. co-workers). I keep my distance and will pretty much ignore you until you get out of line (e.g. say something I deem inappropriate, throw a personal dig or "bother me" when I am minding my own business) and then we will have words, and I will make you regret getting out of line with me. Once you are on my shit list you stay there, no if, and or butts. Why? Because there are too many people in the world for me to give a rat's arse about making nice with you anyway. Just crawl in a deep hole because you are dead to me. Give it some time (length varies) I honestly won't ever think about you again unless someone else brings up your name. I've been known to walk right past an acquaintance/ex-co worker/ex boyfriend that I've seen on the street even when they are smiling at me.....Yeah, I know. It's not good for the soul to hold a grudge I'm working on it. But at the moment I'm not one of the nicest Scorps you'll meet if you cross me.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by Sutekh
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Libra/aries
Don't bother with them but remain polite if need be.

not possible

It is if you need to be for for the bigger picture.

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Smiley Yup. You may not like someone in business, but you're not (I hope if you are smart) going to be rude and disrespectful if it will effect you negatively. You suck it up, tolerate them, but as I do, let them in subtle and not so subtle ways possible "THIS is just business" (e.g no small talk, no business lunches, don't ask me about my weekend, etc.)