— CONTROL ??

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Ahh-- you lovely SAGITTARIANS.

And you are lovely-- I have more Sags in my world than any other sign.

But I must ask:

Do you feel as though you must be in control, at all times?

I don't mean "self-control"-- I mean like "I am the Captain of This Ship" control.

And if so -- why?

It seems as though you view the people close to you as an extension of yourself, to be carried along with you, part and parcel, wherever your next adventure may lead.

This isn't meant to be offensive; I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from.

Instead of being offended, myself. 😄

Any input would be much appreciated.

*braces self for incoming fiery darts*

*or total avoidance*

But that's another Sag topic. 🙂

No I'm way to lazy to give a shit about controlling other people. Sometimes saggies just really fly by the seat of their pants and that may seem like control cause they just come in and out of your life as they please.

But I've never seen a saggie do that intentionally to hurt someone it is just they are on that adventure horse you know?

Posted by Sag89
No I'm way to lazy to give a shit about controlling other people. Sometimes saggies just really fly by the seat of their pants and that may seem like control cause they just come in and out of your life as they please.

But I've never seen a saggie do that intentionally to hurt someone it is just they are on that adventure horse you know?

Ok-- that makes some sense.

I like that explanation.

Thanks 🙂

Posted by M
That does show up a lot with the ones around me, but in the form of doing things their way. It's their world and we just live in it 😛

Yes!

That's it-- it's a little infuriating, tbh.

Makes me feel guilty when I have to explain why I'm not on the bandwagon.

No, it isn't personal-- yes, I think you're fabulous-- but no, I'll take my own car, thanks. 🙂

Posted by cheekyfaerie
I feel like I'm totally an extension of my Sag friends. They wanna show me their world and i better have something to bring to the plate in return. It's an adventure. *Everything* is an adventure.

And I can relate to working on Sag Time. One can let it ruffle them or just accept that the Sag's child like, wonderous nature prevails. It can be maddening or part of their charm. Ha. Sometimes both. 🙂

Yeah-- it can. 😄

Sounds like they are oblivious-- and the more I think about it, and read responses-- the more I tend to agree.

Just spent the majority of the day with my Sag bff, and we (of course) had a fabulous time.

But with Sags, you will (well, I will) even have fun at the grocery (we did).

🙂

Thanks, everyone

I always thought it was my Leo moon that gave me the need to organize my loved ones.

I'm very selective and I do view my people as an extension of myself.

I won't tell someone what to do with their life...I'm not controlling over anyone but myself...but I do naturally take the lead and "mother" those close to me

Teaching and low tolerance for bull crap equals the perception of trying to be controlling. Most of the time, west people do them and expect the same

I can relate I have my Mercury, Venus and Rising in Sagittarius. Like with most people in my life I like to share my world to an extent, some people give off a vibe they don't want that kind of friendship/relationship so I stay back. In my mind I'm a avid traveler and with every adventure I take in life I'm taking the close ones with me. I don't think I like impose my life style choices on others though if anything I'm very understanding of people's choices to how they treat or live there life. I can only judge myself the most and try and guide myself in the right direction.

i only want control if what i want is taking too long or i don't trust things will go the way i know they should if others take the wheel.
other that those times, i just wanna kick back and chiiillllllllll.......