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Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
Posted by DepthAndDeathTo me it seems as if they have no value for themselves no standards they just sleep around with just about anyone...
Shows low self esteem such as.. ?
Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
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So if one is comfortable with their sexuality, you think it's low self esteem?
You need to be more elaborate here, dear. There's those who sleep around for the attention/actual self esteem issues, and then there's just some who do it because they just like sex.
Differentiate.
Don't get me wrong, I agree with you, but to an extent.
You need to be more elaborate here, dear. There's those who sleep around for the attention/actual self esteem issues, and then there's just some who do it because they just like sex.
Differentiate.
Don't get me wrong, I agree with you, but to an extent.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamIf you have a high sex drive one very compatible partner multiple times could be enough... when choosing partners to sleep with I believe you must be picky because this is your body and energy you sharing with them so pick & choose those worthy of it.
So if one is comfortable with their sexuality, you think it's low self esteem?
You need to be more elaborate here, dear. There's those who sleep around for the attention/actual self esteem issues, and then there's just some who do it because they just like sex.
Differentiate.
Don't get me wrong, I agree with you, but to an extent.
lol.
You're such a woman about sex.
You're such a woman about sex.
Posted by Mike79So you're saying those who have enough confidence to be single and happy and still enjoy sex lives are of lower self esteem and to be pittied more than those who stick around with cheaters and bullshit relationships?Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
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That sounds fucked. I think those who stick around with someone shitty are a little more pathetic than anyone else.
Like since someone is single and not looking for a solid relationship that must mean they lack in self esteem hm? No, it actually doesn't. It just shows they can enjoy their life despite what prude-ass people think.
Well I guess to each their own. Everyone has their reasons for what they do. Some people need what you don't, and that's something you'll eventually understand.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeThis is the grey area I'm implying right here, OP.Posted by Mike79So you're saying those who have enough confidence to be single and happy and still enjoy sex lives are of lower self esteem and to be pittied more than those who stick around with cheaters and bullshit relationships?Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
That sounds fucked. I think those who stick around with someone shitty are a little more pathetic than anyone else.
Like since someone is single and not looking for a solid relationship that must mean they lack in self esteem hm? No, it actually doesn't. It just shows they can enjoy their life despite what prude-ass people think.
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This isn't a one size fits all scenario you've outlined, really.
What she's mentioned has nothing to do with these assumptions you've made.
However, yeah there are people out there, usually women, who go around dick hopping because any attention is good, and they'll do whatever it takes to get it, even if that means putting out at the drop of a hat. I have a friend like this- tries to have sex like a man and cries when she gets burned. She does it for the attention, in hopes that the dude will stick around, which he rarely does.
Guys sleep around too, and it's them just not knowing wtf they want in life and the lovely social stigma of being a stud, when it's really just gross and yet another example of seeking some sort of validation for notches in the bed post.
But not everyone views sex as some unrealistic spiritual, "energy" thing. It's just a natural act between two people and sometimes you've got needs. That does not mean you have to be in a relationship/with one person in order to do so.
Basically, if someone doesn't hit some gross amount of partners, or isn't doing it for all the wrong reasons, AND they're responsible who the fuck cares? It's not your dick they're riding, so why do you think you have any say in their sex life?
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXExactly.
Why are people so bothered by what other people do with their bodies?
Why's it bother you so much? LOL! I dont concern myself with what others are doing, unless its my partner or maybe a family member but even then id just give some friendly advice. I think those who do it for the wrong reasons-seeking validation, need help, not more belittling than they are already doing to themselves.
Posted by Mike79I understand and completely agree with you. It just goes to show that people with laxed views on what they do with their bodies are either brought up that way or its always written in their charts. Most of them usually have a high Uranian or Sagittarian (to a lower extent) energy and obviously won't see anything wrong with it.Posted by DepthAndDeathTo me it seems as if they have no value for themselves no standards they just sleep around with just about anyone...
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As long as they stick to a partner or potential boyfriends/girlfriends that doesn't mind this at all, it's all good... Keep your STDs to yourself mate.
So, people relate self esteem to mean sex? ... because that is the discussion.
Self esteem isn't defined by your sexuality, lol
self esteem is the measurement of your self worth, self respect and your confidence in your abilities.
But, your talk is all about sex? Now I think that is very disgusting, in that that is as far as your mind is able to think.
But, your talk is all about sex? Now I think that is very disgusting, in that that is as far as your mind is able to think.
Posted by MrEmptyBackpackLol!
Is this about jujitsu?
In order not to take things too seriously. Sweat stll takes place, yes.
Posted by Mike79What does another persons personal choice matter to you? I can only assume from the butt hurt your spouting here is that one of these so called 'low self esteem/sleep with anyone' turned you down and now you feel the need to put them down.Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
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Posted by AquariusBeautyIt's because you have high standards and that's a great thing
This is just as controversial as my post. Just wait for the liberals who wish to express their sexuality by opening their legs.
Call me vain, full of herself, conceided, and/or deluded, but I don't let just anyone have such access. I know what I can offer in relationships and if he's going to have all of me, he better step up. Most men though, fail miserably.
Posted by LadyNeptuneNot at all just sharing a point of view. We all have them.Posted by Mike79What does another persons personal choice matter to you? I can only assume from the butt hurt your spouting here is that one of these so called 'low self esteem/sleep with anyone' turned you down and now you feel the need to put them down.Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
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Posted by shakedownWell said ! Thank you !!!Posted by Mike79Yea. Too many different types of "juices" gross me out. Things need to be savored and cherished. Lol.
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Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeNo that's not what I said. I'm Not speaking of people in relationships... There are those who sleep around with anything that walks from one night stands on a daily basis to just about anything, that my friend is low self esteem to me. It shows to me that you don't value your body. I believe that a person must be a little picky as to who is worthy of sleeping with you & that shouldnt be just about anyone.Posted by Mike79So you're saying those who have enough confidence to be single and happy and still enjoy sex lives are of lower self esteem and to be pittied more than those who stick around with cheaters and bullshit relationships?Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
That sounds fucked. I think those who stick around with someone shitty are a little more pathetic than anyone else.
Like since someone is single and not looking for a solid relationship that must mean they lack in self esteem hm? No, it actually doesn't. It just shows they can enjoy their life despite what prude-ass people think.
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXNot bothered, we all have our own beliefs, just sharing one of them. It's nice to see who agrees or disagrees in a respectful manner.
Why are people so bothered by what other people do with their bodies?
Posted by UnderFireVariety is good, but choose wisely. Sharing your bed with just about anything that walks is no joke. That's all I'm saying in my opinion it says a lot about a person and how much they value themselves.Posted by Mike79I'm with you on this. I ain't no saint but I have learned a lot and I agree that you have to really be picky when it comes to whom you gonna share your bed with.Posted by rockyroadicecreamIf you have a high sex drive one very compatible partner multiple times could be enough... when choosing partners to sleep with I believe you must be picky because this is your body and energy you sharing with them so pick & choose those worthy of it.
So if one is comfortable with their sexuality, you think it's low self esteem?
You need to be more elaborate here, dear. There's those who sleep around for the attention/actual self esteem issues, and then there's just some who do it because they just like sex.
Differentiate.
Don't get me wrong, I agree with you, but to an extent.
Some people just needs varieties. I guess it's all about them, satisfying their needs. It's purely lust.
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Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeVery true. No one will understand what is happening in another persons mind. I respect that.
Well I guess to each their own. Everyone has their reasons for what they do. Some people need what you don't, and that's something you'll eventually understand.
Posted by tizianiIt's not about how much sex you have it's about who you choose to have sex with, choose wisely.Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXThe more sex you have, the more you're taking off my plate.... or something.
Why are people so bothered by what other people do with their bodies?
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Posted by Mike79A point of view on others personal choice though. What's the point?Posted by LadyNeptuneNot at all just sharing a point of view. We all have them.Posted by Mike79What does another persons personal choice matter to you? I can only assume from the butt hurt your spouting here is that one of these so called 'low self esteem/sleep with anyone' turned you down and now you feel the need to put them down.Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
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If you find it unsavory then don't indulge in that behavior, don't surround yourself with people who do...and teach any children you have not to do the same.
Yelling at the universe that you disagree with something or someone is an exercise in futility.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI wanted to just share my own views about this topic hoping to see how others views this, im sure some people see like you said "Bed hopping" .. nothing wrong with this but in my opinion it depends on whose Bed you choose to jump in, all im really trying to say is that I've seen some people that will sleep with just about anyone and that is where it gets disgusting to me. I have a high sex drive like many people here too, I like variety too, but that doesn't mean I will decide to be with just anyone. There's have to be more than just adding numbers to my list of sexual partners to me that's not the goal & I agree we're all different, that's the great thing about being able to discuss so openly.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeThis is the grey area I'm implying right here, OP.Posted by Mike79So you're saying those who have enough confidence to be single and happy and still enjoy sex lives are of lower self esteem and to be pittied more than those who stick around with cheaters and bullshit relationships?Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
That sounds fucked. I think those who stick around with someone shitty are a little more pathetic than anyone else.
Like since someone is single and not looking for a solid relationship that must mean they lack in self esteem hm? No, it actually doesn't. It just shows they can enjoy their life despite what prude-ass people think.
This isn't a one size fits all scenario you've outlined, really.
What she's mentioned has nothing to do with these assumptions you've made.
However, yeah there are people out there, usually women, who go around dick hopping because any attention is good, and they'll do whatever it takes to get it, even if that means putting out at the drop of a hat. I have a friend like this- tries to have sex like a man and cries when she gets burned. She does it for the attention, in hopes that the dude will stick around, which he rarely does.
Guys sleep around too, and it's them just not knowing wtf they want in life and the lovely social stigma of being a stud, when it's really just gross and yet another example of seeking some sort of validation for notches in the bed post.
But not everyone views sex as some unrealistic spiritual, "energy" thing. It's just a natural act between two people and sometimes you've got needs. That does not mean you have to be in a relationship/with one person in order to do so.
Basically, if someone doesn't hit some gross amount of partners, or isn't doing it for all the wrong reasons, AND they're responsible who the fuck cares? It's not your dick they're riding, so why do you think you have any say in their sex life?click to expand
Posted by Mike79It doesn't affect me, and I don't have an opinion on it. I can't really be bothered by other people's sex lives so long as it doesn't interfere with mine.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
Posted by LillyPetalWhat if you met a partner and you were attracted but you knew this person was jumping from bed to bed, how would you feel about this person, would you jump into bed with them since your attraction was very high ?Posted by Mike79It doesn't affect me, and I don't have an opinion on it. I can't really be bothered by other people's sex lives so long as it doesn't interfere with mine.
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXDidn't mean to offend you... I wasn't directing this post towards you Alicia
Disgusted by those who....!!
Are named Mike. Those are the the kind of guys that judge others without looking in the mirror and realizing that they're way worse than the people they judge. It's a name that's associated with guys who have low self esteem and that's a turn off to me... anyone who can relate ?
Not bothered, just sharing my beliefs.
Posted by sagoyaSome of those things you mentioned are turns off to me too and i wouldn't date either because I know what I want for myself and what my partner does reflects on the person who they are.
No i dont mind.. I wouldnt date or be in a relationship with them tho.. just for friend is okay.. usually their stories are hillarious ?
My turn offs are liars, cheaters, flakes, those who dont deliver their promises, physical and verbal abuser, people who r like monkeys.. going from one to another just like that, people who juggle or date multiple men/women at the same time as if they're an object with no feelings..
Posted by MrEmptyBackpackYou're right on the money !!! Lol kidding
Is this about jujitsu?
Posted by Mike79Personally, just because I'm attracted to someone, doesn't mean I want to have sex with him. Virgo rising be like thatPosted by LillyPetalWhat if you met a partner and you were attracted but you knew this person was jumping from bed to bed, how would you feel about this person, would you jump into bed with them since your attraction was very high ?Posted by Mike79It doesn't affect me, and I don't have an opinion on it. I can't really be bothered by other people's sex lives so long as it doesn't interfere with mine.
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And I'm confused as to how he can be a partner if he's "jumping from bed to bed"? Were we dating?
Posted by LibraLovesHimVery true, I guess in my partner I expect high standards. It's a wrong way to seek validation, because in the process you might catch something.
Why's it bother you so much? LOL! I dont concern myself with what others are doing, unless its my partner or maybe a family member but even then id just give some friendly advice. I think those who do it for the wrong reasons-seeking validation, need help, not more belittling than they are already doing to themselves.
Posted by P-AngelWhen your not choosing wisely and sleep with just about anything that walks what does that say about a person? High sex drive doesn't mean jump from bed to bed not knowing what you might catch in the process, what about when it has to do with your own partner wouldn't you think it's a little disgusting? What are your views on this in your personal life and when choosing a mate.
self esteem is the measurement of your self worth, self respect and your confidence in your abilities.
But, your talk is all about sex? Now I think that is very disgusting, in that that is as far as your mind is able to think.
Posted by LillyPetalYes let's assume you're dating, would you see differently?Posted by Mike79Personally, just because I'm attracted to someone, doesn't mean I want to have sex with him. Virgo rising be like thatPosted by LillyPetalWhat if you met a partner and you were attracted but you knew this person was jumping from bed to bed, how would you feel about this person, would you jump into bed with them since your attraction was very high ?Posted by Mike79It doesn't affect me, and I don't have an opinion on it. I can't really be bothered by other people's sex lives so long as it doesn't interfere with mine.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
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Posted by UnderFireThank you !!Posted by Mike79Trust me Mike, I totally understand where you're coming from and I agree with your sentiments.Posted by UnderFireVariety is good, but choose wisely. Sharing your bed with just about anything that walks is no joke. That's all I'm saying in my opinion it says a lot about a person and how much they value themselves.Posted by Mike79I'm with you on this. I ain't no saint but I have learned a lot and I agree that you have to really be picky when it comes to whom you gonna share your bed with.Posted by rockyroadicecreamIf you have a high sex drive one very compatible partner multiple times could be enough... when choosing partners to sleep with I believe you must be picky because this is your body and energy you sharing with them so pick & choose those worthy of it.
So if one is comfortable with their sexuality, you think it's low self esteem?
You need to be more elaborate here, dear. There's those who sleep around for the attention/actual self esteem issues, and then there's just some who do it because they just like sex.
Differentiate.
Don't get me wrong, I agree with you, but to an extent.
Some people just needs varieties. I guess it's all about them, satisfying their needs. It's purely lust.
I am still very new to this site but I could already see how certain posters can be so contradicting with every comments they've made, on different threads.
I do like your mindset and the way you've responded to some ridiculous individual by being diplomatic. Good vibes you have got over there. ?
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Posted by Mike79I can't relate to this hypothetical. There are too many holes (pun not intended, but still appreciated.)Posted by LillyPetalYes let's assume you're dating, would you see differently?Posted by Mike79Personally, just because I'm attracted to someone, doesn't mean I want to have sex with him. Virgo rising be like thatPosted by LillyPetalWhat if you met a partner and you were attracted but you knew this person was jumping from bed to bed, how would you feel about this person, would you jump into bed with them since your attraction was very high ?Posted by Mike79It doesn't affect me, and I don't have an opinion on it. I can't really be bothered by other people's sex lives so long as it doesn't interfere with mine.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
And I'm confused as to how he can be a partner if he's "jumping from bed to bed"? Were we dating?click to expand
So, I met someone who is supposedly my partner, but he is sleeping with other people? How long have we been dating? And do I know this about him?
Posted by LadyNeptuneVery true don't indulge in the things you disagree with.Posted by Mike79A point of view on others personal choice though. What's the point?Posted by LadyNeptuneNot at all just sharing a point of view. We all have them.Posted by Mike79What does another persons personal choice matter to you? I can only assume from the butt hurt your spouting here is that one of these so called 'low self esteem/sleep with anyone' turned you down and now you feel the need to put them down.Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
If you find it unsavory then don't indulge in that behavior, don't surround yourself with people who do...and teach any children you have not to do the same.
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Not pointing fingers but my personal view on how I see those I chose to date, topics and views are made to be shared and this is great site it's great to see contradictions and strong beliefs & I respect yours.
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXI'm sorry Alicia I didn't mean to offend you, I'm not superior to anyone by any means.Posted by Mike79Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXNot bothered, we all have our own beliefs, just sharing one of them. It's nice to see who agrees or disagrees in a respectful manner.
Why are people so bothered by what other people do with their bodies?
But you're not "just sharing" your beliefs, you're also attempting to shame and put down a certain group of people in the process.
You're putting other people down to place yourself in a superior light.
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Posted by ImpulsvWhen obeserving people and getting to know them especially those who you're interested in you begin to see this side of them and it may or may not affect the way you wanna Persue a relationship with them.Posted by Mike79How do you know they sleep aroundPosted by DepthAndDeathTo me it seems as if they have no value for themselves no standards they just sleep around with just about anyone...
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By how soon they slept with u?
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXI truly didn't mean to make it sound like this but thank you for brining it to my attention.Posted by Mike79Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXDidn't mean to offend you... I wasn't directing this post towards you Alicia
Disgusted by those who....!!
Are named Mike. Those are the the kind of guys that judge others without looking in the mirror and realizing that they're way worse than the people they judge. It's a name that's associated with guys who have low self esteem and that's a turn off to me... anyone who can relate ?
Not bothered, just sharing my beliefs.
I'm not offended. This post doesn't apply to me or my life style .
I wrote this so you could view from a more relatable perspective what it is that you're actually doing.
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXTo clarify You don't come across as a woman who hops from bed to bed, in my eyes you come across as a woman with high standards and strong beliefs from my observations.Posted by Mike79Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXI'm sorry Alicia I didn't mean to offend you, I'm not superior to anyone by any means.Posted by Mike79Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXNot bothered, we all have our own beliefs, just sharing one of them. It's nice to see who agrees or disagrees in a respectful manner.
Why are people so bothered by what other people do with their bodies?
But you're not "just sharing" your beliefs, you're also attempting to shame and put down a certain group of people in the process.
You're putting other people down to place yourself in a superior light.
The fact that you keep passive aggressively inferring that I was offended let's me know that you're offended by my calling you out.
My intention wasn't to offend you, but I wanted you to see how judgmental you look. I see that I accomplished that.
Try looking in the mirror every once in a while.
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Posted by Mike79This is why I said it depends on the situation. I totally agree that people who rack up multiple partners like they're collecting Pokemon is gross. The risk of STDs is high, and it makes you wonder what one's standards are if they have a new person on a weekly basis. I knew of someone who bragged about how she was dating 5 men at once and it's like you sad bitch. She had major self esteem issues and thought that her putting out so easily and how it attracted men made her desirable, when it was the opposite.Posted by rockyroadicecreamI wanted to just share my own views about this topic hoping to see how others views this, im sure some people see like you said "Bed hopping" .. nothing wrong with this but in my opinion it depends on whose Bed you choose to jump in, all im really trying to say is that I've seen some people that will sleep with just about anyone and that is where it gets disgusting to me. I have a high sex drive like many people here too, I like variety too, but that doesn't mean I will decide to be with just anyone. There's have to be more than just adding numbers to my list of sexual partners to me that's not the goal & I agree we're all different, that's the great thing about being able to discuss so openly.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeThis is the grey area I'm implying right here, OP.Posted by Mike79So you're saying those who have enough confidence to be single and happy and still enjoy sex lives are of lower self esteem and to be pittied more than those who stick around with cheaters and bullshit relationships?Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
That sounds fucked. I think those who stick around with someone shitty are a little more pathetic than anyone else.
Like since someone is single and not looking for a solid relationship that must mean they lack in self esteem hm? No, it actually doesn't. It just shows they can enjoy their life despite what prude-ass people think.
This isn't a one size fits all scenario you've outlined, really.
What she's mentioned has nothing to do with these assumptions you've made.
However, yeah there are people out there, usually women, who go around dick hopping because any attention is good, and they'll do whatever it takes to get it, even if that means putting out at the drop of a hat. I have a friend like this- tries to have sex like a man and cries when she gets burned. She does it for the attention, in hopes that the dude will stick around, which he rarely does.
Guys sleep around too, and it's them just not knowing wtf they want in life and the lovely social stigma of being a stud, when it's really just gross and yet another example of seeking some sort of validation for notches in the bed post.
But not everyone views sex as some unrealistic spiritual, "energy" thing. It's just a natural act between two people and sometimes you've got needs. That does not mean you have to be in a relationship/with one person in order to do so.
Basically, if someone doesn't hit some gross amount of partners, or isn't doing it for all the wrong reasons, AND they're responsible who the fuck cares? It's not your dick they're riding, so why do you think you have any say in their sex life?click to expand
When guys do it, which you hear about more often, it's equally gross. New chicks every weekend and it's like yeah gross.
Overall, to each their own. I only see it as an issue if it's causing harm to those they interact with and/or it causes harm to themselves. Yeah, it's gross, and I couldn't do it myself, but to each their own. Have fun keeping a steady stream of STD tests. Waiting at the doc sucks.
But you're sorely misinformed if you think anyone who has multiple partners has low self esteem. Not always the case.
Posted by Mike79The way you've worded things in your op comes off as very judgmental and not respectful whatsoever. Which is why I had a reaction.Posted by LadyNeptuneVery true don't indulge in the things you disagree with.Posted by Mike79A point of view on others personal choice though. What's the point?Posted by LadyNeptuneNot at all just sharing a point of view. We all have them.Posted by Mike79What does another persons personal choice matter to you? I can only assume from the butt hurt your spouting here is that one of these so called 'low self esteem/sleep with anyone' turned you down and now you feel the need to put them down.Posted by ShinzoI can't judge why people put up and stay in those situations but what I'm referring to is those who bounce between partner to partner sleeping with anything that walks.Posted by Mike79Yes, kills me when I see posts from women or men that stay with people that are willing to treat them like shit or show them no respect regardless of looks.
Roll around with just anybody, shows low self esteem and that's a turn of to me... anyone who can relate ?
If you find it unsavory then don't indulge in that behavior, don't surround yourself with people who do...and teach any children you have not to do the same.
Yelling at the universe that you disagree with something or someone is an exercise in futility.
Not pointing fingers but my personal view on how I see those I chose to date, topics and views are made to be shared and this is great site it's great to see contradictions and strong beliefs & I respect yours.click to expand
Posted by Mike79Your far less likely to catch something if you are practicing safe sex. This is true irregardless of how many partners you have. If your fucking raw...whether its one person or 20...your exposing yourself to risk.Posted by P-AngelWhen your not choosing wisely and sleep with just about anything that walks what does that say about a person? High sex drive doesn't mean jump from bed to bed not knowing what you might catch in the process, what about when it has to do with your own partner wouldn't you think it's a little disgusting? What are your views on this in your personal life and when choosing a mate.
self esteem is the measurement of your self worth, self respect and your confidence in your abilities.
But, your talk is all about sex? Now I think that is very disgusting, in that that is as far as your mind is able to think.click to expand
Your stigma of sleeping with multiple partners = an std, is simply misinformed.
People are actually far more likely to put themselves at risk for sexually transmitted diseases when they are emotionally involved with ONE person. Because their in their feels and decide to fuck and suck raw. Then their partner, who had swore up and down that they were clean, ends up passing on an std they didn't know they had.
Yes, its very possible to have an std and not every experience any outbreaks or symptoms. It simply lies there unbeknownst to the person ready to spring on the next unsuspecting victim.
Yes, its very possible to have an std and not every experience any outbreaks or symptoms. It simply lies there unbeknownst to the person ready to spring on the next unsuspecting victim.
So please stop perpetrating the myth that multiple partners makes you 'unclean' 'disgusting' etc. etc. Safe sex or abstinence is the only way to stay clean. Point blank.
Posted by lovecraftianOkay you can't have it both ways.
I see hypersexuality in the same vein as drug and alcohol abuse. Keep it to a minimum, be responsible and don't flaunt it in everyone's faces. Try to avoid degenerate behavior and if you fail, don't do it again. Take responsibility for consequences.
My least favorite whores are the ones who think the cost of their behavior should be covered by federal taxes (abortions, std treatment, abuse of WIC/food stamps etc.). Don't impede on my income.
Would you rather pay for the abortion? Or pay for a lifetime of food stamps?
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