do u give head?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by DMV on Sunday, January 1, 2012 and has 144 replies.

Do I Give Head in Sexual Activity

Giving head is a consensual sexual act that involves oral stimulation. It is a personal choice and varies between partners. Communication and mutual agreement are essential to ensure comfort and enjoyment for both parties.

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@thecontender
15 YearsCancer

Posted by exoskeleton
LOL. i feel you, dmv. i feel so satisfied when i make a guy come from head. him panting with his hands in my hair, his body shaking, his control shattered.

and i just swallow and smile. πŸ™‚

you sound like a true champion! bless your heart.

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@scorpdiva
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I did hear something about HPV causing throat cancer in men who give oral sex to women but maybe it goes both ways. So I think it is best just to make sure you know your partner, but I think everyone in this day and age is giving head if not then your mate will find someone who will.

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I don't! YUCK! I do when I am with someone long term, but not just dating/sleeping with him. Just because of the HPV virus. I had HPV cervial cancer and my doc told me bcus of previous men (they are carriers of the virus and don't know it) I could have contracted the virus.
Not only for that reason but to me it is more intimate than sex. I know weird, right?!?! LOL.

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Posted by NikkiMse1978
I don't! YUCK! I do when I am with someone long term, but not just dating/sleeping with him. Just because of the HPV virus. I had HPV cervial cancer and my doc told me bcus of previous men (they are carriers of the virus and don't know it) I could have contracted the virus.
Not only for that reason but to me it is more intimate than sex. I know weird, right?!?! LOL.

NO it's not weird

I agree......

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@YingYangGeminiFan
14 Years

I dont give head... it is frowned upon where im from. But i reckon people do do it but under the quiet, afraid of what society will think of them. I guess one day once im sexually confident enough il try it with my HUSBAND! although i do not want to get married. haha

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16 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by exoskeleton
LOL. i feel you, dmv. i feel so satisfied when i make a guy come from head. him panting with his hands in my hair, his body shaking, his control shattered.

and i just swallow and smile. πŸ™‚

When this scenario occurs with me boyfriend, I'm just thinking, "Gotcha, bitch." πŸ˜›

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@Fire-Water
16 Years

Posted by Candeh15

Posted by exoskeleton
LOL. i feel you, dmv. i feel so satisfied when i make a guy come from head. him panting with his hands in my hair, his body shaking, his control shattered.

and i just swallow and smile. πŸ™‚

When this scenario occurs with me boyfriend, I'm just thinking, "Gotcha, bitch." πŸ˜›

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I like you guys alot

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Posted by exoskeleton
LOL. i feel you, dmv. i feel so satisfied when i make a guy come from head. him panting with his hands in my hair, his body shaking, his control shattered.

and i just swallow and smile. πŸ™‚

Spoken like a pro. Bravo Exo! Yes!

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@scorpdiva
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by 25thDecan
A woman sleeping with me is expected to be faithful...like I will be to her. That said, she is entitled to such sexual pleasure readily, and at times in places where if we have friends over, we can gross them out together by saying "yyyeeeaahhh, you guys might prefer sitting on the wicker chairs instead of anywhere else"

Ijs.....lol

Exactly when you are with someone in a reltionship anything goes, anytime and anywhere πŸ™‚

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15 Years500+ PostsPisces

Posted by aquaj
To the women who don't like giving head, here are some reasons why you should: http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/121763/one_of_the_most_detested

Semen is good for yaπŸ˜„ Don't let it go to waste.

lmaoooooo

Lolol I just read the like 8 pages of comments on that article. Totally crazy! One woman said she wouldn't even think of putting "that" (her mans penis) by her mouth.... How sad! I can understand if someone had a traumatic sexual experience I guess, not wanting to relive that... But, idk..

I enjoy giving to my guy, and he enjoys giving to me. =)

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I know it can be seen as a force of power for a woman, but I cannot imagine going all willy nilly on some guys c*% & to have power! Don't you all think that it is something shared? That brings true intimacy to the relationship? I know, I sound like a church lady. I am by no means such! It seems weird that you can just do it to anyone anywhere with all the dieseases and viruses that are out there! Arn't you afraid of catching those?

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@Sag89
14 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by NikkiMse1978
I know it can be seen as a force of power for a woman, but I cannot imagine going all willy nilly on some guys c*% & to have power! Don't you all think that it is something shared? That brings true intimacy to the relationship? I know, I sound like a church lady. I am by no means such! It seems weird that you can just do it to anyone anywhere with all the dieseases and viruses that are out there! Arn't you afraid of catching those?

I get exactly what your saying. It should done because you both enjoy it. Not some favor you do for a guy.

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I think Im the only guy in the world who isnt into oral sex.

Now oral sex on a girl, oh hell yes. Eating the vag is like having a nice serving of an ice cream sundae.

Overall though I do prefer the di-k's journey to the center of the p---y.

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Posted by exoskeleton

Posted by NikkiMse1978
I know it can be seen as a force of power for a woman, but I cannot imagine going all willy nilly on some guys c*% & to have power! Don't you all think that it is something shared? That brings true intimacy to the relationship? I know, I sound like a church lady. I am by no means such! It seems weird that you can just do it to anyone anywhere with all the dieseases and viruses that are out there! Arn't you afraid of catching those?

anyone, anywhere? girl, chill. lol. just because one likes to give head does not mean they are promiscuous or they have unsafe sex.

and for me it's not about having power in a relationship. i just like power games in the bedroom. and i'm all about pleasing the one i'm with.

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This here. Exactly.

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Posted by ZenArcade
I think Im the only guy in the world who isnt into oral sex.

Now oral sex on a girl, oh hell yes. Eating the vag is like having a nice serving of an ice cream sundae.

Overall though I do prefer the di-k's journey to the center of the p---y.

i would rather give than receive as well...comes as a shocker to most. i am into oral sex but i dont crave it that much. it does more to me to give it.

i also agree that receiving it is a more intimate experience than intercourse.

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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by aquaj
Wow. Can't believe there are women who don't give head. Actually, now that I think about it, my boyfriend told me this early in our dating life. I just assumed he was joking.

yeah im always surprised but the ones who pass 2. i had just assumed that all women gave it.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by 25thDecan
A woman sleeping with me is expected to be faithful...like I will be to her. That said, she is entitled to such sexual pleasure readily, and at times in places where if we have friends over, we can gross them out together by saying "yyyeeeaahhh, you guys might prefer sitting on the wicker chairs instead of anywhere else"

Ijs.....lol

Exactly when you are with someone in a reltionship anything goes, anytime and anywhere πŸ™‚

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i agree πŸ™‚

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by NikkiMse1978
I know it can be seen as a force of power for a woman, but I cannot imagine going all willy nilly on some guys c*% & to have power! Don't you all think that it is something shared? That brings true intimacy to the relationship? I know, I sound like a church lady. I am by no means such! It seems weird that you can just do it to anyone anywhere with all the dieseases and viruses that are out there! Arn't you afraid of catching those?

i definitely dont give head to just any tom dick and harpo

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15 Years500+ Posts

Posted by DMV

Posted by ZenArcade
I think Im the only guy in the world who isnt into oral sex.

Now oral sex on a girl, oh hell yes. Eating the vag is like having a nice serving of an ice cream sundae.

Overall though I do prefer the di-k's journey to the center of the p---y.

i would rather give than receive as well...comes as a shocker to most. i am into oral sex but i dont crave it that much. it does more to me to give it.

i also agree that receiving it is a more intimate experience than intercourse.

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I was like that until I got with the Scorp. I was never able to climax by oral until he did it. I was like HOT DAMN!

One time we were joking and I said I wouldn't do something. He said, " Fine. I won't eat you out anymore.". I was like "You bastard! That's nothing to toy with!". Lmao!

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Posted by Mebs

Posted by DMV

Posted by ZenArcade
I think Im the only guy in the world who isnt into oral sex.

Now oral sex on a girl, oh hell yes. Eating the vag is like having a nice serving of an ice cream sundae.

Overall though I do prefer the di-k's journey to the center of the p---y.

i would rather give than receive as well...comes as a shocker to most. i am into oral sex but i dont crave it that much. it does more to me to give it.

i also agree that receiving it is a more intimate experience than intercourse.

I was like that until I got with the Scorp. I was never able to climax by oral until he did it. I was like HOT DAMN!

One time we were joking and I said I wouldn't do something. He said, " Fine. I won't eat you out anymore.". I was like "You bastard! That's nothing to toy with!". Lmao!

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Hahahaha, the last part of your post reminds me of how many times I teased my cappy ex with that πŸ˜› she didnt like it either lol

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Posted by exoskeleton

Posted by Sag89
Oral sex from men is gross.

jesus christ! :O no one's given it to you good yet. someone, someday will have you feigning for that shit. trust.

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Maybe... everytime a guy does it I feel like crying and disgusting and I have to tell them to stop. The girls I slept with did it great though usually.

I don't know if I could ever cum from things like that. I like humping πŸ˜›

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Posted by aquaj

Posted by Mebs

Posted by DMV

Posted by ZenArcade
I think Im the only guy in the world who isnt into oral sex.

Now oral sex on a girl, oh hell yes. Eating the vag is like having a nice serving of an ice cream sundae.

Overall though I do prefer the di-k's journey to the center of the p---y.

i would rather give than receive as well...comes as a shocker to most. i am into oral sex but i dont crave it that much. it does more to me to give it.

i also agree that receiving it is a more intimate experience than intercourse.

I was like that until I got with the Scorp. I was never able to climax by oral until he did it. I was like HOT DAMN!!

Same with me and my Sadge! I told him to just use his hands and that I wasn't that into oral (receiving it anyway) and he got all pissy with me because he said that was the only thing about sex where he was confident that he was above-average and that he loved it LOL. Now foreplay is a necessity for me. I can't believe how much most men suck at it with their technique!

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They DO! that is the lost part! And some woman lied to them and probably told them they were great. Ugh ick!

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17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Don't even get me started on this subject... One of my girlfriends said that at times she felt like I was in a relationship with her pussy and not her! ;D But I love the taste, the scent, the intimacy, how every pussy looks slightly different....and how you girls are always warm down there, lol. everything! πŸ™‚

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Posted by cowpuncher
What sucks is when you run into the gals who want you to do it for them, but never want to return the favor. They do exist, and there are a lot of them.

I don't see it like that... at all! I'd be turned off if a girl thought I went down on her just because I wanted the "favor" reutrned. Fuck favors, I'm eating pussy because I like it. If she doesn't like giving blowjobs then fine, it's not the end of the world, as if there aren't other things we could do....

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Posted by Sag89They DO! that is the lost part! And some woman lied to them and probably told them they were great. Ugh ick!

...because that woman probably thought they WERE great! What makes you think that all women are like you? There is no magic trick that works on ALL women, what it comes down to is how quick of a learner you are. All women are different.

Hell even us guys have different prefrences when it comes to bj's, and many guys can't even come from just oral sex... but that of course is something you never hear about.

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Posted by NikkiMse1978
I don't! YUCK! I do when I am with someone long term, but not just dating/sleeping with him. Just because of the HPV virus. I had HPV cervial cancer and my doc told me bcus of previous men (they are carriers of the virus and don't know it) I could have contracted the virus.
Not only for that reason but to me it is more intimate than sex. I know weird, right?!?! LOL.

Just gave my sagg friend some head last night. We aren't in a committed relationship and I use a condom every time. I even have him use saran wrap on me. It's all about being safe and still having fun.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by ZenArcade
I think Im the only guy in the world who isnt into oral sex.

Now oral sex on a girl, oh hell yes. Eating the vag is like having a nice serving of an ice cream sundae.

Overall though I do prefer the di-k's journey to the center of the p---y.

i would rather give than receive as well...comes as a shocker to most. i am into oral sex but i dont crave it that much. it does more to me to give it.

i also agree that receiving it is a more intimate experience than intercourse.

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Same. And there I was thinking I was the only one lol.

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Posted by NikkiMse1978
I don't! YUCK! I do when I am with someone long term, but not just dating/sleeping with him. Just because of the HPV virus. I had HPV cervial cancer and my doc told me bcus of previous men (they are carriers of the virus and don't know it) I could have contracted the virus.
Not only for that reason but to me it is more intimate than sex. I know weird, right?!?! LOL.

No it's not weird πŸ™‚ I agree. It's much more intimate than sex. Couldn't do it with some random guy I barely knew..

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Posted by aquaj

Posted by LouLore

Posted by aquaj
To the women who don't like giving head, here are some reasons why you should: http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/121763/one_of_the_most_detested

Semen is good for yaπŸ˜„ Don't let it go to waste.

lmaoooooo

Lolol I just read the like 8 pages of comments on that article. Totally crazy! One woman said she wouldn't even think of putting "that" (her mans penis) by her mouth.... How sad! I can understand if someone had a traumatic sexual experience I guess, not wanting to relive that... But, idk..

I enjoy giving to my guy, and he enjoys giving to me. =)

Oh geez, one woman said she tried it once and was sick for days and won't be doing that again. I feel sorry for these women's husbands. And to think, some women wonder why it is so hard to keep a man interested LOL. It wasn't that difficult to me!

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Pretty sad if you think that's the only way to keep a man interested.

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