Fast & Hard

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by DMV on Monday, October 24, 2016 and has 7 replies.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Maybe this is a fire sign thing but when i come into anything fast and hard people are so turned off and intimidated and call me cocky.

When i come in quiet and say as little as possible people take me better.

I hate the second part. Coming in docile and meek. Its not me, but its the only way to make friends.

Im a cancer rising but i come in as a sag. Turn off to people.

Any saggis feel this way?

I like coming in hot and ready but i discovered that people cant handle itm

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@DMV
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Posted by exo
sag has cancer rising too and he can relate. peeps get scared of his presence/energy so he always has to tone it down a bit.

maintain your chill in the workplace and be just yourself everywhere else. no shame.

Truly is the only way to get ahead. Tone it down.

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Posted by JohnnyRed007
Im having the same problem... Just keep being you... Fire signs are about action and results,if you have to pretend to be docile and weak to make friends then are they worth being friends with in the first place?

Its not just friends, but everyone i encounter. Even in my auditions.

People just take me easier when im more docile.

Idk. Such a fine line

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Posted by DMV
Maybe this is a fire sign thing but when i come into anything fast and hard people are so turned off and intimidated and call me cocky.

When i come in quiet and say as little as possible people take me better.

I hate the second part. Coming in docile and meek. Its not me, but its the only way to make friends.

Im a cancer rising but i come in as a sag. Turn off to people.

Any saggis feel this way?

I like coming in hot and ready but i discovered that people cant handle itm

I've gotten smooth with the entrance and delivery but yeah I'm that way. If they can't have fun thr hell with them. If they are jealous that's their fault. Beast on brother beast.

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Posted by DMV
Maybe this is a fire sign thing but when i come into anything fast and hard people are so turned off and intimidated and call me cocky.

When i come in quiet and say as little as possible people take me better.

I hate the second part. Coming in docile and meek. Its not me, but its the only way to make friends.

Im a cancer rising but i come in as a sag. Turn off to people.

Any saggis feel this way?

I like coming in hot and ready but i discovered that people cant handle itm

Keep looking. You just need to meet the right peeps that can. No need to change your flow if it doesn't feel natural.

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Posted by DMV
Maybe this is a fire sign thing but when i come into anything fast and hard people are so turned off and intimidated and call me cocky.

When i come in quiet and say as little as possible people take me better.

I hate the second part. Coming in docile and meek. Its not me, but its the only way to make friends.

Im a cancer rising but i come in as a sag. Turn off to people.

Any saggis feel this way?

I like coming in hot and ready but i discovered that people cant handle itm

I did some research related to this. I think it's the self righteousness of Saggies that is a turn off. Sometimes we get on a roll and it's too much.