Help!! Sag man not understanding....

SORRY, I'M an admin assistant and I had to correct your grammar (I was getting a headache)

So me and my Sag guy were doing well!!! We talked on the phone and Face Time everyday. I started to first fall head over heels for this man. He is a little older than I am. He is a November Sag (27th). I believe he has Venus in Scorpio. I am a Taurus with Aries in Venus. We met online and he came to visit me after weeks of talking. We had a rocky time when he came, but worked through it; and we're (were? we're??) fine. He told me how he wanted me to visit his home town and how he would send for me. He never did. He just keeps asking when I am coming down to his city. I'm not financially stable as I live on my own with bills outta this world! He mentioned he would visit me a few times before, but I just waited to see if it would happen. Not saying I don't have my own money; I just cannot spare the funds right now to do so. It's just that he is the one saying it all the time and I wanted to see if he would be a man of his word. I sent him a gift to show him how much I appreciated him bc I really care for him. He always called me and comforted me when I was having a bad day and we had wonderful long conversations just like in high school. It's just crazy how you can be in a long distance relationship with someone and feel like they can never express how they feel. We talked every morning, noon, and night. We talked about marriage, kids, and now I'm seeing that he is a little self centered and a bit selfish bc of some of the things he'd say to me.

Just recently, I starting ignoring him bc I don't feel appreciated for being a woman of my word and always being there for him. He kept contacting me and I wouldn't reciprocate. I finally talked to him and let him know how I was feeling and cried while speaking to him bc of all the disappointments, but in the mist of that my phone hung up bc it was in the middle of updating. I then sent him a long text telling him how I felt and he responds, "That's not true at all!" We were friends on social media and I removed him from my page bc I am hurt by him. It hurts me so much bc I really saw a future with him, but I'm more of an "Action speaks louder than words" type of person and I don't like someone telling me what we should do, what we're going to do, etc., and then nothing happens! This is what made me upset so I walked away! I hate to hear of "promises" being presented to me; to no avail. Action speaks louder than words!! I feel like I always made sure he was/is ok when he called; or I when I called I'd make sure to remind him to eat, etc. He can't show me anything in return like a simple card or flowers; since yesterday was Valentine's day; to make me feel appreciated. Not that he has to be romantic at all (like I hear Sags are supposed to be). I never asked this man for anything. So don't you think it would be nice that he showed me how he cared; without something in return? What's with all his promises and again I get zilch?

It's been a day or so since we even said anything and it's like he won't even fight to save what we had. It's been quite a few months for us and I can't understand why he isn't doing anything. Will this Saggy man try to reach out to me again? Or should I give him time to himself to see if he comes back to me? I need help on this one. I love him and this is killing me not to talk to him!



First, I my EX-BF is a Saggy 4th December. Saggy men, when they are not making allot of monies, want the woman to PAY for things....I am speaking about David, Saggy, 4th December 1969; I am four years older than he is. I PAID for everything; I didn't mind, since I have the funds. But I saw a "pattern" with David. YOUR Saggy, wants YOU to come up with funds to see him. He doesn't care how many bills you have, doesn't care if you have to rob from Paul to give to Peter, etc., he just wants YOU to come see him at YOUR expense! He's used to meeting women online who are the footloose, fancy free, independent, "Sugar Mommas". Later, when he knows you can afford monies, he will ask you for a loan, pick up the tab for lunch/dinner, AND continue to come to see him at his home town; all at YOUR expense. We know you've seen him as a man that is selfish and self-centered; that's a Saggy man (like David is) for ya! My ex-bf (Saggy) was also a butt-in-skie; meaning when no one was asking for his opinion he gave it away like candy! Also, David, was loud. We'd be in a restaurant and he could be heard by the patrons way, way, in the back of the room.

Your Saggy was painting a picture for you! He KNOWS what a woman wants to hear: The house, the kids, the dog, the white picket fence, the two car garage, etc, etc, etc.! But they CANNOT afford this! Men will be men (Saggy) and I'm sorry he hurt your Taurus sun sign. He's moved on to ANOTHER woman; as yesterday was Valentine's Day. He HAS/HAD a Valentine yesterday; and guess what? She probably paid for dinner while he got her $ 29.99 flowers from Wally-mart. He's onto his next prey! Again, sorry 😢

PS: ^5 (high five) to read that you blocked him on FB (social media); this is your FIRST step in the healing process. I too, blocked David on FB, my cell, and POF.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by EvatheDiva
SORRY, I'M an admin assistant and I had to correct your grammar (I was getting a headache)

So me and my Sag guy were doing well!!! We talked on the phone and Face Time everyday. I started to first fall head over heels for this man. He is a little older than I am. He is a November Sag (27th). I believe he has Venus in Scorpio. I am a Taurus with Aries in Venus. We met online and he came to visit me after weeks of talking. We had a rocky time when he came, but worked through it; and were fine. He told me how he wanted me to visit his home town and how he would send for me. He never did. He just keeps asking when I am coming down to his city. I'm not financially stable as I live on my own with bills outta this world! He mentioned he would visit me a few times before, but I just waited to see if it would happen. Not saying I don't have my own money; I just cannot spare the funds right now to do so. It's just that he is the one saying it all he time and I wanted to see if he would be a man of his word. I sent him a gift to show him how much I appreciated him bc I really care for him. He always called me and comforted me when I was having a bad day and we had wonderful long conversations just like in high school. It's just crazy how you can be in a long distance relationship with someone and feel like they can never express how they feel. We talked every morning, noon, and night. We talked about marriage, kids, and now I'm seeing that he is a little self centered and a bit selfish bc of some of the things he'd say to me.

Just recently, I starting ignoring him bc I don't feel appreciated for being a woman of my word and always being there for him. He kept contacting me and I wouldn't reciprocate. I then finally talked to him and let him know how I was feeling and cried while speaking to him bc of all the disappointments, but in the mist of that my phone hung up bc it was in the middle of updating. I then sent him a long text telling him I felt and he responds, "That's not true at all!" We were friends on social media and I removed him from my page bc I am hurt by him. It hurts me so much bc I really saw a future with him, but I'm more of an "Action speaks louder than words" type of person and I don't like someone telling me what we should do, what we're going to do, etc., and then nothing happens! This is what made me upset so I walked away! I hate to hear of "promises" being presented to me; to no avail. Actions speak louder than words!! I feel like I always made sure he was/is ok when he called; or I when I called I'd make sure to remind him to eat, etc. He can't show me anything in return like a simple card or flowers; since yesterday was Valentine's day; to make me feel appreciated. Not that he has to be romantic at all (like I hear Sags are supposed to be). I never asked this man for anything. So don't you think it would be nice that he showed me how he cared; without something in return? What's with all his promises and again I get zilch?

It's been a day or so since we even said anything and it's like he won't even fight to save what we had. It's been quite a few months for us and I can't understand why he isn't doing anything. Will this Saggy man try to reach out to me again? Or should I give him time to himself to see if he comes back to me? I need help on this one. I love him and this is killing me not to talk to him!

First, I my EX-BF is a Saggy 4th December. Saggy men, when they are not making allot of monies, want the woman to PAY for things....I am speaking about David, Saggy, 4th December 1969; I am four years older than he is. I PAID for everything; I didn't mind, since I have the funds. But I saw a "pattern" with David. YOUR Saggy, wants YOU to come up with funds to see him. He doesn't care how many bills you have, doesn't care if you have to rob from Paul to give to Peter, etc., he just wants YOU to come see him at YOUR expense! He's used to meeting women online who are the footloose, fancy free, independent, "Sugar Mommas". Later, when he knows you can afford monies, he will ask you for a loan, pick up the tab for lunch/dinner, AND continue to come to see him at his home town. We know you've seen him as a man that is selfish and self-centered; that's a Saggy man (like David is) for ya! My ex-bf (Saggy) was also a butt-in-skie; meaning when no one was asking for his opinion he gave it away like candy! Also, David, was loud. We'd be in a restaurant and he could be heard by the patrons way, way, in the back of the room.

Your Saggy was painting a picture for you! He KNOWS what a woman wants to hear: The house, the white picket fence, the two car garage, etc, etc, etc.! But they CANNOT afford this! Men will be men (Saggy) and I'm sorry he hurt your Taurus sign. He's moved on to ANOTHER woman; as yesterday was Valentine's Day. He HAS/HAD a Valentine yesterday; and guess what? She probably paid for dinner while he got her $ 29.99 flowers from Wally-mart. He's onto his next prey! Again, sorry 😢

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Ehm Ehm ?

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Sorry, SagLuvScorp, I HAD to...as Piscean I want to help my fellow FEMALE Taurus Baby Girl, as MY EX-BF is Saggy....Grrrrr, too! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by SagLuvScorp

Posted by EvatheDiva
SORRY, I'M an admin assistant and I had to correct your grammar (I was getting a headache)

So me and my Sag guy were doing well!!! We talked on the phone and Face Time everyday. I started to first fall head over heels for this man. He is a little older than I am. He is a November Sag (27th). I believe he has Venus in Scorpio. I am a Taurus with Aries in Venus. We met online and he came to visit me after weeks of talking. We had a rocky time when he came, but worked through it; and were fine. He told me how he wanted me to visit his home town and how he would send for me. He never did. He just keeps asking when I am coming down to his city. I'm not financially stable as I live on my own with bills outta this world! He mentioned he would visit me a few times before, but I just waited to see if it would happen. Not saying I don't have my own money; I just cannot spare the funds right now to do so. It's just that he is the one saying it all he time and I wanted to see if he would be a man of his word. I sent him a gift to show him how much I appreciated him bc I really care for him. He always called me and comforted me when I was having a bad day and we had wonderful long conversations just like in high school. It's just crazy how you can be in a long distance relationship with someone and feel like they can never express how they feel. We talked every morning, noon, and night. We talked about marriage, kids, and now I'm seeing that he is a little self centered and a bit selfish bc of some of the things he'd say to me.

Just recently, I starting ignoring him bc I don't feel appreciated for being a woman of my word and always being there for him. He kept contacting me and I wouldn't reciprocate. I then finally talked to him and let him know how I was feeling and cried while speaking to him bc of all the disappointments, but in the mist of that my phone hung up bc it was in the middle of updating. I then sent him a long text telling him I felt and he responds, "That's not true at all!" We were friends on social media and I removed him from my page bc I am hurt by him. It hurts me so much bc I really saw a future with him, but I'm more of an "Action speaks louder than words" type of person and I don't like someone telling me what we should do, what we're going to do, etc., and then nothing happens! This is what made me upset so I walked away! I hate to hear of "promises" being presented to me; to no avail. Actions speak louder than words!! I feel like I always made sure he was/is ok when he called; or I when I called I'd make sure to remind him to eat, etc. He can't show me anything in return like a simple card or flowers; since yesterday was Valentine's day; to make me feel appreciated. Not that he has to be romantic at all (like I hear Sags are supposed to be). I never asked this man for anything. So don't you think it would be nice that he showed me how he cared; without something in return? What's with all his promises and again I get zilch?

It's been a day or so since we even said anything and it's like he won't even fight to save what we had. It's been quite a few months for us and I can't understand why he isn't doing anything. Will this Saggy man try to reach out to me again? Or should I give him time to himself to see if he comes back to me? I need help on this one. I love him and this is killing me not to talk to him!

First, I my EX-BF is a Saggy 4th December. Saggy men, when they are not making allot of monies, want the woman to PAY for things....I am speaking about David, Saggy, 4th December 1969; I am four years older than he is. I PAID for everything; I didn't mind, since I have the funds. But I saw a "pattern" with David. YOUR Saggy, wants YOU to come up with funds to see him. He doesn't care how many bills you have, doesn't care if you have to rob from Paul to give to Peter, etc., he just wants YOU to come see him at YOUR expense! He's used to meeting women online who are the footloose, fancy free, independent, "Sugar Mommas". Later, when he knows you can afford monies, he will ask you for a loan, pick up the tab for lunch/dinner, AND continue to come to see him at his home town. We know you've seen him as a man that is selfish and self-centered; that's a Saggy man (like David is) for ya! My ex-bf (Saggy) was also a butt-in-skie; meaning when no one was asking for his opinion he gave it away like candy! Also, David, was loud. We'd be in a restaurant and he could be heard by the patrons way, way, in the back of the room.

Your Saggy was painting a picture for you! He KNOWS what a woman wants to hear: The house, the white picket fence, the two car garage, etc, etc, etc.! But they CANNOT afford this! Men will be men (Saggy) and I'm sorry he hurt your Taurus sign. He's moved on to ANOTHER woman; as yesterday was Valentine's Day. He HAS/HAD a Valentine yesterday; and guess what? She probably paid for dinner while he got her $ 29.99 flowers from Wally-mart. He's onto his next prey! Again, sorry 😢

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Ehm Ehm ?

Sorry, SagLuvScorp, I HAD to...as Piscean I want to help my fellow FEMALE Taurus Baby Girl, as MY EX-BF is Saggy....Grrrrr, too! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Hehehe... its OK ma'am... I was just kidding ??

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50 lashes with a wet noodle!! 😆

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by youngali
Sorry this happened to you. Like every sign we have a couple bad apples as well. Taurus can be the most giving person in the world. I know this because my taurus moon has me going above and beyond for people i care about. but for future reference when dealing with a sag or any man for that matter...

rule # 1 - you have to set the tone of the relationship from day one. Not just with a sag but with any man. You doing things like calling him to remind him to eat was something a mother does. You already started acting like you were going to take care of him and all he had to bring was his wack ass minimal effort to the table. You basically spoiled him and all he had to do was sell you dreams. He needs to work for you in order to appreciate you. If he really wanted you to come to his hometown he would of made it happen.

please mama, be careful out there. there are fuck boys everywhere. he may have tilt your crown, but he didn't knock it off. keep that head up, adjust your crown, and push through. best wishes!

🙂

I'm not calling him to remind to do anything more like checking to see what he ate bc he eats bad and has HBP so I just check on him not tell him to eat. Lol. Also, we did set the tone. I told him with all this I wanna marry stuff and have kids, just know I will not wait 5-7 years before you wanna marry me. Things were established in the beginning I'm not that crazy. And trust I know they're f*cks boys out here. I just expected him to come forth to me a little better. He always talking about us traveling and I wait patiently bc he is a hard working man. He works like hell and that's what I love about him but to not show any effort is what brought me to my breaking point. Like I told him.. I don't care about that Valentine's Day sh*t, that should be stuff a couple does 365 days a year to show each other what they mean to one another. I just want him to be a man and come talk to me and try to fix it. I don't know much about Sag men but that most are selfish or self centered, supposedly romantic (haven't seen it) and love to travel. I am a wild Taurus. Very sexual, love traveling but also a home body and that's what he loved about me. I wanna talk to him but I just feel like bc of how things were done, it's over.