How easily influenced are Sags in a relationship?

Ok, I have this Sagittarius friend that I met at least 5-6 months ago. We were getting close. Blahblahblah to make story short I ended up hurting his emotions. And today I just had a realization. He became very distant, I was thinking it was me but now I’m wondering if he’s getting influenced by his girlfriend that I have never met. He became very distant which I do believe being hurt plays a part of it... but I’m wondering if his girlfriend is playing in part of this?

He’s dating a Pisces. This sag man is very soft hearted and generous. So much that I feel the wrong person in his life could take advantage of this. This Pisces girl supposedly had a bad boyfriend, depression and such and Sag helped her out of it. And now they’re super loyal to each other. He messages her every morning, noon and night. I know Pisces is a very manipulative sign when it comes to emotions. The sag guy has even centered his entire life around her. Is that even a sag thing to do? He’s trying to move in, set his work up around her, takes on a lot of the same interests such as not using straws unless it’s a specific kind, uses an animal to symbolize their relationship, tells her everything. Basically, is this a normal thing of a sag? I know wanting to be around their love and stuff but taking on traits of another? And does this sounds like he could be easily influenced by her? We were getting pretty close. I’m gay and he knows. The Astrosigns say that he’s a secret gay as to know if that’s true or not. He called me manipulative once when I don’t do such a thing. I hate the very idea of it and would never do that to someone. I’m wondering if she’s putting words into his brain to keep him from even remotely forgiving/allowing us to make up for past problems? If need any other info I can give.

Also, when things were going good between us he did similar things to me. I was somehow able to get him to do this and that when I didn’t really try making him do it. I’m basically concerned especially since he’s supposed to be a free spirited person and this feels way to constricted to me.

Mind your business yo

Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Pisces women are woke. She sees you coming and lemme guess you’re a crab.

So she sees you stepping sideways. She will say it straight. Big difference between the 2 water signs.

Sorry to drop this pearl on ya but crabs are the shadiest of the zodiac and prone to emotional carnage.

Not really, you can ask my other sag signs. I guess this is just a matter of opinion. I always say it straight too. But thanks for the input

Posted by DMV
Mind your business yo

You’re saying a friend that I deeply care about is none of my business?

I think you're overreacting, relax. If his feelings were hurt, he may be fallin back from the friendship a bit. I'm a Sag and I have a tendency to do this...idk bout anyone else though.

Also, maybe he's super head over heels for her. Let him enjoy being with his Pisces, he obviously likes her...and if she turns out to be a bish, let her self sabotage on her own. Bad vibes have a way of surfacing. Meddling in other people's shiz makes you look like the bad guy, even if your intentions are just to be a good friend.

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Also, when things were going good between us he did similar things to me. I was somehow able to get him to do this and that when I didn’t really try making him do it. I’m basically concerned especially since he’s supposed to be a free spirited person and this feels way to constricted to me.

HES IN LOve

Let him be

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This is why I’m asking such a question. what better way to know if behaviors are normal than to go to others who are like minded. I like to know information to understand. Just tell me straight that this is normal and then it’s over cause I don’t believe in interfering with what someone wants. I just wanted to make sure that he’s not getting taken advantage of for his extreme sensitivity.

Posted by CuddleBug88
I think you're overreacting, relax. If his feelings were hurt, he may be fallin back from the friendship a bit. I'm a Sag and I have a tendency to do this...idk bout anyone else though.

Also, maybe he's super head over heels for her. Let him enjoy being with his Pisces, he obviously likes her...and if she turns out to be a bish, let her self sabotage on her own. Bad vibes have a way of surfacing. Meddling in other people's shiz makes you look like the bad guy, even if your intentions are just to be a good friend.

Thank you so much! This is the best advice so far on here. It’s very helpful and exactly what I needed. Thank you! May you have a good day 🙂

he has a gf, why you trippin—? he's in a relationship and you're all up his butt.

Cancers make everything about themselves and Im not even surprised.

Sag's take a while to commit, but when they do, they are the most loving and generous partners.

You need to get a life

Why gay guys always think that if a straight man wants to be his friend, hes secret gay

thats annoying AF, I hear it all of the time.

if he was secret gay, he would be trying to suck yo dick in the dark so mind your own business

and let him be in love with his gf!!!!

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Posted by CuddleBug88
I think you're overreacting, relax. If his feelings were hurt, he may be fallin back from the friendship a bit. I'm a Sag and I have a tendency to do this...idk bout anyone else though.

Also, maybe he's super head over heels for her. Let him enjoy being with his Pisces, he obviously likes her...and if she turns out to be a bish, let her self sabotage on her own. Bad vibes have a way of surfacing. Meddling in other people's shiz makes you look like the bad guy, even if your intentions are just to be a good friend.

Thank you so much! This is the best advice so far on here. It’s very helpful and exactly what I needed. Thank you! May you have a good day 🙂

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You're welcome! Hope you have a kickass day as well 🙂

Posted by CuddleBug88
I think you're overreacting, relax. If his feelings were hurt, he may be fallin back from the friendship a bit. I'm a Sag and I have a tendency to do this...idk bout anyone else though.

Also, maybe he's super head over heels for her. Let him enjoy being with his Pisces, he obviously likes her...and if she turns out to be a bish, let her self sabotage on her own. Bad vibes have a way of surfacing. Meddling in other people's shiz makes you look like the bad guy, even if your intentions are just to be a good friend.

he's not even trying to be a good friend...

if so, why would he be checking astrosigns to see if he's secret gay

WTF

he's just wishing on a star. move on OP

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Posted by CuddleBug88
I think you're overreacting, relax. If his feelings were hurt, he may be fallin back from the friendship a bit. I'm a Sag and I have a tendency to do this...idk bout anyone else though.

Also, maybe he's super head over heels for her. Let him enjoy being with his Pisces, he obviously likes her...and if she turns out to be a bish, let her self sabotage on her own. Bad vibes have a way of surfacing. Meddling in other people's shiz makes you look like the bad guy, even if your intentions are just to be a good friend.

he's not even trying to be a good friend...

if so, why would he be checking astrosigns to see if he's secret gay

WTF

he's just wishing on a star. move on OP

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Ok, think what you want. It’s not like I’m asking if things will get better between us and it just happens to be said in it each time or anything. Noooo, there’s no logic in that, is there?

Sorry I don't exactly understand the situation.... I am a Sag woman btw. What I got is that he is super close and in love with his girlfriend. Has he ever mentioned that he wants to be with you?

Also yes Sagittariuses are soft and vulnerable at heart but people don't see it if not very close with them.

I believe it is a Sagittarius thing to want to make everyone happy and see potential in everyone cause I do it too.

I wanted and still want to be a psychologists to help people. I have a natural tendency to give advice even when not asked.

Speaking just for me and a few Sag friends we have internal issues that hurt us and worry us a lot and we try in every possible way to fix them. Bottomline life is about happiness and the sun will rise again tomorrow. I really can't stay depressed for a lot.



To end this I don't know why he got so attached to her.... Maybe he show himself as the healer and rock, the strong man who help his girlfriend get well. I don't know if thats OK for him... Or even healthy..... But you can't tell him what to do. We are all adults and it's wrong to get into relationships for codependency issues.

Its like you want to save someone who is focuses on saving his girlfriend.... Like Why?

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Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Pisces women are woke. She sees you coming and lemme guess you’re a crab.

So she sees you stepping sideways. She will say it straight. Big difference between the 2 water signs.

Sorry to drop this pearl on ya but crabs are the shadiest of the zodiac and prone to emotional carnage.

Not really, you can ask my other sag signs. I guess this is just a matter of opinion. I always say it straight too. But thanks for the input

Posting on dxpnet ain’t straight. Have you confronted your sag about the world of woe this Pisces is causing you.

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I would’ve but there’s already conflict between us and I really don’t know her and this only came to my thought today. And yesterday I decided I’m not a good friend for him so I decided to move on but I just wanted to know if this is natural as he’s allowed to love who ever he wants to, I just wanted to make sure that he’s not getting taken advantage of. I got my answer already and thank you everyone cause now I realized that is a natural thing which is all that I wanted and now I’ll move on from it all.

Also, I did just ask my actual sag friend in real life about this- even though she tells everyone that I’m the most genuine person she knows- she says I unintentionally guilt people which I can see... I want to change this about me. Anyways I do get straight up about it only if I know it’s not just my emotions getting in the way of the logic. And your point is valid about that and I understand that. Thank you.

Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Messed up third wheel situation.

I hope you all get along and maybe an awesome planetary conjunction will occur and y’all will have amazing group sex together,



Pisces are down for that 😂

That is weird 😂😂😂

Posted by DMV
Mind your business yo

I was just gonna say that ^^

Slash, this sounds like a weird situation.



His girl is a pisces? Probably jealous lol

I think you're finding it hard to be on the outside looking in at your friend enjoying life with his new woman. Try your best to be there for him and be happy for him. He sounds like a man in love and one that likes to be attentive when he feels as if he has found the one.