I recently started dating a sag women who I met online and she's awesome. I'm a March Aries (23) and she's a December Sag (21) - she's the 1st Sag woman I've ever encountered dating and I'm her 1st ram...we've been dating for about 4 weeks....dinner..movies..lunches..walks in the park..public displays of affection...making plans to go here and there...I was having a tough week at the job (stressin over work projects) family (my little girl was sick) I think my moodiness and misinterpreted clingy behavior might have spooked her..because she suggested that we take a weekend break from dating and that she needed some me time to herself...I didn't have a problem with the me time..but I think my stubborn, self centered, Aries nature pushed a little too much when I should have pulled back...she got a little pissed that I still texted her after she said she needed some "me time"...I left her alone and its been about 3 days....how long is too long to wait and how short is too soon to reach out? I like the woman..but my impatient ram side wants to know if she's written me off so I can keep it moving....but some say I should chill and that she will come looking for me especially since she's told me that she really likes me....dealing with a Sag is a new experience for me ...
How long is too short...How long is too much

Let her come to u.. it sounds like u may have smothered her a little & she needs her space.. u can't get what u want the second u want it dear Aries lol btw, we have the same birthday & I dated a dec 21 guy but he was a Cap

You definitely sound like a clingy Aries. The thing is from my experience, sag like to chase.
I do think I ask this question a lot, but are you exclusive/committed to each other?
I do think I ask this question a lot, but are you exclusive/committed to each other?
We aren't exclusive and not committed and I'm not pushing for that right now...I enjoy her companionship and would like to continue seeing her...I'm an Aries with a lil pisces in me so I can sometimes get a little excitable about meeting new people....I think more than anything its a pride/ego thing..I'm not a clingy person and I definitely respect the need for personal space (god knows I love mine)..i just don't want her to have this impression of me....I'm passionate about life, family, friends and people I admire..so when I've done something to offend someone when it wasn't my intention..my driving nature is to apologize.
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