hurting people

i just found out last night that i have hurt some men in my life..i have a moon in scorpio and a venus in cap. i dont set out to intentionally hurt other people but i guess it happens...

anybody else?

I just have the problem of thinking that they think of me as a friend, when they actually have other feeling which I stomp allover when it finally comes up.
I try to make myself very clear, but it never works!

yeah it happens too me with men as well. I am really clear about what I feel and I even tell them "your a great friend" i even say it many times too them when I feel like they think I want more. sometimes being too nice is a bad thing to the people you are being nice too 😛

but I have taken a more emotionless rout now though only to protect them

the one thing I have learned from myself is that when you like someone a lot or love them you start seeing what you want too see not what is really there