I hate my family

this weekend my brother ( who I never see ) was up in the mountains with his gf and my parents went up and they all hung out. I saw all the pics on Facebook. I wasn't invited. I txted my mom and said " why didn't you tell me you guys were all up there ? " Her response " well we did, I'm telling you now lol "

Like what fucking bunch of narcissistic a-holes. God thing I'm a sag and I am really independent from them but fuck how cruel and mean they can be when I even try to inculde myself and be nice. Than they wonder why I have issues...smh

family isn't everything.

That's really f*cked up :-/

Surely there must be a back story to this, like are you adopted? Lol

Wow, that sucks. Sometimes I'll wake up and my mom and step dad won't be home, they'll just wake up and leave without telling me where they are going. Scary.

feel better.

I'm sorry. Is there any reason why you couldn't go, like you live far away or something?

There's no rational explanation for this?

Do they do things like this often?

That's complete bullshyt!!! I can't believe a parent would do this to a child. Are you and your brother close? Is she jealous of a bond you have with your dad or brother? Unbelievable! I'm sorry too. Go do something great for yourself and say f them!!!

Is this your twin bro?

I fight with my Sag brother a lot...I try to avoid him whenever possible

Posted by saggurl88
That's complete bullshyt!!! I can't believe a parent would do this to a child. Are you and your brother close? Is she jealous of a bond you have with your dad or brother? Unbelievable! I'm sorry too. Go do something great for yourself and say f them!!!

Wow you totally called it! Yes my mother tries and pushes all my family members against me because she needs all the attention on her. She has serious issues. ( Leo, venus in cancer) Not that astrology matters on this because she is just a whack job lol

Thank you guys for the support btw I'm glad you don't think I'm overreacting cause thats what my mom would say lol

Posted by enfant_terrible
That's really f*cked up :-/

Surely there must be a back story to this, like are you adopted? Lol

Actually me and my brother both are. Sometimes people who adopt are doing that for bad reasons.

Posted by Wynter
Is this your twin bro?

I fight with my Sag brother a lot...I try to avoid him whenever possible

Yes it is. I know we don't either :/ but I think mostly because of my mom. I remember once we went to a camp together and we hung out the whole time. He made me laugh all day and I felt like he was my best friend. Of course after camp was over and we got back to being around family I was treated invisible again. That was one of the best weeks of my life cause I had connection to a family me member than just got swept away. le sigh.

Posted by Marmotini
I'm sorry. Is there any reason why you couldn't go, like you live far away or something?

There's no rational explanation for this?

Do they do things like this often?

We live all in different cities maybe it's not far enough lol maybe i should change states, I've thought about it a lot.

Posted by Sutekh
Family is overrated, but my Moon is square pluto and Im a sag I usually chalk it up to that.

Most of them live elsewhere, Brooklyn, Philly, Virgin Islands, St Lucia, some are out west, I don't have to see them LOL.

Hahaha right?

Posted by tiziani
Just don't do go out to a party and get drunk all night in retaliation.

haha!

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Posted by saggurl88
That's complete bullshyt!!! I can't believe a parent would do this to a child. Are you and your brother close? Is she jealous of a bond you have with your dad or brother? Unbelievable! I'm sorry too. Go do something great for yourself and say f them!!!

Wow you totally called it! Yes my mother tries and pushes all my family members against me because she needs all the attention on her. She has serious issues. ( Leo, venus in cancer) Not that astrology matters on this because she is just a whack job lol

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I know a Can/Leo cusp who has a one year old Sag daughter and is already putting expectations on her head...I cant help but think that kid is going to grow up a bit neurotic because of it.

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Posted by saggurl88
That's complete bullshyt!!! I can't believe a parent would do this to a child. Are you and your brother close? Is she jealous of a bond you have with your dad or brother? Unbelievable! I'm sorry too. Go do something great for yourself and say f them!!!

Wow you totally called it! Yes my mother tries and pushes all my family members against me because she needs all the attention on her. She has serious issues. ( Leo, venus in cancer) Not that astrology matters on this because she is just a whack job lol

I know a Can/Leo cusp who has a one year old Sag daughter and is already putting expectations on her head...I cant help but think that kid is going to grow up a bit neurotic because of it.

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That is awful. I bet! Parenting is really serious thing and I sometimes feel people don't get that

Posted by Sag89
Thank you guys for the support btw I'm glad you don't think I'm overreacting cause thats what my mom would say lol

I think you should plan things to do with your brother. Someone mentioned he is your twin, I have a twin brother as well 🙂 You guys are both grown so plan trips or camping or something together with a group of friends and do it as much as you can. Don't let your mom get you down. I'm sure she loves you she just can't think clearly with how selfish she is.

Posted by tiziani
Parents never really know how much damage they do to their children in even just the little things, it's true.

But luckily friends are there and family is really what you make it. Especially as an independent person.

true that. true that.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Sag89
Thank you guys for the support btw I'm glad you don't think I'm overreacting cause thats what my mom would say lol

I think you should plan things to do with your brother. Someone mentioned he is your twin, I have a twin brother as well 🙂 You guys are both grown so plan trips or camping or something together with a group of friends and do it as much as you can. Don't let your mom get you down. I'm sure she loves you she just can't think clearly with how selfish she is.

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I agree thanks sag I think I'm gonna try that.

Posted by tiziani
You know I'm listening to Pretty Ricky right now? Haha. Thought that might cheer you up.

who and what is that?

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Posted by tiziani
You know I'm listening to Pretty Ricky right now? Haha. Thought that might cheer you up.

who and what is that?

what kind of childhood did you HAVE??

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haha tell me! who?

Posted by harry99

Posted by Sag89
Thank you guys for the support btw I'm glad you don't think I'm overreacting cause thats what my mom would say lol

My mom's a narcissist too so no worries I know the feeling. She makes me feel like crap sometimes I swear it freakin sucks.
Good for you that you're a Sag I'm a clingy Taurus bleh I hate it. My sister went to Canada without me, she went with her friends and never even invited me. My sister and I used to be really close and now it's like I'm lucky to see her once a year. Everyone in my family knows all about my life but everyone else in my family just keeps secrets from me then make me feel stupid for not knowing. Sometimes I truly hate my family. But whatever. It is what it is I'll survive.

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Omg your like saying my life, I feel you. Yea they never change either, it sucks but ya you prattle on somehow.