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Oh, yeah, I met many Sagi girls, and all of them wanted to bang me from the beginning, and they were very clear, although, they're shy in person, but over text they tell you everything until they get relaxed. And then they become clingy, and start calling you every day like mad. LOL...it's VERY obvious when they're interested, so when they are, you can bang them right away...no excuses, no BS. 😄
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haha un fuckin real you guys!!

When I say hit the breaks, and seeing all the feedback. I just want to switch up my strategy that's all.. I don't want her to think i'm predictable.. WE WORK TOGETHER!! I sit 3 feet away from her on the daily. Last Friday, we were in a Conf room, working for 6 hours out of the 8! Not once did it get boring, it was constant smiles, laughs, and hard work obviously 😉

For whoever stated she's out of my league, not the case at all. I have never once felt any woman is out of my league.. Normally my Piscean charms bursts through all that! 😉 I'm more attracted to her personality and how much we get along, and click. Don't get me wrong, she's beautiful inside and out. That smile melts me!! LOL

So normally over the wkd, I would hit her up.. reach out.. see what's going on. This wkd I didn't.. absolutely showed her no attention whatsoever. Then Monday rolls around, she saw me, and her eyes lit up. Then it was story after story, about her weekend.. then she brings up, how she needs to move out. Then she sends me some random link, "Want to buy a 5 bedroom house". Then she goes on about how, her, myself, my close friend, and his GF.. get a place together! lol

Then it was back to normal..

Regardless of the outcome, I am learning a lot about myself. Being that this is my first Sag girl, she has flipped my world upside down.. Though all of it, has taught me so much.. I am determined to grow, improve, through this all.

At the end of the day, I've come to a conclusion, worst case scenario I have myself an amazing best friend. Best case scenario, that family she wants, it will be with me.

I also noticed on Monday, she was giving me a lot of eye contact when I was working and focused.. I'd look at her, she'd look away.. C'mon now!

It's seriously like this cat and mouse game!

I will say it again, I appreciate all the feedback and responses.
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Lol, lunches and flowers. that's weak...friends go to lunch, not somebody who wants something more. And flowers are weak...typical nice guy behavior. She will quickly get bored, girls don't like nice guys. xD
I totally agree!!! It's not "masculine " behaviour in my eyes! Very wet and comes across as weak! But unfortunately pisces is a feminine sign!! He perhaps needs to chase a water, earth or air sign.

But the sag is not ready for anything.. So will pulling the brakes really be that bad? And let's face it, every guy that sees a girl wants to get into her pants regardless as to what method He uses!! Just putting it out there!!
Do you even know Sag women?

She says shes not ready but thats just a test. Hence why I said STAY STEADY AND KEEP GOING. If you don't know what you are talking about just stay silent. Weeds is even confirming what I'm saying. Fucking Christ. I don't think this dude has the balls for a Sag chick afterall.
My sister is a sag!! Thanks... He seems like a really nice guy!! Perhaps you have too.much "balls" and where did that get you Mr Brash!!!! You reek of pure unadulterated aggression!!
Because I speak the truth and not bullshit? I do have balls. Enough balls to get what I want.

How long have you been single? You know shit about getting a Sag woman. Fucking know it all Leo moons.

I wasn't gonna be mean and call you a cow but, I will now. MOOOO BITCH! Go graze and get fatter.
Is that why you are a single parent arsehole!!! Look in the mirror chump!! The only thing fat around here is your ugly aggressive tongue.... Let us hope it does not transfer onto your kid asswipe!
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I'm a single parent because some drunk Brit with no valid drivers license
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Decided to drink and drive and take her life at 20 years old on her way to work. Fuck off cow
Sorry about her.

Fu though asshole!
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I know you are not sorry. Thats cool with me. Don't have to pretend to have a heart. You demonstrate repeatedly on here that you don't.

Call me an asshole all you want. Don't bother me one bit to be honest. There is not a fake bone in my body. You have so much hatred in your system, you must be in agony. Find a way to get it out. It will destroy your soul.
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Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. You are a pisces right?' please do not get obsessed with concentrating just on her. You seem to be already creating an imaginary relationship with her in yr head! You don't know what life will bring. She may or my not be your future wife or the mother of your children!! Please just be realistic and keep things firmly on the ground. She is only your work colleague in reality who you get on really well with. That's it! Also consider should you both get together and it fails you then have to see each other every day at work. Have you thought about that? Are you prepared for a bad atmosphere or to seek other employment? Basically in my working life I have never had relationships at work as in my view it would be like "shitting on my own doorstep "! Juat take it easy. Don't just focus everything on her.
Yup, thx!
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The ram vs the bull lol
A Centaur can kill them both with our bow/arrow...can run faster too 😆
This is FUNNY!!! An archer is so.clumsy they can't even shoot straight... So by the time you have your bow and flimsy arrow ready bull would have shoved it's horns into you and toss you aside....NEXT!! Lol
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Lol...this coming from an animal that chases red capes lol
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The ram vs the bull lol
A Centaur can kill them both with our bow/arrow...can run faster too 😆
This is FUNNY!!! An archer is so.clumsy they can't even shoot straight... So by the time you have your bow and flimsy arrow ready bull would have shoved it's horns into you and toss you aside....NEXT!! Lol
Lol...this coming from an animal that chases red capes lol
We may see red and chase red capes, but cross a bull and you soon see how quickly we can move a
nd just how deep our horns will go!! 😉
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Lol, if you can catch us 😉
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I've been giving you a dose of reality about sags.

Next I'll be giving you pointers on how not to get your heart broken. You're acting like a puppy with two peters about this girl. Calm your tits. If you don't this will be over as fast as it started.

TRUST ME
Man Can't help but get happy, when I got that positive INTEL..

Oh I get you bro.. Just expressing my Piscean joy! hahahah!!
Aww, I love this about Pisces men. I'm sure she's loves your sensitivity as well. Just don't be too clingy!
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Hah!!

Being a Pisces man can feel like a curse sometimes! LOL

What's been interesting lately, is that with my new approach.. she's been a lot more playful with me.. which is nice ;]
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Sorry to hijack your thread but I am lazy to create a new one anyways my question is simple: does a sag girl respect the girl code e.g if a guy she knew liked her but a female friend she knows like that guy and the sag girl knows about her friend feelings for that guy and that guy tries to pursue her, would be more akin to reject the guy?
Depends on the sags investment in the guy.
but usually the sag will acknowledge the friend and step aside.
The guy regardless of what he does will have no say in the sags decision if the friend is a good friend.
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Sorry to hijack your thread but I am lazy to create a new one anyways my question is simple: does a sag girl respect the girl code e.g if a guy she knew liked her but a female friend she knows like that guy and the sag girl knows about her friend feelings for that guy and that guy tries to pursue her, would be more akin to reject the guy?
Your a 12th house gemini and can not get what you want?

....ahh your lazy that's why....she sees this also so shel'll slide over and let the friend have you.
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Or she simply isn't interested anyway?
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Ah thats a separate thing if you don't acknowledge a sag thats chasing you don't expect them to still have interest at a later time.
They hate being ignored in such matters.
Because they should not have been chasing in the first place!!!!
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aah i don't know about that...
sometimes women go after what they want and that something doesn't know it at the time... now just because that something doesn't know it doesn't mean they should be unattainable.
reminds me of the story of the sword in the stone... somethings are just ment for YOU to go after.
i know what your getting at but BUT there are exceptions.
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Ah thats a separate thing if you don't acknowledge a sag thats chasing you don't expect them to still have interest at a later time.
They hate being ignored in such matters.
Because they should not have been chasing in the first place!!!!
aah i don't know about that...
sometimes women go after what they want and that something doesn't know it at the time... now just because that something doesn't know it doesn't mean they should be unattainable.
reminds me of the story of the sword in the stone... somethings are just ment for YOU to go after.
i know what your getting at but BUT there are exceptions.
But as we can see.... It does not work!!!! Lol lol
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he recognized her but admitted he was too busy... it happens
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Sorry to hijack your thread but I am lazy to create a new one anyways my question is simple: does a sag girl respect the girl code e.g if a guy she knew liked her but a female friend she knows like that guy and the sag girl knows about her friend feelings for that guy and that guy tries to pursue her, would be more akin to reject the guy?
Depends on the sags investment in the guy.
but usually the sag will acknowledge the friend and step aside.
The guy regardless of what he does will have no say in the sags decision if the friend is a good friend.
dayyum...actually she chased me for quite abit but i was extremely passive because i was so busy with work oh well..
You have missed your cue!! Lesson: I don't believe a woman should be chasing a man so if a woman does the least you can do is to reciprocate early on in you are interested!! She's well rid!!
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I nominate all men to quit chasing women. Fuck population
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Ah thats a separate thing if you don't acknowledge a sag thats chasing you don't expect them to still have interest at a later time.
They hate being ignored in such matters.
Because they should not have been chasing in the first place!!!!
aah i don't know about that...
sometimes women go after what they want and that something doesn't know it at the time... now just because that something doesn't know it doesn't mean they should be unattainable.
reminds me of the story of the sword in the stone... somethings are just ment for YOU to go after.
i know what your getting at but BUT there are exceptions.
But as we can see.... It does not work!!!! Lol lol
he recognized her but admitted he was too busy... it happens
"too busy".... Mmmmm not really!! If you TRULY want some thing you find the time!! The sag was right to move on!!!
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Not if the person you chase has no idea what they want.
Which goes into a whole nother realm.
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What up everyone!! Hope you all are having a good week!!

I've started to pick up on a few things, that do not sit right with me. Once I took my head out the clouds, and got out of my feels.. I am reading things with a bit more clarity now.. there are a lot of factors.

I'll be the first to admit, I really got blinded by her.. and wasn't seeing the obvious signs. This girl is far from ready, after learning more about her in the past couple of weeks, brought more confirmation.

Just this week alone, through conversation with her.. she's is seriously "anti guy". She thinks all men are going to let her down, and abandon her. I put myself in the friendzone by caring too much, too early.. and that was my fault. Therefore I will accept that, and be that solid friend to her. 😄

Tho on a random note, I met two new Sag girls this week!! How cray is that! 😄 😉 lol

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What up everyone!! Hope you all are having a good week!!

I've started to pick up on a few things, that do not sit right with me. Once I took my head out the clouds, and got out of my feels.. I am reading things with a bit more clarity now.. there are a lot of factors.

I'll be the first to admit, I really got blinded by her.. and wasn't seeing the obvious signs. This girl is far from ready, after learning more about her in the past couple of weeks, brought more confirmation.

Just this week alone, through conversation with her.. she's is seriously "anti guy". She thinks all men are going to let her down, and abandon her. I put myself in the friendzone by caring too much, too early.. and that was my fault. Therefore I will accept that, and be that solid friend to her. 😄

Tho on a random note, I met two new Sag girls this week!! How cray is that! 😄 😉 lol
Just from a virgo point of view that is the perfect opportunity to pick up all her pieces and glue her back together... but alas that opportunity is not for everyone.
Perhaps you made the better choice In your situation.
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What up everyone!! Hope you all are having a good week!!

I've started to pick up on a few things, that do not sit right with me. Once I took my head out the clouds, and got out of my feels.. I am reading things with a bit more clarity now.. there are a lot of factors.

I'll be the first to admit, I really got blinded by her.. and wasn't seeing the obvious signs. This girl is far from ready, after learning more about her in the past couple of weeks, brought more confirmation.

Just this week alone, through conversation with her.. she's is seriously "anti guy". She thinks all men are going to let her down, and abandon her. I put myself in the friendzone by caring too much, too early.. and that was my fault. Therefore I will accept that, and be that solid friend to her. 😄

Tho on a random note, I met two new Sag girls this week!! How cray is that! 😄 😉 lol
Just from a virgo point of view that is the perfect opportunity to pick up all her pieces and glue her back together... but alas that opportunity is not for everyone.
Perhaps you made the better choice In your situation.
Thats typical virgo... Fixing stuff and putting pieces back together. Not the OPs job!! Let the sag fix herself. The world is small and oceans are huge.... OP got time to go fishing!!!
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Lol I don't know there is something so beautiful about something so sad.
That is the purist form of a sag
not one typically gets to see.
While it may not be anyones job its nice to have a heart once in awhile and not let ppl be crushed under their own weight.
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Another Friday!!

Hope everyone is having a great week, and a good weekend ahead.

Some new updates!

She has recently moved 10 mins away from me, and wants to commute with me now.

Also she has shown way more attention, and being much more playful.

She's now starting "verbally plan" things with me, vs.... I was the one prior doing all the planning. (we should go do Karaoke, we should go check out this, we should try this place to eat)

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Here's what I find funny and ironic...

So for those who have read through all the threads.. you'll know there as a time where she let me have it at work. I call it our DDay! LOL

So today it was my turn.. which was odd, because it wasn't planned.

All day she's been like lets go eat lunch, lets go for a break.. lets do this, lets go here, blah blah blah..

so we go for a break.. and then there was an opening.

So I said, "I want you to hear me out on this, since you had your time to tell me your thoughts, and basically rip me a new one" it's my turn.. so please listen. She completely shutup, and listen to everything I had to say..

Here's her responses during my talk..

"Oh my God, I am so sorry Dan"
"I don't even remember saying that"
"Wait what, I'm so sorry"
"You must have caught me on a bad day"

She then tells me, "Dan that's us Sag girls, sometimes I say things I don't really mean.. especially if I'm in a bad mood, or hungover"

Then she starts to just dump all this info on me about her ex.. (a Pisces of 4 years), then just a bunch more about her life prior to coming out to SF.. stuff I have never heard before.

I then said, all I want is to be a good friend to you.. she then looked at me like i was nutz and said.. "Umm Ok"... "Well that's what I really need right now". Then super random, she says.. "we gotta go check out Vegas soon" then we walk back to the office! lol

Anyways, it has been a great adventure so far.. ups and downs.. yes..but I am happy I am over all the feels, and emo ish.. pull my heads out of the clouds, and back to me. It's all good, either way..
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Posted by dontgetmewrong
"Vitamin D" ...lol...never heard that one.

Ok "playa"...do your thang then, just wasn't sure if you were still hung up on her or not, just trying to make sure you dreamy pisces self isn't getting too deep just yet.
Good looking out!! Appreciate that! 😉

Tho on that note.. I will say this.. I have met 3 new sag girls the past couple of weeks.. one of which is this russian girl, who is extremely aggressive with seeing me, and hanging out! LOL so we're supposed to "LINK" up on Saturday 😛
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Posted by tiziani
Good man.

Let the situation with a good friend (thumbs up) and a good looking woman to walk around town to attract the other women


And should by any chance you both happen to stay late one evening at the bar and get drunk

then you just turn over to her side of the bed the next morning and go "oh my god, did we just wake up in a relationship—"


Good times.
haha!! Nice!! 😄
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"Vitamin D" ...lol...never heard that one.

Ok "playa"...do your thang then, just wasn't sure if you were still hung up on her or not, just trying to make sure you dreamy pisces self isn't getting too deep just yet.
Good looking out!! Appreciate that! 😉

Tho on that note.. I will say this.. I have met 3 new sag girls the past couple of weeks.. one of which is this russian girl, who is extremely aggressive with seeing me, and hanging out! LOL so we're supposed to "LINK" up on Saturday 😛
but the one your really interested in is telling you to invest time in her and be there for her? i would not disappoint her and link up with the other female.
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Eh.. but see there is a lot more..

If she isn't ready, why should I put my life on hold, and wait?

She's already flaked on me numerous times, when we were supposed to hang out.... even at the most minimal friendship level, that isn't cool.

This tells me, I'm not to important in her life right now.. which is totally fine. I'll let her do her thing, give her her freedom, for example, she's off to Vegas this weekend for her girls bday.. her priorities are her, her new life in SF, and her current friends.

The best thing for me is to be her ROCk, her Solid Go to guy.. she's already had a sour previous BF (Pisces) of 4 years, who got up moved, and dropped her.. I can see why she may be hesitant on another Pisces! LOL
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What's your sign Mr. ?
Pisces / March 11th
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I KNEW it! I knew you were Pisces! I too am seeing a Saggy (man). He's sooooooooooooo attentative to me. I like the way you write your "stories". Pisces and Sagittarius are "neutral". Saggies tend to be harsh when they speak and just take with a grain of salt. Example, true "story" as it just happened today, 15 Dec 15.

I texted my Saggy good morning. No response. I called and asked if he received my text. He said he did, but didn't have time to respond. My response? "Oh!" okay. I told him I'd let him go and to have a good day. Guess what!? He called me about 15 minutes later. We as Pisceans give out a "vibe" that you hurt us (not intentionally, but that's how Saggies are). No excuse. I could give excuses like: it was too early for him, he's not a morning person, etc. but he never responded to me like that before (we've known on another for about three weeks). So when he called he said he was running late, that the day was a crappy Tuesday, he forgot his blue tooth, etc. I told him, "God woke you up this morning; so it isn't a crappy day!. Things happen. He likes my enthusiasm, upbeat, and positive attitude with life.

In other words if she is a little harsh with words, again, take it with a grain of salt. She will come back and either apologize, or will reciprocate the call (and not with a text); and if you texted her, then she'll reciprocate (better to have her call you).

Eva March 2nd.