Haha, ok, life is good now ... for the moment anyway.
My aqua's 21 y/o cousin came to visit last week. She was supposed to stay for 2 nights, but that grew to 4, then a week, and now it may be a bit open ended. At first I thought my gf and her cousin were colluding on the extended stay and I was somewhat put off that i wasn't being included on the discussion ... but, I found out yesterday that there really hasn't been any discussion. My gf doesn't know what her cousin's plans are any better than I.
Meanwhile, the cousin has been totally buttering me up; she goes on and on about my cooking and how cute I am, and she's all interested in my hobbies ... and she totally cleaned the kitchen the other day ... it's cleaner than it has been, EVER!
So, I'm just loving the extra attention and help around the house ... haha, and I think my gf is a little bit jealous. It could be a coincidence, but I've gotten sex 3 out of the last 4 days with little effort on my part. My theory is that she doesn't want me being too horny with a 21 y/o running around.
So, I just had this realization today: I may get a little revenge without having to do anything at all. The hardest thing for me to deal with after my gf cheated was all the times she had to work late legitimately. I knew she was close to the guy and could go do him anytime she wanted. That was an awful feeling to have to deal with for the last 2 months. Often, my gf did nothing to alleviate my anxiety of that by letting me know what she was up to. I'd go so far as to say that she made it out as though she were sleeping with him whether she was or not. I had a hell of a time dealing with it, and that's what really drove me to break up with her the 1st time.
So, now I find myself in a position of possibly having an attractive 21 y/o around when my gf is out working late. Haha, nothing has to happen, I don't have to flirt, I don't have to do anything to be attractive, I don't even have to be at home ... I know my gf. I know she's gonna worry "intensely" about what's happening at home with her cousin. Revenge is sweet, and I'm having it handed to me on a silver platter!
She will worry intensely bcus as a "thinker" that is what they do. She will play it cool-air ya know, and not show you her jealous side. So as long as YOU know she has one, have fun with it! Like you said you do not have to do anything! LOL. Karma is coming around so maybe her lesson will be learned! 🙂
My aqua's 21 y/o cousin came to visit last week. She was supposed to stay for 2 nights, but that grew to 4, then a week, and now it may be a bit open ended. At first I thought my gf and her cousin were colluding on the extended stay and I was somewhat put off that i wasn't being included on the discussion ... but, I found out yesterday that there really hasn't been any discussion. My gf doesn't know what her cousin's plans are any better than I.
Meanwhile, the cousin has been totally buttering me up; she goes on and on about my cooking and how cute I am, and she's all interested in my hobbies ... and she totally cleaned the kitchen the other day ... it's cleaner than it has been, EVER!
So, I'm just loving the extra attention and help around the house ... haha, and I think my gf is a little bit jealous. It could be a coincidence, but I've gotten sex 3 out of the last 4 days with little effort on my part. My theory is that she doesn't want me being too horny with a 21 y/o running around.
So, I just had this realization today: I may get a little revenge without having to do anything at all. The hardest thing for me to deal with after my gf cheated was all the times she had to work late legitimately. I knew she was close to the guy and could go do him anytime she wanted. That was an awful feeling to have to deal with for the last 2 months. Often, my gf did nothing to alleviate my anxiety of that by letting me know what she was up to. I'd go so far as to say that she made it out as though she were sleeping with him whether she was or not. I had a hell of a time dealing with it, and that's what really drove me to break up with her the 1st time.
So, now I find myself in a position of possibly having an attractive 21 y/o around when my gf is out working late. Haha, nothing has to happen, I don't have to flirt, I don't have to do anything to be attractive, I don't even have to be at home ... I know my gf. I know she's gonna worry "intensely" about what's happening at home with her cousin. Revenge is sweet, and I'm having it handed to me on a silver platter!