They say Leo's and Sags are suppose to be great for each other, yet me and my Sag can't get along to save our lives. The disagreements are constant, he annoys me with his nonchalant attitude and I annoy him because of my dramatic emotions.
We are extremely attracted to each other and have even talked about having a family together. We don't live in the same state but he was constantly talking about me moving where he was, finishing school there and us starting a family (all this while actually skipping the dating process)
In the beginning, my sag would text every morning and throughout the day faithfully. He was excited about the thought of me and wanted me there with him. When I told him I'd rather not get pregnant by him while not living in the same state and id rather get to know each other pass the infatuation stage we were in, he said he'd rather not waste time dating and he had decided he wanted me to be the girl he chose to be with
Of course I can't just move to a different state, no matter how much I liked him. His attitude started getting bitter towards me after that. The good morning texts slowed down. The conversations got shorter and it just felt like I was the one keeping us talking.
I'm just confused as to how he can be so stuck on this idea of me being there with him, starting a life and everything, then I say I'm not getting pregnant before we at least date and his attitude change. Do Sags have a my way or no way attitude?? Are they really nonchalant individuals?? Can they turn their attraction switches off and on in a heart beat??
Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
You're skipping the obvious red flags. You two haven't dated yet or even been in the same city as each other. So why are you entertaining the thought of starting a family? It seems odd that he's trying to rush things.
Yes Sags can be very flexible individuals, unless they feel strongly about something. Sags are known to "beat a dead horse" when they become argumentative or passionate about something. In which case they can be hard to deter from their opinion.
If you are fighting a lot now, there's no reason to think that marriage will fix that. Since you are in an LDR the issue with the communication between you could just be distance, but you won't know that until the two of you are actually within close proximity of one another. I suggest visting one another first (and dating too). There's no point in rushing into a marriage, especially if you feel uncomfortable about it. If he has issues with you taking your time, find a guy who is more patient (and rational).
Yes, have to agree with what Chuckcem said. Yes Sags can also turn on and off switch pretty fast, at least I can. If there is a good enough reason for that. Also I do tend to go my way or no way sometime but usually end up pleasing the other person if I care for them anyway. If I don't it sure will be only my way lol and yeah personally I don't find Leo's to fit me well at all...those are just lies lol
Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
33 years old female
im a sag and dated a Leo long distance. we had known each other for years and one day just started talking. his emotions were too much, I don't know if he was just starved for attention beyond my ability as a sag or if nothing was just ever good enough. he played stupid games to see if I would care and at time his lion on a thrown self would say some pretty mean butter. he ended up breaking up with me, and I don't think he wanted me to let him but secretly I was relieved. I know we could have made it work but he was too much about himself and me conforming then he was about the compromise.