Lord.... Lord.... LAWD... This man!! (Page 2)

Posted by DMV
he got you on dxp going coocoo for cocoa puffs

True.... True....

I am going to take a HUGE step back. I need to get my mind right. Seriously!

Posted by Delaneia

Posted by TruthIs
Girl, a Scorpio sun and Libra moon woman will beat a bitch down for her man. This is a big thing for you because you're smart and you know how females can be, especially around a man that is taken. They play the "friend" role and you don't roll like that.

^ +1
I knew a scorp sun/lib moon female and she'd rob banks for her man

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Ok that's where I draw my line in the sand! Nothing illegal. Lol.

ha!

But its got me all messed up in the head, apparently. Lol.

I thought I was fine and then BAM! It's similar to drinking while sitting in the sun. You think your fine until you stand up and every thing around you starts spinning. Lol. Smh.

I need to gain control of this roller coaster before I get thrown off. LMAO!

Posted by natural25
He did. He went down on me.... **bows head in shame**

Sorry about the TMI, but he was down there for good 30 minutes. Basically until I had to stop him bc I could not take it anymore. Flipping me around... I have NEVER experienced anything like it in all my 31 years on this planet. SMH. This just aint' right! SMH.

I need an intervention.

Daaammmmnnnn...he woulda had me...he could've said it over the intercom at Grand Central Station and I would have just nodded in defeat.

It honestly felt like he had added an attachment to his tongue; that he just **clicked** in his mouth. Lol. I wanted to look down to see what the hell he was doing, but I couldn't muster the strength.... Smh.

This is the deal. I am going to leave this here alone, bc this man could be highly dangerous if **I** continue to get thrown off. Lol. But seriously, I am going to take a step back and stop all this.

It really is unbecoming. Ha!

Lol @ cool as a pickle.

We talked last night and he declared his "like" for me. Lol. He said that he feels we have a genuine connection and he feels that we can make each other better people. He even started stating examples of how we are already making each other better....

All is good in the hood! 🙂

Update!!!

I'm at his house as we speak. Lol. He's at work. So yea... Lol. I came over last night. He cooked me dinner. We played connect four (don't hate) and talked until about 3.

He tells me how much he likes me and that when he was in church a couple days ago he prayed to meet a woman who wasn't like some of the other women he has dated, and then he met me. Lol. Then he tried to lock me into agreeing that we won't date anyone else.

Hmmm... What else... Oh! He asked me to just tell him what I want and teach him how to please me, he will do what ever to keep me, etc. I'm not even exaggerating. I was just sitting there like ooooook. Either he is trying to seriously game me up or I have messed around and died and gone to heaven. Lol. Probably door number one.

He begged me not to leave when he left for work this morning. I live about 45 minutes away, so I figured I'd sit tight. I have nothing to do today anyway. And I have my lap top. Ha.

**sigh**

Posted by natural25
Lol. But you.... know. Something strange happened last night.

He asked me how my day was and about this guy who works at my school who likes me. I told him about my day and that I was concerned because the guy left a note on my car yesterday evening and I think he is getting a little ahead of himself.. He asked what the note said. I told him an abbreviated version of the note. In all reality, the note was not a love a sonnet. Lol. It was just his guy asking me out AGAAIN and I am getting tired of it. This is a guy who I am not attracted to.

Anyway, the Pisces says, "yea men want what they cant have." Then I said, "well then i need to make sure you cant have me". His response, "I already do."

I told him that was wrong way to respond. Lol. He said he knew thats why he said it and he wasn't going to blow my head up after a guy just left a not on my car.

Arrogance or insecurity?

Or confidence? Does the man not "have you"? You may be trying to hide it, but I thinking he's probably reading it all the same.

Posted by natural25
UGH!!!

I was going to talk to him and let him know that just because he went under the sea and gave me the red light special **sorry if this is TMI**, I am not his and there are never any guarantees.

But I don't want to be one of those chicks that runs her flapper trapper and the guy is sitting there like, "yeeeeaaaa suuuuurrreeee".

Meanwhile back at the ranch, I am sitting there looking stupid.

In my Scorpio mind, I am thinking "there has to be a way to control this man!"

LOL!

Further more, for a man to say that, taking a risk that I could be offended and never talk to him again, it makes me wonder how much he values/respects me....

Now I'm confused. *continue to read*

Posted by DMV
yeah your "control" side is rearing its head. this pisces is psychic and he knows what you want and how to make you squirm. his remark wasnt a stab in the dark.

he value and respects you for just about how long he has known you. but he's going to want to wear the pants to protect his own self.

+1

Posted by natural25
He did. He went down on me.... **bows head in shame**

Sorry about the TMI, but he was down there for good 30 minutes. Basically until I had to stop him bc I could not take it anymore...

Bow head in shame? What? How about *hi 5*?

Posted by natural25
It honestly felt like he had added an attachment to his tongue; that he just **clicked** in his mouth. Lol. I wanted to look down to see what the hell he was doing, but I couldn't muster the strength.... Smh.

This is the deal. I am going to leave this here alone, bc this man could be highly dangerous if **I** continue to get thrown off. Lol. But seriously, I am going to take a step back and stop all this.

It really is unbecoming. Ha!

This is your need for control taking over. Just sayin'. Be careful and don't let it take over too much.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by natural25
It honestly felt like he had added an attachment to his tongue; that he just **clicked** in his mouth. Lol. I wanted to look down to see what the hell he was doing, but I couldn't muster the strength.... Smh.

This is the deal. I am going to leave this here alone, bc this man could be highly dangerous if **I** continue to get thrown off. Lol. But seriously, I am going to take a step back and stop all this.

It really is unbecoming. Ha!

This is your need for control taking over. Just sayin'. Be careful and don't let it take over too much.

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I know.... I know... But I'm working on it. Lol.

Posted by SUT3point0

Posted by natural25
Update!!!

I'm at his house as we speak. Lol. He's at work. So yea... Lol. I came over last night. He cooked me dinner. We played connect four (don't hate) and talked until about 3.

He tells me how much he likes me and that when he was in church a couple days ago he prayed to meet a woman who wasn't like some of the other women he has dated, and then he met me. Lol. Then he tried to lock me into agreeing that we won't date anyone else.

Hmmm... What else... Oh! He asked me to just tell him what I want and teach him how to please me, he will do what ever to keep me, etc. I'm not even exaggerating. I was just sitting there like ooooook. Either he is trying to seriously game me up or I have messed around and died and gone to heaven. Lol. Probably door number one.

He begged me not to leave when he left for work this morning. I live about 45 minutes away, so I figured I'd sit tight. I have nothing to do today anyway. And I have my lap top. Ha.

**sigh**

This is so neptune lol

Im waiting for the unicorns n stuff to show up

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What do you mean Neptune?

#donthate

Posted by natural25


What do you mean Neptune?

Keywords:

spirituality, dreams, illusions, imagination, idealism

Don't sweat it.

Lol. :-/

Sut is just hating bc he has that dark creepy ass Venus placement in Scorpio. Lol.

Posted by SUT3point0
nah not hating, I just know Venus conjunct Neptune. Always floating in a cloud until the cloud dissipates.

Actually it typically takes a lot to get me excited. Well kinda.... Lol.

Dude (Fish boy) is coming on a little strong with all of that imo. Just be cautious you don't get lost n his dream world. I'll be honest, I thought I was reading a passage from a ZANE novel. I don't doubt he believes every word he saying, doesn't mean you have to.

Lmao @ ZANE novel. I told him last night, I believe actions and consistency not words.

Posted by SUT3point0

Posted by PhoenixRising
Dude (Fish boy) is coming on a little strong with all of that imo. Just be cautious you don't get lost n his dream world. I'll be honest, I thought I was reading a passage from a ZANE novel. I don't doubt he believes every word he saying, doesn't mean you have to.

And Natural 25 has Venus conjunct Neptune. So I mean....

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So do I, so I get her excitement. Paired with the Sun that wants to be taken, owned, conquered and loved intensely... his words seem to offer exactly that, hence the vision of "happily ever after". Her suspicious nature should kick in anytime now though and put a stop to all of that--or maybe is just mine.

Posted by natural25
Lmao @ ZANE novel. I told him last night, I believe actions and consistency not words.

^^^^See. This should put a cold water on all that dreaming. I think Sut's point was when dude's actions don't match his words the fall will be harder.

Sut, why are you talking as though I'm not here!?!!

Now please repeat that in English. Lol.

PhoenixRising: my pride and ego are a mutha! Actions have to follow words, or after a while, no dice.

I'm just being cool and enjoying it. One day at a time.

PHV - Get out of here and smoke a blunt!!

I haven't heard this song in a long time!!!

**let your panties hit the floor, let your body steal the show right now**

I know that's right! So you know it's real!!! Lol!

Either or. Good song regardless...

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Posted by natural25
Update!!!

I'm at his house as we speak. Lol. He's at work. So yea... Lol. I came over last night. He cooked me dinner. We played connect four (don't hate) and talked until about 3.

He tells me how much he likes me and that when he was in church a couple days ago he prayed to meet a woman who wasn't like some of the other women he has dated, and then he met me. Lol. Then he tried to lock me into agreeing that we won't date anyone else.

Hmmm... What else... Oh! He asked me to just tell him what I want and teach him how to please me, he will do what ever to keep me, etc. I'm not even exaggerating. I was just sitting there like ooooook. Either he is trying to seriously game me up or I have messed around and died and gone to heaven. Lol. Probably door number one.

He begged me not to leave when he left for work this morning. I live about 45 minutes away, so I figured I'd sit tight. I have nothing to do today anyway. And I have my lap top. Ha.

**sigh**

This is so neptune lol

Im waiting for the unicorns n stuff to show up

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Typical fish. Ive dated 3 of them and same opening note. Its going good.

If u want to get swept away go for it, why not.

Posted by DMV
If u want to get swept away go for it, why not.

awww thanks! 🙂

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Basically you'll know you are really really in with this guy when out of nowhere he shows you his absolutely worst side possible. I mean he's going to come at you with the worst possible scenario. Be prepared. He's testing your fortitude. This is where 99.9% of his relationship go bad and he knows it.

Little word of advice. 🙂

And when this happens, I should.....? Lol.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
To elaborate--and please don't think I', raining on your parade. I love the Scorp/Pisces vibe.🙂

My girlfriend met a Fish 5 weeks ago. In the first week he changed his status to in a relationship. Week two, he told her they were soul mates. Week three he was daydreaming about living together. Week four, he was the biggest ass ever and said some mean things to her. She dumped him.

He said he thought she was talking to another guy--where he got that no one knows. lol

In four weeks they went from soulmates to dump. Poor guys.

funny, i have the same experience with fish guys.

hahahah thats why the experience is the same. NEVER WORKS.

always, always, always starts out great and then plummets off a cliff. the square is too much.

yeah, they always break my heart in the end. it starts out so dreamy and everything i hoped a guy would be and then BAM for some unknown reason the fish gets slippery and starts to act on what they perceived to be going on.

this happens with every Neptunian guy i meet. more recently a sun conjunct neptune exact. broke my heart in a million pieces several times. i kept going back hoping for something in him to realize that i wasnt doing what he thought i was doing.

Well damn. Lol.

I wonder if pacing works. For example, the woman not allowing herself to be so available so quickly for all the soul mate talk. To slow him down a bit......

I was with a Pisces for six years. He was my first bf. I'm not sure if I should use him as an accurate point is reference bc we were so young when we dated, 16-23.

He was moody but never broke up with me out right. We broke up once while we were together. Then got back together for a few yrs then broke up for good.

none of the pisces ever broke up with me, i had to put myself out of my own misery.

its hard not to get swept up. your fish boy has some squares in his own chart so maybe he will do better with them in synastry.

What do squares mean?

Posted by natural25
What do squares mean?

tension and conflict

have u done a synastry chart Nat25?

Pineapples- thank you!! I know you all want the best for me, and I appreciate all your insight. I will make sure to hold him accountable to being good to me. 🙂

DMV - I have not done a synastry chart bc I don't know what time he was born.

just set it too noon and give a grain of salt to Moon, Asc apsects

Ok will do!

are these sites crazy charging people for synastry charts?

this doesnt look good....

VENUS SQUARE VENUS
You live emotions in different ways; what fascinates one person does not fascinate the other, and vice versa. This divergence does not make you feel in tune and helps to create a little bit of tension.

JUPITER SQUARE URANUS
It is a very difficult relationship; too much self-powered energy, and this could make everything explode: love and work. Couples face many unforeseen events.

yikes....

Posted by natural25
this doesnt look good....

VENUS SQUARE VENUS
You live emotions in different ways; what fascinates one person does not fascinate the other, and vice versa. This divergence does not make you feel in tune and helps to create a little bit of tension.

JUPITER SQUARE URANUS
It is a very difficult relationship; too much self-powered energy, and this could make everything explode: love and work. Couples face many unforeseen events.

yikes....

post the whole thing

SUN TRINE SUN
Between you there will not necessarily be problems, everything goes smoothly, quietly. The relationship is positive for both and is rather easy.
SUN OPPOSITION MARS
Perhaps talking with your partner you would manage to explain yourselves. You live in total incomprehension regarding the activities that you perform in common, sometimes because of a certain total incommunicability that exists between you.
MOON CONJUNCT MARS
You feel a strong reciprocal attraction, one inspires the other one with strong feelings. In the case of business associates, your common activities will be influenced in a beneficial way.
MERCURY SQUARE VENUS
It is a tense relationship, with continuous manifestations of irritation and of dissatisfactions that might lead you to breaking up.
MERCURY TRINE URANUS
You feel stimulated towards interests and new ideas. If yours is a sentimental relationship, the exchange of interests between you is very vivacious and stimulating. If, instead, it concerns business relationship, your union gives rise to new ideas for your company, giving a continuous new impulse.
MERCURY SQUARE NEPTUNE
You may feel confused and bewildered. This mental confusion makes you feel a bit uneasy because you do not manage to understand the intentions of the partner; the result might be complete incomprehension.
VENUS SQUARE VENUS
You live emotions in different ways; what fascinates one person does not fascinate the other, and vice versa. This divergence does not make you feel in tune and helps to create a little bit of tension.
MARS SEXTILE SATURN
You are able to form a stable and lasting association in your work relations. Your business activity is carried out in a stable and profitable way.
MARS CONJUNCT NEPTUNE
An aspect between planets that are difficult to amalgamate. It can also hide big things, for good or for evil, but it is necessary to observe well in which houses it falls for both subjects.
JUPITER TRINE JUPITER
In your relationship, whether of work or affections, you will receive generally beneficial influences. And this will help you to exceed difficult personal moments, smoothing the corners of questions.
JUPITER SQUARE URANUS
It is a very difficult relationship; too much self-powered energy, and this could make everything explode: love and work. Couples face many unforeseen events.
JUPITER TRINE PLUTO
Love and work are stimulated in a productive way; you are very active both with your partner and your business associate.

Pisces is really trying to suck me in I think. Lol.

I moved yesterday and the Pisces asked his friends/fraternity brothers to help. To make a long story short, two showed up and only one stayed the entire time. The other left after about 30 minutes and barely helped with anything. Luckily his friend who stayed was able to ask his co-worker to come to help.

I spoke with the Pisces last night and he asked why we were taking so long to move. I told him that it was just me and one of his friends for about two hours because the other guy left early. He asked to speak with his friend who was still there. When they got off the phone his friend said, "wow he's really pissed that the other guy did not stay."

Pisces ended up confronting the other guy about this. We talked last night and he was still mad. He said that his frat embarrassed him and he knew I needed the help. He was going on and on about how selfish the kid is, etc.

I was shocked, because I did not know that Pisces were confrontational, and it seemed almost like he was trying to protect me.

I wonder if this him trying to lay it on thick or a result of some of his other placements. Lol.

mars in sag in action 🙂

fire mars acts first, thinks later

Well, he's thought about it as of this morning when we talked, and he is still firing. Lol.