LOL... hahaha ashley - don't worry, you'll get the experience --- don't think anyone's boring realy, just to find someone that care about what they're talking abut...it's just they take note of the things you don't take note of --- not the problem is, when people talk, they don't think, "oh wait, is this person interested in my crappy observation, opionion or advice" --- just like I'm crapping now 😛
Just reminded me of a friend - I have like one close Cancer female, she's like 20yrs older, right...but she insists of advicing the life out of me! and talking about stuff --- like she can talk about her pets for hours and I sit there with this amazed look on my face, and she keeps talking and talking about every little thing the pet does or that passes by...because I glue this amazed look on my face so she keeps talking --- the amazed look is me wondering "how does she not know I don't care to hear this crap and she calls us friends?"
How do you tell someone you're not compatible enough to spend more than a few mins or hrs together?! What's the rule? I swear I can sense when I have to adjust my character and feel uncomfortable...why don't they feel my discomfort? oh bleh...
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