Odd Sag Male

I say odd, but to be fair to him, I have never actually really dealt with a Sagittarius man romantically or even as a close friend. I'm merely judging and taking my information from other people and their experiences online.

He's throwing me curve balls and I'm not sure what it means. From what I understand of the "typical" sag, he's the polar opposite when it comes to relationships.

Background. We met technically online, but we have a mutual close friend. Which is why we actually started talking. We met for a casual drink - he asked me out again I dinner that night.
Dinner came and went. Then we went and saw a band ... On date three he's introducing me to his friends and inviting me on camping trips away together.
Date four comes and goes, dinner. More talks of going away together.

Date five.... We go to a local pub to meet another one of his friends then stay in for the rest of the night. We drink too much wine of course but sit up talking til four am. Were physically comfortable with each other, touching, laying on each other on the couch, kissing... But nothing sexual (aren't they meant to be very into sex?!)
Then he brings up how cute our children would be, how many he wants, what he will name them, what kind of dog he wants ...


I thought sagittarious men were non committal. Or do they love talking about it but then don't follow thru

I'm confused because also while we were talking he says "so what's this?! (Referring to us) and I said "you tell me" and he says "were just hanging out"


Hanging out while you name our theoretical children?!

hmm it could mean a few things.

1.) If he leads with sex, he probably wont get any. So he will talk about all that lovey dovey shit to get in your pants.

OR

2.) he likes you and doesnt want to talk about sex because you will go running.

Trust me he likes you, and may even see a future with you..I dated a Sag male before, and he asked me how do I feel about getting married? Me thinking that he was joking, because just like you, I thought that Sag men were afraid of committment,and would scare him away, if I told him the truth, which was, I would have married him...But instead, I told him that I love my freedom too much, and he never mentioned it again, until after we stopped dating, and was seeing someone else, when he said that he had always saw himself marrying me...So he was serious when he first mentioned it to me, but he wanted to see my reaction first...That Sag likes you, I can tell, but are you sure that he is what you want? Cause Geminis get tired of Saggis fast....

It's so new I haven't even had time to process if it's someone I can see myself in a relationship with. We haven't even had sex yet! He ticks all the boxes and is very easy to spend time with... I just have to see if the sexual spark is there.

Why is that most gemini grow tired of them?

You guys get bored rather quickly with one partner....