Older Scorpio woman, younger Sagittarius man

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Posted by MaggieJean
Hi everyone, this is my first post. Please be gentle! 😉
I'm an older Scorpio woman who participates in the same sport as a younger Sagittarius man. He is really good and often teaches our classes. I've known him for about a year. He's very shy and doesn't say much to anyone. On one occasion he flashed me a look and I thought, "Hmmm, there was something in that look - what's he trying to communicate?" After one particular sports event, we all had our arms linked and I felt, again, that there was something meaningful in the way he was holding my arm - you know how you can feel someone's intent? Then he was away for a couple of months as he had to have a bone op.
When he came back, something had shifted between us - we would have little exchanges and he was happy to see me. He started to laugh a lot more and open up and even show off a little on the sports field, which he never did previously. 🙂
A couple of weeks ago, we started to stare at one another. I kept catching him staring at my face and mostly quite deeply into my eyes. We kinda couldn't look away. We have group socials and he comes to those really well groomed (previously he just wore jeans and kinda didn't seem to care) and sits near me and just LISTENS to everything I say to people. As I mentioned, he's not big on talking, though I know he has a good sense of humour because he laughs at jokes, etc. (especially mine).
The thing is, guys...I'm older plus I'm married...

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Posted by MaggieJean
And WHY would a young Sagittarius guy be interested in an older married woman, anyway?? He seems like a pretty old soul, very patient with all the team members who are struggling, especially the beginners...loves to help everyone...very kind. Yet almost never says a word to anyone, quite literally. So shy.



How do you know that he's interested in you? Did he tell you that? Did he make a move on you? Did you have a conversation with him?
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Posted by MaggieJean
I guess I'm just trying to figure out what to do. Should I talk to him about this? Ignore it? Should I bring my husband along to practice?! I don't want to hurt this guy. I'm feeling very miserable because I like him a lot. I don't want to do anything wrong. 😢

There may be a Neptune aspect between you two.

Either you misunderstand his motivation. Or he does it towards you.

I know that it happened to me at early degrees of Neptune in Pisces (2010-2011). Between me and a Pisces guy. Neptune is in Pisces 7??. Check it with your own natal Chart. Or if he is born in early days of Sag. Ok, Mercury is also a factor. Not only Sun.

It is not a shame to be tricked by nature. All other things happen in the same manner.

One classic way is that you both talk about it. Things happen. And the end comes.
The other way is to assume it is now five years past. Everything has happened. And the end came.
Your choice.
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it's called temptation stay away from him before you lose your marriage for temporary "excitement". You already know that you have no future with this sag guy so don't take your relationship for granted.

but you don't need a bunch of strangers to talk you out of infidelity right? I would hop you have self control.......

everytime you think of having an affair think about some hot young girl after your husband. 😉