I think you mean, how do you get your Gemini boyfriend to respect you and your relationship?
Sag Cap cheating girl
Posted by DMV+1 he is going to have to deal
I think you mean, how do you get your Gemini boyfriend to respect you and your relationship?
@OP, this situation is a critical point in your life.
my ex was very, my way or the highway and I wanted to be the supportive girlfriend. He would do whatever he wanted and I went along with it. At 21, 22 I didnt know better. I had to learn in th field. Looking back, the first sign of disrespect, I should have left. Instead I stayed and learned the hard way.
What do you know, he wasnt at all worth it in the end.
my ex was very, my way or the highway and I wanted to be the supportive girlfriend. He would do whatever he wanted and I went along with it. At 21, 22 I didnt know better. I had to learn in th field. Looking back, the first sign of disrespect, I should have left. Instead I stayed and learned the hard way.
What do you know, he wasnt at all worth it in the end.
I saw your other post on the gem board, but you asked for gem only replies there, sooo...
He made a mistake letting this girl into his life. Especially if she's not emotionally stable. Those sorts of people will cause lots of issues and won't let up. If your guy wants to help her, tell him to suggest seeing a professional. It's not his duty to help her or make sure she's not going to harm herself. It's hurting your relationship. However, he's told you he will handle it. So, for now, wait for him to act. If you do act in this situation, he may not be open with you about his interactions with her anymore. Won't show you any more texts from her or talk about any convos they've had. If it comes to the point where you need to step in and take action - that's when you should question if this is the sort of relationship you should be in. If what you have is important to him, he will deal with it quickly. Although, he hasn't dealt with it, yet...
He made a mistake letting this girl into his life. Especially if she's not emotionally stable. Those sorts of people will cause lots of issues and won't let up. If your guy wants to help her, tell him to suggest seeing a professional. It's not his duty to help her or make sure she's not going to harm herself. It's hurting your relationship. However, he's told you he will handle it. So, for now, wait for him to act. If you do act in this situation, he may not be open with you about his interactions with her anymore. Won't show you any more texts from her or talk about any convos they've had. If it comes to the point where you need to step in and take action - that's when you should question if this is the sort of relationship you should be in. If what you have is important to him, he will deal with it quickly. Although, he hasn't dealt with it, yet...
Posted by dontgetmewrongYes, and really the only reason imo that he hasn't cut this girl out yet is that he cares about her to some degree or likes something about what they have - whether that be the lingerie pics he's receiving, flirting, or whatever else. I don't see a gem being the type that feels obligated to fix people like pisces stereotypes. It's so easy to cut people out of your life if you actually want to.
^^^ that last part is whats concerning...
Here's what I want to do, and as Sags, let me know what you think.
I want to message this girl and say something like "Hi, this is NAME's fiance. He tells me everything, and I'm sorry you're going through a hard time. I really am. But you need to respect our boundaries. We love each other and you're crossing a line here."
or
"Hi, this is NAME's fiance. Respect our relationship or I'm telling your boyfriend you cheated on him. Twice"
Which one will have the most impact?
I want to message this girl and say something like "Hi, this is NAME's fiance. He tells me everything, and I'm sorry you're going through a hard time. I really am. But you need to respect our boundaries. We love each other and you're crossing a line here."
or
"Hi, this is NAME's fiance. Respect our relationship or I'm telling your boyfriend you cheated on him. Twice"
Which one will have the most impact?
Your words wont mean jack shit if your gemini doesnt back it up. You just come off insecure and crazy.
however, do what u you want. This is like your 3rd posts about him hanging out with another girl.
Go ahead and send. Capitalize FINACE while youre at it. Lower case makes u you seem more weaker than you already are.
however, do what u you want. This is like your 3rd posts about him hanging out with another girl.
Go ahead and send. Capitalize FINACE while youre at it. Lower case makes u you seem more weaker than you already are.
NO NEITHER for the love of god no
She will not respect anything you say. If you want to start more drama with her then sure, send a message. It will only fuel your anger and her desire to interfere more. Not only that but your fiance will be up in arms about you acting against his wishes.
I know I said that eventually you should take action, but unless the message to gtfo comes from your fiance, then it won't do anything but cause more issues.
She will not respect anything you say. If you want to start more drama with her then sure, send a message. It will only fuel your anger and her desire to interfere more. Not only that but your fiance will be up in arms about you acting against his wishes.
I know I said that eventually you should take action, but unless the message to gtfo comes from your fiance, then it won't do anything but cause more issues.
Lingerie pics? Gurl bye.
And hes not even your finace. This is all too much
You need to actually tell her bf with no warning imo
Posted by dontgetmewrongPretty much
Tell him he better do something and quick, bc you're running out of patience. I seriously would not stand for this at all if I were you. I wouldn't let him and her have that much control. If he or she thinks that I will sit idly by, they're both strongly mistaken. It's your life, and only you can control how you let others treat you.
Posted by AfternoonDelights22Imo, if you're going to do anything, this would probably be the best option. Less game playing/drama and more getting to the point (or, closer than trying to deal with her personally, anyway).
You need to actually tell her bf with no warning imo
But you're probably just a troll anyway so this advice is useless. I think I need a lesson in how to spot trolls bc I'm honestly terrible at it.
Posted by dontgetmewrongImagine if the cheating sag is the same way, though. Imo, it sounds too ugly of a fight to deal with even if she does deserve to be put in her place. I'd love to spectate this argument as an observer, though. Sounds like it would be very interesting. Haha.
my firey ass would set everything a blaze.
I have zero sag placements, though, so what am I even doing here
Nah, no scorp or cap cusp placements. I truly don't belong here. Haha.
There's only a few replies on the gem board thread, but it's interesting seeing the little differences in responses. Anyway, I'm interested to see what OP does. If she confronts the sag, I'd sure like to see that conversation.
There's only a few replies on the gem board thread, but it's interesting seeing the little differences in responses. Anyway, I'm interested to see what OP does. If she confronts the sag, I'd sure like to see that conversation.
Posted by dontgetmewrongYeah, well I mean I doubt she started out sending pics. I imagine she probably started with flirting and when the gem didn't turn her away, that would have been a cue to continue or take things further. I'm curious to see exactly what he's said to her, though. I wouldn't be surprised if he was having fun flirting back with her.Posted by Scenic
Nah, no scorp or cap cusp placements. I truly don't belong here. Haha.
There's only a few replies on the gem board thread, but it's interesting seeing the little differences in responses. Anyway, I'm interested to see what OP does. If she confronts the sag, I'd sure like to see that conversation.
I'm sure the Sag would bring a lot of things to light about the Gem. I don't see a Sag doing those things like sending lingerie pics if she didn't think there was some interest coming from the guy. Still...she should know better.click to expand
Not sure if I said it, but that girl is thinking of cheating again and she really don't want to tell her boyfriend what she's done.
I know that because my fiance let me look through his phone no problems. He also sent me a copy of the phone when I asked.
Third option: message that girl and say..
Hey, if you tell my fiance I talked to you, I will tell your boyfriend you cheated on him. I have proofs. Now, unfriend him, and if he ask about it. Just tell him you want to be left alone. Block him if needed.
I also have a copy of that pic you sent. I'm sure you boyfriend wouldn't be pleased to know you send it to other guys.
1- She'll listen.
2- She's gonna tell my fiance and then I'll be in trouble.
I know that because my fiance let me look through his phone no problems. He also sent me a copy of the phone when I asked.
Third option: message that girl and say..
Hey, if you tell my fiance I talked to you, I will tell your boyfriend you cheated on him. I have proofs. Now, unfriend him, and if he ask about it. Just tell him you want to be left alone. Block him if needed.
I also have a copy of that pic you sent. I'm sure you boyfriend wouldn't be pleased to know you send it to other guys.
1- She'll listen.
2- She's gonna tell my fiance and then I'll be in trouble.
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