Will my sagittarius friend come back?

I am a scorpio, Indian and Hindu male. The girl I like is a Sagittarius, German and Christian. Even though I like (love) her, she likes me as a good friend. When I told her that I like her, she told me that if I were a christian, she would have liked me too. We were pretty close (on an emotional level not a physical level). We used to meet upto 3 times a week. Around 40 days back, she went on a tour for a month, and before going she wrote me a letter saying that we are getting too close and she doesn't want to get that close to anyone except her boy friend, and since she can't consider me as her boy friend, the only choice is to stop seeing each other. I was already sad that she was going away for a month, and when she told me that she can't see me or maintain any sort of communication with me, it completely broke me. The last 40 days was the worst part of my life. She came back 10 days back. She messaged me yesterday for not treating me properly even though it was the right thing to do. But she knows that I got over it. I replied her telling that I haven't gotten over it yet and if we can meet once (even if it is the last time). She told that it is not a good idea to meet again now.

I ask to all Sagittarius women, Will she ever come back. Will she ever love me, or atleast be my friend as we used to be before? What should I do?

I appreciate any help. thanks

"I ask to all Sagittarius women, Will she ever come back. Will she ever love me, or atleast be my friend as we used to be before? What should I do?"

I don't know. I change my mind when time passes and I get new information. (I'm a Sag woman)

But look, she told you already about religion issue. We Sags like all different people but that's all. Like is one thing. To share your life is something else.

You need somebody who wants to take part in all of your life. To meet your family. Embarace your background culture. Eventually convert to your religion. Unfortunately (for you) she does not see it possible to embarace your background culture.

If I had to choose, I'd say forget her.

Thankyou so much. To know it from a Sagittarius really helps. I guess I have no choice other than to forget her then.

Oh. Thanks a lot dontgetmewrong.

I'm a Sagittarius male, but does she have a boyfriend, or does she want to avoid you because you might become her boyfriend? It sounds like she's uncomfortable about commitment; her tour and your religious differences are reasons for her to be uncomfortable, but she is considering things.

Unfortunately I can't see what's bugging her. Maybe she is always scared of commitment, and she needs comfort and reassurance. Maybe she can't get over your religion, especially if you are both orthodox. If you can identify her dilemmas, try appealing to her rationality. Sags are susceptible to emotion, but if there's no cerebral connection then she could get fed up with you.

Nope. I have no problem with religion at all. I don't care if she is a Christian, Muslim, Jain or whatever. I like her, because I have never felt that way before with any of my previous crushes. I, being a Scorpio, can't talk more than 2 minutes with a stranger without getting bored and tired. But, the first time I met her, I ended up talking with her for around 40 minutes, and it was interesting too. That's why I don't wanna give up. I don't want her to change anything. She is perfect the way she is now. But, she believes she can share her religious views only with a Christian boy friend. Since I like her the way she is, I respect her decision.

But, I think letting her go is the right thing to do now. After researching so much about Sagittarius, I feel that she would have moved on already, as it is an inborn quality of sagittarius. 😢

Posted by TheShire
I'm a Sagittarius male, but does she have a boyfriend, or does she want to avoid you because you might become her boyfriend? It sounds like she's uncomfortable about commitment; her tour and your religious differences are reasons for her to be uncomfortable, but she is considering things.

Unfortunately I can't see what's bugging her. Maybe she is always scared of commitment, and she needs comfort and reassurance. Maybe she can't get over your religion, especially if you are both orthodox. If you can identify her dilemmas, try appealing to her rationality. Sags are susceptible to emotion, but if there's no cerebral connection then she could get fed up with you.

She doesn't have a boyfriend. Yep. She avoids me because if she stays with me, I might get closer to her and become her boyfriend. One of my friends talked with her, and she asked her if she likes me and she told that she likes me a lot, but she is confused because of religion. Religion is the most important thing for her. And she doesn't want to sacrifice that.

She is also slightly scared of commitment because if either of us goes away to a different city, she doesn't want to miss me. That can be taken care of, but religion is the biggest problem.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
Religion can have a strong hold over many relationships, many Christians build their relationships off of their faith as the foundation so that is where she is coming from .

With these two religions, how opposing are they?

Have you ever tried to have deep convos about the differences in each of your religions?

As a saggy gal, I was raised southern Baptist (like whoa) and I dated a greek orthodox catholic for 7 years, I almost converted but to be honest, it would have been much easier if I could appreciate sharing my kind of worship with him.. But we talked and we both went to each others churches and it worked out very well.

Well. both the religions are completely different. Christianity believes in one God, but Hindus believe in several Gods (to be true, we believe that God is one but he has different name and forms). I once tried talking about Hinduism and found out that she wasn't comfortable talking about it. So, after that I never spoke about my religion, but I used to ask her about Christianity.

Have you talked about religious traditions, like ceremonies, holidays, etc.? If you can make the physical part of religion work, she might be o.k. with spiritual differences.

Clearly a deal breaker. Rightly so.. different beliefs lead to conflict lead to resentment. Even worse when children enter that type of relationship.
my father was an atheist and my mom was Christian... take a wild guess how well that worked out.

"my father was an atheist and my mom was Christian... take a wild guess how well that worked out."

we had a similar problem at home. the only thing what helped was that my mother had Taurus placements.

"I am a scorpio, Indian and Hindu male. "

I'm so sorry that I overlook the part of the religion. I've never heard that the Hindus try to convert their partners to their religion. Sorry. I was superficial when reading.