Sag Ex I love you I hate you forever and always

That about says it all. I truly believe my ex Sag is my soul mate. Every day without him hurts and now that it is the holiday season and his birthday Nov 26, it is killing me more. We ended Dec 10 and I moved away in Feb. I KNOW he hasnt changed and he still wants the party carefree Sag life. I know he still has anger and control issues. But it feels like I hurt just as much without him as I did when I was with him.

Right now I am with a Scorp and he treats me exactly like I wish my ex Sag would. Scorp wants me around, hes devoted, he listens, he is affectionate, he includes me, he is intimate and nonjudgmental. He makes for a secure, safe relationship. I am so lucky to have him- really, I appreciate how he is everything that my Sag wasnt. But there is just a HUGE HOLE or something that even in my best moments of pure happiness with Scorp...I wish he was my Sag.

Ahhh just venting. I wish my Sag and Scorp could squish to one person. I have spent the last 2 weeks just crying. And Sag has a conflicted opinion on "working things out". He is seeing someone now but sends me messages about missing me. I know his stupid games. Once this girl is gone, he will try to get me back and if he wins it'll be a month or two of good times before he's out on the town with me at home alone with the kids.

Any hope on a Sag growing up? long sighhhhhhhh :/

Posted by Ariess


Ahhh just venting. I wish my Sag and Scorp could squish to one person. I have spent the last 2 weeks just crying. And Sag has a conflicted opinion on "working things out". He is seeing someone now but sends me messages about missing me. I know his stupid games. Once this girl is gone, he will try to get me back and if he wins it'll be a month or two of good times before he's out on the town with me at home alone with the kids.

Any hope on a Sag growing up? long sighhhhhhhh :/

girl, i wish i could melt a sag into a scorp. ive pictured the human centipede in my mind. seriously, it would make the perfect man.

sag men growing up? hmm ive never met one who didnt have this eternal youth thingy still into their golden years. they quite hard to lasso.

another word about saggis growing up, think about the function of a sagittarius. what we were put on the world to do? to make people smile, laugh, joke, lighten up, teach, learn, etc. "growing up" to a sadge is really us expanding our explorations.

i will leave the growing up to our neighbors of the zodiac.

NoooOOooOOo not the Human Centipede! 😢

I kinda feel sorry for the Scorp, just sayin

I agree with DMV on the golden Age years and Saggie never growing up LOL

I seriously wouldn't want Saggies to grow up. Although I once told Mr. Sag within 5 years I somewhat know him, that I don't have time for immature behaviour, when he kept adding and deleting me on Facebook. I rolled my eyes and thought 'Come on!!! Enough of this...'.

The BEST is just truly leaving him free. Accept his disappearing... be open to some girl and kinky thoughts stories. Although it's just his thoughts that you need to leave free. Deep down I don't believe a SAG man is a cheater. I think it is his mental need to feel he can FLY whenever he feels like. He also is a 'hard' worker. In other words, he has these constant desire to climb some kind of hill... be it jobwise or travelling or whatever. He is in a constant rally.

I hope you don't give up on your Scorp. You just need some kind of closure with your Sag man. Usually when there is no closure -- like when things are in the air and he keeps bouncing back -- we tend to believe that the person was THE ONE, when in fact ... he never wanted to be the one. Otherwise he wouldn't have left.

Sag DID cheat on me. He left me at home with our newborn son and partied and Cheated. We could be the best of friends, read each others minds but even in our closest moments he was never the intimate Type. Not like my Scorp. Sag is a hard worker makes great money and always onto another project. Though he was completely helpless in terms of cooking/housework/basic maintence he would always hit it outta the park At work and planning adventures.

My Scorp is golden. He has the biggest kindest heart but I think my issue is it's very much the "game " for me. I always had to Go hunt the Sag down, prove I was good enough,beg him to stay home etc. His drama -the roller coaster. I'm not used to the safety and security my Scorp gives me.

I was with Sag for over 6 years and I pretty much said be faithful, give me security and marry me or I'm done. Annnnnnd I'm sure by now you know how that went LOL

Oh and my Sag always had his freedom. As an Aries, I LOVE my space! I never ever have him slack for going out until it was EVERY. SINGLE. NIGHT
He would go to work, come home around 5-7pm and straight to napping until 10pm, get up, change and go out til 2-5 am. Again, every. Single. Night.

I am not controlling but he took advantage of my patience. I knew how much his friends meant and free time to play with the boys. When he wanted to love me, need me "be a family" he would swoop right in and play that role but 89% he was just a bachelor.

I guess there never was closure. I like to win and I wanted him to WANT me and his family. It's hard to let my vision of my future with him, our house, our family....go. Le sigh.