Sag man Taurus woman (Page 2)

Posted by DMV
its not healthy to ostracize your sister because she operates in a non earthly way.

drawing lines in the sand is no way to live

Bingo!!!

...side note...anything I can do to help 🙂

Posted by DMV
Phoenix go read the "i made a guy cheat on his girlfriend thread"

at first i thought it was you. and was like "ooooo gurl"

What board?

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by DMV
Phoenix go read the "i made a guy cheat on his girlfriend thread"

at first i thought it was you. and was like "ooooo gurl"

What board?

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Astrology I think...it's a train wreck lol

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by DMV
Phoenix go read the "i made a guy cheat on his girlfriend thread"

at first i thought it was you. and was like "ooooo gurl"

What board?

Astrology I think...it's a train wreck lol

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Correction...it's on the Taurus board.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by DMV
Phoenix go read the "i made a guy cheat on his girlfriend thread"

at first i thought it was you. and was like "ooooo gurl"

What board?

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taurus board 300+ replies

i was like

@busy,

seriously. please dont hate your sag sister because of a few bad sag guys.

that like hurts me.

🙂

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm curious about something.

Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?

Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...

Posted by 101814love

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm curious about something.

Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?

Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...

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I see.

Posted by Arielle83
How are you supportive when you claim to be supportive, but then it seems you sweep his "distance" and other life stressors under the carpet and then need to vocalize how he makes you FEEL?!

If you're so supportive you would respect his need to get settled. Give him space and time to figure out his next move. He's clearly depressed, but how YOU FEEL seems to take priority over how he feels. You fell pregnant and he's not ready, but you were going along with it. Maybe breeding's your thing, but he needs to plan. He's already got one child, he wants to make the right decision.

I don't know many men who get excited about an unplanned baby when they themselves aren't fully standing on two feet and firmly planted.

You seem to make this all about you and how this man got close to you and your kids, but now he's horrible because he realises it isn't for him. He must of saw red flags. He can leave whenever he wants, he isn't tied to you. I

You might be right, I was just so caught up in my feelings, you definitely gave me something to think about

Happy New Year everyone! Update : A few days ago I texted him telling him he crossed my mind and I just wanted to apologize for coming off selfish during his dilemmas and to see if things are going better, he said he's doing alright and I replied that's good, stay positive and focus, and l left it at that, today he texted me Happy New Year beautiful and I replied thanks, you too handsome and to be safe, he texted back for me to be safe too... I feel like everybody was right, he's just stressed out, hopefully he'll come back around, for now I'm working on me, I started a support group for women who experienced miscarriages, it seems to be going OK..

Posted by DMV
Unfortunately unless theres a physical throw down, saggis dont do drama.

We fade to black. Disappear. Go to a more friendly stable.

We will avoid the dramatic barn at all costs.

Some may call it cowardly, when were just trying not to get stabbed.

I agree with you. The Sag man I was with was always happy amd positive unless someone wanted to start a physical fight with him or disrespected us...specifically me. He wouldn't walk away from a physical confrontation if it came to him, but he also didn't look for trouble. That man beat up two guys at the same time. I couldn't believe it, he was so happy go lucky and peaceful but he could THROW DOWN!!

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by DMV
Unfortunately unless theres a physical throw down, saggis dont do drama.

We fade to black. Disappear. Go to a more friendly stable.

We will avoid the dramatic barn at all costs.

Some may call it cowardly, when were just trying not to get stabbed.

This is a funny quote! Very sag!! Lol

I've been stabbing my sister all wkend with my horns but well deserved I might add. Sags are pure chaos!!! Sags are very selfish even though they may not realise it... But they are!!! I'm now at my virgo mothers house .. Where "earthly" peace is residing between virgo mother, cap sister and me taurus...!!!

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How does your sag sister get along with your mom and other sister?

Posted by 101814love

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm curious about something.

Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?

Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...

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There you go, there's your answer. He just wasn't ready to start a family with you, he wanted to get his parts of his life together first. Can't hate on that. Did he think you got pregnant on purpose?

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Posted by 101814love

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm curious about something.

Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?

Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...

There you go, there's your answer. He just wasn't ready to start a family with you, he wanted to get his parts of his life together first. Can't hate on that. Did he think you got pregnant on purpose?

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I hope not! He didn't mention it to me if he did, but I'm just like on cloud 9 that he even went out his way to text me to be honest, maybe he was tipsy, I don't care lol, I crossed his mind!

Posted by busyeyes88

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Posted by Greentea

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm curious about something.

Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?

Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...

There you go, there's your answer. He just wasn't ready to start a family with you, he wanted to get his parts of his life together first. Can't hate on that. Did he think you got pregnant on purpose?

I hope not! He didn't mention it to me if he did, but I'm just like on cloud 9 that he even went out his way to text me to be honest, maybe he was tipsy, I don't care lol, I crossed his mind!

Just concentrate on you and don't get your hopes up. Protect your heart. Don't hold out and wait for him. If he returns fair enough... It's all good. But just continue to enjoy your life without him and concentrate on yr kids. Taurus woman and sag man is extremely hard. They have very different views, and energies. Taurus male and sag female is a better match...

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That's what I have been doing, it just relaxes me to know we're at least on good terms, my main focus has been getting over my grief of the miscarriage, which is why I started a support group, my kids has always been top priority so nothings different there

Update: one day he texted me out the blue and ask how I was doing, I kept it casual for a couple days and eventually he told me I was still his, then I found out he went on a date pretty much the day we broke up, and I went crazy, that led to a looonng conversation about everything that happened between us and told him I didn't want to be with him, but I'm still his friend and I'll be there through his trials, now he texts and calls me everyday, I remind him we're not together but he keeps at it, he doesn't want me dating someone else, he makes it clear, I told him I'm in love with him but our relationship got too toxic and I'm happy we broke up, I got a chance to reevaluate myself and my mistakes...