
beautifulsoul74
@beautifulsoul74
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Posted by DMVWhat board?
Phoenix go read the "i made a guy cheat on his girlfriend thread"
at first i thought it was you. and was like "ooooo gurl"

Posted by PhoenixRisingAstrology I think...it's a train wreck lolPosted by DMVWhat board?
Phoenix go read the "i made a guy cheat on his girlfriend thread"
at first i thought it was you. and was like "ooooo gurl"click to expand

Posted by beautifulsoul74Correction...it's on the Taurus board.Posted by PhoenixRisingAstrology I think...it's a train wreck lolPosted by DMVWhat board?
Phoenix go read the "i made a guy cheat on his girlfriend thread"
at first i thought it was you. and was like "ooooo gurl"click to expand

Posted by PhoenixRisingtaurus board 300+ repliesPosted by DMVWhat board?
Phoenix go read the "i made a guy cheat on his girlfriend thread"
at first i thought it was you. and was like "ooooo gurl"click to expand




Posted by beautifulsoul74Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...
I'm curious about something.
Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?

Posted by 101814loveI see.Posted by beautifulsoul74Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...
I'm curious about something.
Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?click to expand
Posted by Arielle83You might be right, I was just so caught up in my feelings, you definitely gave me something to think about
How are you supportive when you claim to be supportive, but then it seems you sweep his "distance" and other life stressors under the carpet and then need to vocalize how he makes you FEEL?!
If you're so supportive you would respect his need to get settled. Give him space and time to figure out his next move. He's clearly depressed, but how YOU FEEL seems to take priority over how he feels. You fell pregnant and he's not ready, but you were going along with it. Maybe breeding's your thing, but he needs to plan. He's already got one child, he wants to make the right decision.
I don't know many men who get excited about an unplanned baby when they themselves aren't fully standing on two feet and firmly planted.
You seem to make this all about you and how this man got close to you and your kids, but now he's horrible because he realises it isn't for him. He must of saw red flags. He can leave whenever he wants, he isn't tied to you. I

Posted by DMVI agree with you. The Sag man I was with was always happy amd positive unless someone wanted to start a physical fight with him or disrespected us...specifically me. He wouldn't walk away from a physical confrontation if it came to him, but he also didn't look for trouble. That man beat up two guys at the same time. I couldn't believe it, he was so happy go lucky and peaceful but he could THROW DOWN!!
Unfortunately unless theres a physical throw down, saggis dont do drama.
We fade to black. Disappear. Go to a more friendly stable.
We will avoid the dramatic barn at all costs.
Some may call it cowardly, when were just trying not to get stabbed.

Posted by busyeyes88How does your sag sister get along with your mom and other sister?Posted by DMVThis is a funny quote! Very sag!! Lol
Unfortunately unless theres a physical throw down, saggis dont do drama.
We fade to black. Disappear. Go to a more friendly stable.
We will avoid the dramatic barn at all costs.
Some may call it cowardly, when were just trying not to get stabbed.
I've been stabbing my sister all wkend with my horns but well deserved I might add. Sags are pure chaos!!! Sags are very selfish even though they may not realise it... But they are!!! I'm now at my virgo mothers house .. Where "earthly" peace is residing between virgo mother, cap sister and me taurus...!!!click to expand

Posted by 101814loveThere you go, there's your answer. He just wasn't ready to start a family with you, he wanted to get his parts of his life together first. Can't hate on that. Did he think you got pregnant on purpose?Posted by beautifulsoul74Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...
I'm curious about something.
Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?click to expand
Posted by GreenteaPosted by 101814loveThere you go, there's your answer. He just wasn't ready to start a family with you, he wanted to get his parts of his life together first. Can't hate on that. Did he think you got pregnant on purpose?Posted by beautifulsoul74Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...
I'm curious about something.
Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88That's what I have been doing, it just relaxes me to know we're at least on good terms, my main focus has been getting over my grief of the miscarriage, which is why I started a support group, my kids has always been top priority so nothings different therePosted by 101814loveJust concentrate on you and don't get your hopes up. Protect your heart. Don't hold out and wait for him. If he returns fair enough... It's all good. But just continue to enjoy your life without him and concentrate on yr kids. Taurus woman and sag man is extremely hard. They have very different views, and energies. Taurus male and sag female is a better match...Posted by GreenteaPosted by 101814loveThere you go, there's your answer. He just wasn't ready to start a family with you, he wanted to get his parts of his life together first. Can't hate on that. Did he think you got pregnant on purpose?Posted by beautifulsoul74Yes, he actually stopped me from getting my tubes tied because he wanted me to have his child, we picked out engagement rings also... Hes going through so life situations and he said he didn't want to add to it, if he was in a better place in life it wouldn't bother him, he wanted us to get settled first...
I'm curious about something.
Op, did you two ever have any discussions about having more kids? Specifically, did he every express how he felt about having more children before you found out you were pregnant?
I hope not! He didn't mention it to me if he did, but I'm just like on cloud 9 that he even went out his way to text me to be honest, maybe he was tipsy, I don't care lol, I crossed his mind!click to expand
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