Sag Man very jealous and possessive?

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So I just started dating this sag guy. We're not official at all, and I've only been seeing him for about a week but he's already showing signs of being very possessive. Like the way he'll ask a bunch of questions to try to figure out if I'm seeing anyone else. At one point he even asked if I kept any mementos from exes. When I said I did he then said "Why? You can't let him go?". It caught me off guard because the way he phrased that sounded very jealous. He seems way too intense and that is saying ALOT coming from a Scorpio. Is this typical of Saggitarius?
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Posted by ladolcevita
So I just started dating this sag guy. We're not official at all, and I've only been seeing him for about a week but he's already showing signs of being very possessive. Like the way he'll ask a bunch of questions to try to figure out if I'm seeing anyone else. At one point he even asked if I kept any mementos from exes. When I said I did he then said "Why? You can't let him go?". It caught me off guard because the way he phrased that sounded very jealous. He seems way too intense and that is saying ALOT coming from a Scorpio. Is this typical of Saggitarius?



hes picking up on something about you.....
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Posted by ladolcevita
So I just started dating this sag guy. We're not official at all, and I've only been seeing him for about a week but he's already showing signs of being very possessive. Like the way he'll ask a bunch of questions to try to figure out if I'm seeing anyone else. At one point he even asked if I kept any mementos from exes. When I said I did he then said "Why? You can't let him go?". It caught me off guard because the way he phrased that sounded very jealous. He seems way too intense and that is saying ALOT coming from a Scorpio. Is this typical of Saggitarius?



hes picking up on something about you.....
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What do you mean?
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Actually, I dont think hes being jealous or possessive. Hes trying to see where ur head is at. Maybe u come across vagueto him and he cant tell by your actions if your really single or not.

these are questions all of us should ask. Hes trying to avoid a bad situation.



Honestly it's not like I haven't been in his position before where you really like someone and you're trying to see where this is going, however I think it's a bit much to bring this up so early. When you're casually dating, there's always the possibility that the person is also dating other people but seeing as I haven't known him for that long and haven't committed to him in any way, I don't see how that's a problem.
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Posted by DMV
Actually, I dont think hes being jealous or possessive. Hes trying to see where ur head is at. Maybe u come across vagueto him and he cant tell by your actions if your really single or not.

these are questions all of us should ask. Hes trying to avoid a bad situation.



Honestly it's not like I haven't been in his position before where you really like someone and you're trying to see where this is going, however I think it's a bit much to bring this up so early. When you're casually dating, there's always the possibility that the person is also dating other people but seeing as I haven't known him for that long and haven't committed to him in any way, I don't see how that's a problem.
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I agree. Nothing wrong in dating multiple people. Id just tell him that so he doesng get the wrong idea. He may feel like your leading him on.
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The guy I'm dating (while he is a scorpio) is on the very cusp of sag (missed it by a hair). As soon as things got serious he asked me a similar question about my exes and mementos. He was not happy when I said I had an item from my last relationship (even tho I was in the process of giving it away lol).

I can only imagine what your sag guy will be like when you guys do date, if you decide to. But if my boyfriends response is any indicator I hope you are ready for far more possessiveness. Absolutely no talking about exes or most other guys for me. And no hanging out with the opposite sex alone either. 😛