SAG PLAYS SICK JOKE ON ME!

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KAY
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Okay so 2 weeks ago Sag boyfriend randomly messages me and he like I just wanted to say you have HIV now ! And of course I start freaking and & going crazy then he goes I'm just playing and he starts laughing & I'm like WTF not fucking COOL!!!! So I end up getting checked anyways of course because it scared the shit out of me and I'm clean . And he tells me why did you really go get check it was a joke to see how you would react . And I cursed him out so bad ! Like who birthed you man Satan ?!!! Like WTF!!! & goes on saying of course I don't have HIV I'm in the army and all this blah blah crap !!! Is this what sag men do?i don't understand his intentions ! Nor do I understand why he wanted to see a reaction from me ! Sooo weird !!!!
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Posted by BeautyandTheBull
OMG yes I'm like so over it !!!!! He's 24 ! & if just so crazy that out of all reason he could give me to leave his ass he chooses this ! Some people may think imma being dramatic but I just been analyzing this over and over ..starting to think he did this so I wouldn't talk to him anymore ..
Obviously you have something a bit more deeper going on than some jokey joke.


Go head. Spill it
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KAY
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OMG yes I'm like so over it !!!!! He's 24 ! & if just so crazy that out of all reason he could give me to leave his ass he chooses this ! Some people may think imma being dramatic but I just been analyzing this over and over ..starting to think he did this so I wouldn't talk to him anymore ..
Obviously you have something a bit more deeper going on than some jokey joke.


Go head. Spill it
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I have no idea what you mean
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OMG yes I'm like so over it !!!!! He's 24 ! & if just so crazy that out of all reason he could give me to leave his ass he chooses this ! Some people may think imma being dramatic but I just been analyzing this over and over ..starting to think he did this so I wouldn't talk to him anymore ..
Obviously you have something a bit more deeper going on than some jokey joke.


Go head. Spill it
I have no idea what you mean
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Why do you think he did that so youd stop talking to him?
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KAY
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OMG yes I'm like so over it !!!!! He's 24 ! & if just so crazy that out of all reason he could give me to leave his ass he chooses this ! Some people may think imma being dramatic but I just been analyzing this over and over ..starting to think he did this so I wouldn't talk to him anymore ..
Obviously you have something a bit more deeper going on than some jokey joke.


Go head. Spill it
I have no idea what you mean
Why do you think he did that so youd stop talking to him?
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Well he went on vacation & & ran into an ex he was dating before he got into the military so who knows ! I just don't have proof & he's never given any signs that he's done anything until he played this sick joke .. He knows how I am about these kinda things and it was just wrong . I think he knew how to push my buttons and so he did and that's why I haven't spoken to him .. I've been ignoring him I need space
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Sags, Gems, Aquas, and Caps have virtually ZERO filter or cares about their offensive sense of humor. This seems pretty tame compared to some of the butter my sag besties' twisted little beautiful minds have come up with 😄


Trick him back!
Your sooo right I should def trick him back .. I have to find something good ...
Ooooh yea, make it even worse! Get a rise out of him 😈
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You're not going to tell him you're preggers, are you? 😆
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He's simply immature... ..doesn't matter what his sign is...he's a boy... ...I might question his sense of humor too ...talking about a life-changing sexually-transmitted disease within a relationship is akin to yelling bomb in an airplane... ...the individual might think it's funny but you're not really caring about the other person (or persons, in the case of the plane)

...I'm exaggerating here to highlight his stupidity and lack of empathy for you in this case
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This is not some practical joke here.. ...tricking him back seems like the immature thing to do in this case... ...I think he needs a mature lesson... ...and that means getting REAL with how his joke made you feel and made you question his competence as a partner and responsible human being...

...did this joke come out of nowhere from him?... ...seems like he's likely done stupid stuff before... ...if not, then perhaps a taste of his own medicine would be appropriate but, to me it sends the wrong message... ...he should be able to empathize with you without you making him feel like you felt... ...if he cannot empathize without a joke being played on him...then you might have a bigger problem there

Good luck
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KAY
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This is not some practical joke here.. ...tricking him back seems like the immature thing to do in this case... ...I think he needs a mature lesson... ...and that means getting REAL with how his joke made you feel and made you question his competence as a partner and responsible human being...

...did this joke come out of nowhere from him?... ...seems like he's likely done stupid stuff before... ...if not, then perhaps a taste of his own medicine would be appropriate but, to me it sends the wrong message... ...he should be able to empathize with you without you making him feel like you felt... ...if he cannot empathize without a joke being played on him...then you might have a bigger problem there

Good luck
No he's great this is the only stupid thing he has Ever done ! And it was enough for me to ignore him for a few days but it does scare me idk what else is to come ! Because he though the joke was so hilarious I honest thought he wasn't going to apologize . I pictured him saying you can't take a joke fuck off ! Haha but I agree with everything you said ..
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Posted by Piscis_Hominis
This is not some practical joke here.. ...tricking him back seems like the immature thing to do in this case... ...I think he needs a mature lesson... ...and that means getting REAL with how his joke made you feel and made you question his competence as a partner and responsible human being...

...did this joke come out of nowhere from him?... ...seems like he's likely done stupid stuff before... ...if not, then perhaps a taste of his own medicine would be appropriate but, to me it sends the wrong message... ...he should be able to empathize with you without you making him feel like you felt... ...if he cannot empathize without a joke being played on him...then you might have a bigger problem there

Good luck
This is why some water people can be sooo boring to air and fire signs. Like the constant need of having to tiptoe around their fragile feelings. So much effort! No guy wants to be with a woman who can't joke around. You can call joking back being immature all you want, but I can call your respond here b-o-r-i- n-g. ´´
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You can call my response boring...to imply that I'm boring is a bit of a judgement on your part...that is clearly your implication...

...her bf's joke was not funny... ...she was offended by it... ...that's actually more important that what my opinion of the joke is... ...if she thinks it's wasn't funny...trying to make a joke of it is sending the wrong message to him... ...this has nothing to do with humour or whether something or someone is boring or not... ...this has to do with mature communication between partners... ...I think replying with a joke when you want to be taken seriously "hey this bothered me" "hey you can't joke about something like that, it's not funny" ...goes against the message she wants to get across.. ...she has also stated she is worried about things to come... ...she needs to nip this in the bud with a mature conversation... ...there is always a time and place for joking... ...to each their own

...if you find my answer boring you don't have to read it. 😉
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Posted by littlegigabyte
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
Posted by littlegigabyte
Posted by Piscis_Hominis
This is not some practical joke here.. ...tricking him back seems like the immature thing to do in this case... ...I think he needs a mature lesson... ...and that means getting REAL with how his joke made you feel and made you question his competence as a partner and responsible human being...

...did this joke come out of nowhere from him?... ...seems like he's likely done stupid stuff before... ...if not, then perhaps a taste of his own medicine would be appropriate but, to me it sends the wrong message... ...he should be able to empathize with you without you making him feel like you felt... ...if he cannot empathize without a joke being played on him...then you might have a bigger problem there

Good luck
This is why some water people can be sooo boring to air and fire signs. Like the constant need of having to tiptoe around their fragile feelings. So much effort! No guy wants to be with a woman who can't joke around. You can call joking back being immature all you want, but I can call your respond here b-o-r-i- n-g. ´´
You can call my response boring...to imply that I'm boring is a bit of a judgement on your part...that is clearly your implication...

...her bf's joke was not funny... ...she was offended by it... ...that's actually more important that what my opinion of the joke is... ...if she thinks it's wasn't funny...trying to make a joke of it is sending the wrong message to him... ...this has nothing to do with humour or whether something or someone is boring or not... ...this has to do with mature communication between partners... ...I think replying with a joke when you want to be taken seriously "hey this bothered me" "hey you can't joke about something like that, it's not funny" ...goes against the message she wants to get across.. ...she has also stated she is worried about things to come... ...she needs to nip this in the bud with a mature conversation... ...there is always a time and place for joking... ...to each their own

...if you find my answer boring you don't have to read it. 😉
No I couldn't, because I had to read it in order to find out that it was boring 😢

And that sounds cool on paper and all bro, but I think you and I both know that you were likely immature at some point at the age of 24 😉
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Of course I was (immature)...in a lot of ways...she can do what she wants...you can't expect me to give her "immature" advice now can you? 😉
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Posted by FyzaGememiee
Lol! That's pretty decent to me. Why did you even go for a check up? IF he himself, is a HIV positive, do you think he will not be anxious or scared?

If I were to be you, I'll get a pregnancy test kit. I'll find a friend who's pregnant, do the test and then text him the image of the kit. I will then get him to bring me to the clinic, do all the pregnancy test and get him to pay.

When the result is out, just tell him, oh my, I thought I was really pregnant? It must be that kit! Dang!

#geminiswayofgettingback
#damniamevil

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I like the way you think!! Wanted to say the same 🙂))
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Posted by FyzaGememiee
Lol! That's pretty decent to me. Why did you even go for a check up? IF he himself, is a HIV positive, do you think he will not be anxious or scared?

If I were to be you, I'll get a pregnancy test kit. I'll find a friend who's pregnant, do the test and then text him the image of the kit. I will then get him to bring me to the clinic, do all the pregnancy test and get him to pay.

When the result is out, just tell him, oh my, I thought I was really pregnant? It must be that kit! Dang!

#geminiswayofgettingback
#damniamevil

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funny, creative, expensive idea.
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My best friend is a Leo and her Sag boyfriend always does dumbass shit like this to her.
Idk how she deals with it but she's almost at her wits end.
I'd want to punch him in his face for this. I hate being scared, especially on purpose.

For ppl saying he wanted to laugh, why do you have to raise someone's blood pressure in order to do so? Jokes like that aren't funny. If my boyfriend wanted to laugh at something like that, it better not have anything to do with me.
I wonder what his placements are...