thisLIBRAgirl
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sag w. venus in cap
oh btw.. for a week or so i felt like he was really cold, i told him that. he made a big deal out of convincing me that he wasnt cold... even made a rap about it hhahah
Hey Cheeky! Hi TLG! Its been a while. How have you been?
TLG, I'll address your situation first. You have to think about what you said and how it comes off to him. First, "I don't want to talk to him that much." Translation to him is "I'm bored with you and this situation and I'll talk to you when I'm ready." He responds by turning his attention elsewhere because he feels that you're just using him for attention at this point and maybe even from the beginning. After a couple of months of constant contact all of a sudden he doesn't hear from you as much. because he cares, he's going to immediately ask why. you were honest with him and he respects that, but that doesn't mean he's going to honor what he's feels you're doing. So, he's backing off because he feels you're not ready or you're playing games. He's not going to say anything to you because he feels you won't be upfront about your true intentions. In that regard, he's picking his battle, responding in kind by not putting as much energy into you(mirroring your actions), and moving forward and separating. Simply, he's either lost interest completely or is losing it fast because he feels he knows the truth about you at this point. We're happy go lucky, but that doesn't mean we aren't aware of what's going on. Now, if you truly want him, you're going to have to show him that in some way. if that want is based on the need for attention or ego, he will know it and keep his distance. If it's truly about loving him, he'll reciprocate your efforts. As for now, he's contacting you to see if you've changed and giving you an opportunity. He considers you a friend and cares but romantically he's definitely less interested. Hence the swedish girls comment.
TLG, I'll address your situation first. You have to think about what you said and how it comes off to him. First, "I don't want to talk to him that much." Translation to him is "I'm bored with you and this situation and I'll talk to you when I'm ready." He responds by turning his attention elsewhere because he feels that you're just using him for attention at this point and maybe even from the beginning. After a couple of months of constant contact all of a sudden he doesn't hear from you as much. because he cares, he's going to immediately ask why. you were honest with him and he respects that, but that doesn't mean he's going to honor what he's feels you're doing. So, he's backing off because he feels you're not ready or you're playing games. He's not going to say anything to you because he feels you won't be upfront about your true intentions. In that regard, he's picking his battle, responding in kind by not putting as much energy into you(mirroring your actions), and moving forward and separating. Simply, he's either lost interest completely or is losing it fast because he feels he knows the truth about you at this point. We're happy go lucky, but that doesn't mean we aren't aware of what's going on. Now, if you truly want him, you're going to have to show him that in some way. if that want is based on the need for attention or ego, he will know it and keep his distance. If it's truly about loving him, he'll reciprocate your efforts. As for now, he's contacting you to see if you've changed and giving you an opportunity. He considers you a friend and cares but romantically he's definitely less interested. Hence the swedish girls comment.
Typical man with a venus in cap. Your doing much better with yours than I am with mine.
He has a lot of air, he will love to talk
He has a lot of air, he will love to talk
Id agree, u do sound bored.
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