Sag woman and Libra Man

I am a Sagittarius woman and proud of it. I've been into astrology for years to come, however in my readings I would often come across compatibility between Libra and Sag. Recently I've gotten pretty close to a Libra male (sept. 26) and he is GORGEOUS, any sag woman reading this knows we love us some eye candy 😉 we both caught feelings, mines deeper than his, however he has a lot going on in his home life. from family passing away, to shitty parents, to not over heartbreaks and abuse from his father. Majority of the time he doesn't text me much and I know he's an introvert however I'm a believer in if you like someone you'll find the time to make time to call or even send a simple text. he's hurt my feelings before by being insensitive but then he'll come back around wanting civilized conversation like he didn't just say what he said.. he once even told me bluntly that he didn't want to be in love with me at all, then after, said it's bc he's still dealing with all the drama and demons in his life. As a Sag, what is patience?? haha, that's something we lack all around but in this case, since it's something that I want so badly, should I try and bare with it? am I being a big baby instead of just suck it up and respect that he has a lot on his plate? or do I have the right to feel hurt and be upset at his words? Are his actions normal, are all libras like this? or is this just me being a sag and over dramatic?

So being gorgeous is probably the only good thing he's got going for him, it seems.

He sounds kind of like a jerk.

Yeah he sounds like he has alot going on. No real time to give a lady the attention she desires.

Dear fellow Sag...time to be realistic. He's...not...ready...and doesn't look like he wants to be. Fair warning.