Sagg men and SEX

I was under the impression that Sagg men love sex so I am confuse to why mine when I upset him he will withold it from me or make me work extra hard to get it from him. Or one time he just gave me oral and he stop and I was like your not finish and I had to be aggressive with him to get the rest, but I guess he call"s hiself trying to punish me for when I do or say something that he doesn't like. It could be all the scorpio in his chart that makes him behave this way I told him with me it"s like even if I am upset with you I still want to have sex then I will talk about it after or we can make up and talk about it after the fact but why try to withold it or play games.

maybe he doesnt like to have sex when hes upset.

DMV that what he said, that he shuts down when he is upset, I mean like if I upset him he will literally ignore me. I dont like this though I told him I more less would like to talk about it and ofcourse make up, the last time I upset him he ignored me for a week: he didnt totally ignore he would just respond to my txt with short answers and he would not answer the phone when I call things like that, then when he feels like ok thats ok I will open up to her now and he tells me what upset him an we get past it, he said he would rather ignore me than to really cuss me out I guess. I can tell he has strong feelings for me cause he tries not to hurt my feelings he sugar coats a lot of his words.......... I do appreciate it though since I am a little senitive which he can tell.