Sagittarius check-ins

Hey! Looking for a bit of insight into a Sagittarius guy. I'm a Taurus, and we met online, talked a bit, flirted a bit. He moved pretty fast, so I asked him what he wants. Just so I don't get caught up in the attraction. He said he doesn't want a casual hookup but not looking for a relationship either. Fair enough, as I am thinking the same at the moment. But I'm keeping a distance, not texting all the time. Because being a girl and a Taurus, I will get attached. He has days where he will text/snapchat every day at least once. Then two days where he goes off, and then he is back. Like he is checking in. I don't mind and I reply whenever he messages. I message first sometimes but I don't want to be clingy when I know he is busy with work and football and friends. Plus the time difference. Just wondering, is this normal? The check ins?

If this helps, his Venus is in Capricorn, mine in Taurus. His moon is either in Pisces or Aquarius (don't have exact time of birth) and my moon is in Capricorn.

Also, I know a lot of posts on this forum have said Taurus and Sagittarius aren't a good combination long term. Just thinking short term at the moment 🙂

I have a venus in cap and venus in taurus turns me on!

I know a Taurus and Sag whose beeen together 10 plus years.

Ive had my share of taurus men. I actually enjoy them alot.

In saying so, hes told you that hes not looking for anything serious...rather a friend to hook up and spend some time with. Watch your attachment.

In saying so, venus in caps are consistent till were not. So his communication is normal.

Also venus in Capricorn is a progressive sign. Cardinal. We like to move forward. There has to be some time of progression.

So if things are progressing youre in a good space.

I don't know if I can quote multiple messages, first time poster lol. I'll just answer line by line 🙂

Sagsagsags - thanks, that's good to know 🙂 and he replies super quickly, as soon as he sees it.

DMV - thanks for the insight! Good to know his communication is normal.

If you don't mind me asking, what exactly about a Venus in Taurus has attracted you?

Yup, I am trying not to to get attached or think he will stick around.

The Taurus and Sag couple you mentioned, was the girl a Taurus and the guy a Sag as well?

Oh and yes, things are progressing, and we do plan to meet up once I am back in the same country.

Long distance is tough on saggis. We like face to face interaction.

Venus in taurus is sexy, full bodied, sensual. You guys are slow as fawk and shy but is okay sometimes.

Boy taurus, girl sag

Haha I see that in this Sagi. Constant pics are needed to substitute being able to actually see me for now.

And yes, pretty accurate description of Venus in Taurus!

Thanks again for the help 🙂

Thanks for the warning, much appreciated 🙂 The casual thing is ok with me for now because my options are open too. And I'm keeping my distance from him emotionally. I will see what happens when and if we do meet.

Sagiluv - thanks for the advice 🙂 no all day everyday contact but we are both busy so I get that. I think it's actually better for me. Too much contact will only draw me in quicker and I'll end up getting my heart broken.

Sagsagsags - thanks, will look out for that! So far so good then 🙂

Also, just wondering, have I put my foot in it by already clarifying what we want? I didn't mean it as pressure, I just didn't want to have any false expectations from his being attentive and also didn't want to have him jump to me just sleeping with him. I think the pace freaked me out a bit and he realised that (Venus in Taurus lol)

Okay so update, I went back to the same country as the sagi, we met up, slept together. He told me he doesn't want to be serious.

But he also opened up to me about some personal stuff. I know it was fast, but honestly, I am ok with it. I just told him not to be an asshole, and by that I meant sleep with me and forget all about me. I know he might still do that.

But since then he has called me and texted. I'm keeping things casual and not expecting anything.

Any advice on how to not scare him off completely?

Venus in capricorn takes relationships serious rather it be Relationships or Friendships , and we can sometimes come off as We don't see you than giving you attention that's normal. What's his mars sign ? That'll help a lot since you're not sure about his Moon sign

Aah ok. He seemed as if the 'I don't want to be serious' was more of a face he puts on to protect himself. I don't know if that is true or not.

His Mars is in Scorpio, what does that say about him?

He has called me again since just casually, and I'm keeping it light too.

Venus in capricorn loves clarity also his sag sun appreciates it , With his mars in scorpio he's either obsessed with you or he's not , I also have mars in scorpio if I really like someone I won't really show if I know their 100 precent in it , He may have recently went through a break up and maybe that was rushed and he's trying to take a different approach towards you .

Thanks for the insight. This may be tricky then, because my Taurus sun makes me cautious in trusting 😢

All I know is his last relationship was 1.5 years and he said it just ended. Didn't seem keen to talk about it so I didn't ask.

Secret to keeping it light is to keep it funny.