Sagittarius man.. Gay or straight?!

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Aria
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This might be odd but I have a question... Do you have "gay-dars" like gay radars? How do you know if someone is gay?

Here's the thing. There is this sagittarian guy friend of mine. Initially, we hated each other. Block each other when we fight and all crazy stuff then we makeup. People in the office thinks his gay because he is vain. However, we are very close and I asked him on several occasions if he is gay and he would say he's not.

We go out together. Just the two of us but we never kissed or held hands. He messages me almost everyday. Greets me "good morning gorgeous" and was telling me that I should find a better man than my aqua since I am very young and single and that I am beautiful. He supplies my daily positive energy and makes me laugh often. He told me he likes a girl who is of the same age as I am. But he never showed me a pic. He showed me pics of women he liked in the past but never this one. And he invited me to come with him for a vacay in Korea. Just me and him. I told him to invite other friends as it would be boring to just go about-- you know, just him and me.

I dunno... Is he gay and just making me a front? It's weird. They think he's gay but we've been friends for too long and he never admitted it. But if he's not... Then does that mean he likes me?!
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This might be odd but I have a question... Do you have "gay-dars" like gay radars? How do you know if someone is gay?

Here's the thing. There is this sagittarian guy friend of mine. Initially, we hated each other. Block each other when we fight and all crazy stuff then we makeup. People in the office thinks his gay because he is vain. However, we are very close and I asked him on several occasions if he is gay and he would say he's not.

We go out together. Just the two of us but we never kissed or held hands. He messages me almost everyday. Greets me "good morning gorgeous" and was telling me that I should find a better man than my aqua since I am very young and single and that I am beautiful. He supplies my daily positive energy and makes me laugh often. He told me he likes a girl who is of the same age as I am. But he never showed me a pic. He showed me pics of women he liked in the past but never this one. And he invited me to come with him for a vacay in Korea. Just me and him. I told him to invite other friends as it would be boring to just go about-- you know, just him and me.

I dunno... Is he gay and just making me a front? It's weird. They think he's gay but we've been friends for too long and he never admitted it. But if he's not... Then does that mean he likes me?!



No telling how his sexuality might be classified or conversely if he's got unrequited feelings for you, going by the information provided. But why must either of you concern yourselves with others' take on his sexual preferences, or the dynamic of your friendship?

Believe it or not heterosexual men & women CAN & DO enjoy platonic friendships without toeing the line of intimacy. According to popular theory, male-female friendships are automatically(A)plagued by ulterior motives or(B)unspoken rule stating one or both parties must be gay for this to succeed long-term. In practice, this is not always(nor usually)the case.

IMO his support for you seems appropriate within the context of friendship, if not slightly more enthusiastic. Hardly a cause for suspicion or further analyses though.
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Agreed wholeheartedly