SweetestFatale
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Sagittarius Man Noncommital Misconception?
He's been single 2.5 years. He's coming off a pretty traumatic breakup in his words.
lol I've seen a lot of that Nevermore. My other Taurus friends are like "don't do it!!!". He said he's dealt with a few Taurus women and over all he likes them lol I think what he means is that he likes the sex.
Are there are redeeming qualities Nevermore?
Are there are redeeming qualities Nevermore?
lol is that laughing with me or at me...or was it like an evil cackle?
Dang....is it really that bad?
So I already know Sag Male/Taurus Female can be a challenge (I'm hoping less for us since I am on the Aries/Taurus cusp), but everything I read also says that Sag men prefer loose connections and noncommitment and they also enjoy the chase. Did I make a mistake by going with his feverish pace (or maybe its been a long time coming in his mind?)? I really like that he is offering to kind of look after me, I love his positivity and his sense of humor.
Maybe/maybe not (your choice). I dated a SAGGY man. Here's what he will do...ahem!
He will be calling you, 10,000 times a day/will be texting you 10,000 times a day. He will give you ALL his attention, but if and when he doesn't feel like going out w/you and your friends, he will tell you to "have fun. Call me later". He's trustworthy, but a leech when it comes to calling/texting you. He has a stomach for food and will want to meet you for lunch/dinner 5-6 times a week. OR he will cook for you (come over!); he won't pick you up. He's loud (you'll have to tell him at the restaurant/store to "tone it down a bit"). With that said, he's VERY opinionated and SARCASTIC! There is something about them and their "maternal" relationship that they just have to be with you ALL THE treetrunkin' time! Am I exaggerating a little? Wait and find out. He is a TIGER in bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Saggy men drop their Fruit of the Looms fast when it comes to meeting another woman after a bad break up. He won't go back to his ex (call nor stop by her house. When he has been hurt he won't go back to whine, cry, and beg for forgiveness). Oh! And Saggy men NEVER say, "I'm sorry". If and when you have a fight, they expect YOU to sit him down and "talk about it" (he has to hear it from you first).
If and when he thinks about you, he will buy you flowers. If he doesn't every week/month, that's okay. On a "special" occasion he will (Valentines/your birthday). He enjoys the outdoors. He enjoys the honey do list (he's a jack of all trades). He will have TONS of girls on his FB page, so don't be "jealous". He wants a woman that is not the jealous type. If he kisses you good-night at your door step, don't be surprised to have him call you five minutes later......are you ready for this?
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Maybe/maybe not (your choice). I dated a SAGGY man. Here's what he will do...ahem!
He will be calling you, 10,000 times a day/will be texting you 10,000 times a day. He will give you ALL his attention, but if and when he doesn't feel like going out w/you and your friends, he will tell you to "have fun. Call me later". He's trustworthy, but a leech when it comes to calling/texting you. He has a stomach for food and will want to meet you for lunch/dinner 5-6 times a week. OR he will cook for you (come over!); he won't pick you up. He's loud (you'll have to tell him at the restaurant/store to "tone it down a bit"). With that said, he's VERY opinionated and SARCASTIC! There is something about them and their "maternal" relationship that they just have to be with you ALL THE treetrunkin' time! Am I exaggerating a little? Wait and find out. He is a TIGER in bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Saggy men drop their Fruit of the Looms fast when it comes to meeting another woman after a bad break up. He won't go back to his ex (call nor stop by her house. When he has been hurt he won't go back to whine, cry, and beg for forgiveness). Oh! And Saggy men NEVER say, "I'm sorry". If and when you have a fight, they expect YOU to sit him down and "talk about it" (he has to hear it from you first).
If and when he thinks about you, he will buy you flowers. If he doesn't every week/month, that's okay. On a "special" occasion he will (Valentines/your birthday). He enjoys the outdoors. He enjoys the honey do list (he's a jack of all trades). He will have TONS of girls on his FB page, so don't be "jealous". He wants a woman that is not the jealous type. If he kisses you good-night at your door step, don't be surprised to have him call you five minutes later......are you ready for this?
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Both my Sun and Mercury are on the Aries/Taurus cusp and my Venus is in Aries. I want stable, but I love being outdoors and have always wanted someone to push me to be more adventurous and spontaneous. lol he's already suggested that I get my passport in order quickly. I think as long as he also already WANTS someone to help him slow down or have more stability it could work, He is a custodial parent so I don't suppose he can be quite as spontaneous as other Sag men
Posted by SweetestFataleI knew your Venus would be in Aries... You guys love to chase as well. My ex was like that.. Someone who is independent, adventurous, and fun will excite you at first..
Both my Sun and Mercury are on the Aries/Taurus cusp and my Venus is in Aries. I want stable, but I love being outdoors and have always wanted someone to push me to be more adventurous and spontaneous. lol he's already suggested that I get my passport in order quickly. I think as long as he also already WANTS someone to help him slow down or have more stability it could work, He is a custodial parent so I don't suppose he can be quite as spontaneous as other Sag men
Where is his Venus? Mars?
OMG thank you Eva! lol He has been very attentive I like it so far and I really like it. I have no problem with him being attentive. My brother, a Sag, has been very dedicated to his relationships even tho he's done some really stupid stuff in the process, he's also tolerated a LOT of bs from his ladies. I don't plan on doing that to him at all.
I am working on getting his place/time of birth so I can do a full chart.
I'm not "materialistic" but how does one travel without a steady/stable stream of income? I would think they go hand in hand.
As far as the bedroom. I think we'll get along fabulously
His Sun, Mercury and Venus is Sagittarius, his Moon is Virgo, his Mars is Libra
As far as the bedroom. I think we'll get along fabulously
His Sun, Mercury and Venus is Sagittarius, his Moon is Virgo, his Mars is Libra
Ugh nevermind. I just read up on Mars in Libra/Venus in Sagittarius. Its unlikely he'll really ever commit for the long run. I'll see how far we can take this
Posted by LonerLoopAgreed. I've been through a "thing" with a sag. We both had Taurus moons, my Venus Aries and his Venus was in cap. It still didn't work, he broke my heart....best "thing" I've ever had with someone though. Very fun, spontaneous,and adventurous. My Aries Venus LOVED itPosted by SweetestFataleMy venus is in Aries too, he's a Cap venus. It was an exhausting relationship. I guess I was in love with an emotional vampire.
Both my Sun and Mercury are on the Aries/Taurus cusp and my Venus is in Aries. I want stable, but I love being outdoors and have always wanted someone to push me to be more adventurous and spontaneous. lol he's already suggested that I get my passport in order quickly. I think as long as he also already WANTS someone to help him slow down or have more stability it could work, He is a custodial parent so I don't suppose he can be quite as spontaneous as other Sag men
If you're looking for stability, Sag will not be the perfect choice. They need to feel free. 🙂click to expand
I checked our Venus compatibility and I am VERY excited now lol. So far it is VERY true. Normally I would never enter a relationship so quickly but he just has a certain optimism that inspires me!
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Venus in Sagittarius
How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Aries:Because both of you fall in love intuitively, almost on impulse, your relationship is almost certain to start quickly. Neither of you takes the time to evaluate potential partners on practical levels. Your interest is aroused suddenly and is based usually on pure infatuation and attraction, and the same goes for your Venus in Aries partner. We are mixing two fiery Venus placements here, and this can make for a very stimulating——even invigorating——pairing. For the most part, you will inspire each other, and mutual encouragement is more than likely. Love for both of you needs to be active and growth-oriented. You may be more intellectual than your partner, enjoying sharing your philosophies with him or her perhaps more than your partner would do naturally. Neither of you is afraid of a good heated debate, or outright argument, so tempers may flare at times, but neither of you is one to hold grudges and you both are willing to move forward and forget about problems easily. Both of you love to laugh and play with your partners, and neither of you likes to be tied down. Giving each other space is important, but it is likely to come naturally for both of you. You feel comfortable with one another right from the start, and the enthusiasm generated between the two of you is admirable. Both of you are competitive, and enjoy friendly sparring. You admire each other’s direct approach in love, and are sure to keep active together. Neither of you is content with a relationship that is too settled or comfortable.
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Venus in Sagittarius
How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Aries:Because both of you fall in love intuitively, almost on impulse, your relationship is almost certain to start quickly. Neither of you takes the time to evaluate potential partners on practical levels. Your interest is aroused suddenly and is based usually on pure infatuation and attraction, and the same goes for your Venus in Aries partner. We are mixing two fiery Venus placements here, and this can make for a very stimulating——even invigorating——pairing. For the most part, you will inspire each other, and mutual encouragement is more than likely. Love for both of you needs to be active and growth-oriented. You may be more intellectual than your partner, enjoying sharing your philosophies with him or her perhaps more than your partner would do naturally. Neither of you is afraid of a good heated debate, or outright argument, so tempers may flare at times, but neither of you is one to hold grudges and you both are willing to move forward and forget about problems easily. Both of you love to laugh and play with your partners, and neither of you likes to be tied down. Giving each other space is important, but it is likely to come naturally for both of you. You feel comfortable with one another right from the start, and the enthusiasm generated between the two of you is admirable. Both of you are competitive, and enjoy friendly sparring. You admire each other’s direct approach in love, and are sure to keep active together. Neither of you is content with a relationship that is too settled or comfortable.
His venus is in sag?
Ive never met a man who had a Venus in sag who was monogamous.
Even in marriage, they had another.
Ive never met a man who had a Venus in sag who was monogamous.
Even in marriage, they had another.
I don't know many men of all the men I know who are faithful lol. If he's not then this won't last. But that just means it wasn't meant to 😉
Plot Twist!!
Sag guy is married. He mentions nothing on his FB page of it, but his wife has him all over hers. That new search criteria is nice.
Lol he really put on a show when I told him I wasn't playing his game anymore. He even asked how I feel about marriage like he was preparing to propose. Lol can't see life without me. He really wanted to tell me face to face. He thought I was upset because he hadn't changed his relationship status on Facebook. Of course if I said yes! then his status changes to "married" and I'm a blissful idiot. Cunning I'll say.
Sag guy is married. He mentions nothing on his FB page of it, but his wife has him all over hers. That new search criteria is nice.
Lol he really put on a show when I told him I wasn't playing his game anymore. He even asked how I feel about marriage like he was preparing to propose. Lol can't see life without me. He really wanted to tell me face to face. He thought I was upset because he hadn't changed his relationship status on Facebook. Of course if I said yes! then his status changes to "married" and I'm a blissful idiot. Cunning I'll say.
I know a Sag male/Taurus female couple and their Facebook relationship status is: it's complicated. Umm...
On the other hand my Sag and I are just fine but I'm a Libra.
You can't date someone if you don't trust them, and if he's never given you a reason for that then it's not fair to distrust him for no reason..so just go with your gut instinct. He sounds like a charmer though.
On the other hand my Sag and I are just fine but I'm a Libra.
You can't date someone if you don't trust them, and if he's never given you a reason for that then it's not fair to distrust him for no reason..so just go with your gut instinct. He sounds like a charmer though.
Posted by SweetestFataleOmg what a freaking bastard!!
Plot Twist!!
Sag guy is married. He mentions nothing on his FB page of it, but his wife has him all over hers. That new search criteria is nice.
Lol he really put on a show when I told him I wasn't playing his game anymore. He even asked how I feel about marriage like he was preparing to propose. Lol can't see life without me. He really wanted to tell me face to face. He thought I was upset because he hadn't changed his relationship status on Facebook. Of course if I said yes! then his status changes to "married" and I'm a blissful idiot. Cunning I'll say.
I couldn't agree more. Bastard is the perfect way to describe him.
My Sag brother is with a Libra lady btw and I love them together! She's so hard working and ambitious he's finally really getting his shit together and has someone cheering him on because she genuinely wants to see him succeed!
From what I've been told, Sag men are noncommittal for the majority of their youth -- but they will settle down in later life for the right one.
I know one who's a Sag Sun, Taurus Moon, Cap Merc, Sag Venus and Aries Mars.
I've had to keep my distance because it's clear that he's a free bird. Though, he recently got upset with me when I took him off of my social media. Apparently he could vanish but I'm not allowed to remove myself from his life lol
I know one who's a Sag Sun, Taurus Moon, Cap Merc, Sag Venus and Aries Mars.
I've had to keep my distance because it's clear that he's a free bird. Though, he recently got upset with me when I took him off of my social media. Apparently he could vanish but I'm not allowed to remove myself from his life lol
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