@Islandgal24
10 Years
DMV Where You At Girl?
Sounds like his mind is elsewhere. I know you want dmv and I am not her, but you should block him.. and watch most likely as soon as you do he'll come chasing you.
He's taking advantage of your energy and your company. Whatever is going on, that's where his mind is...still not fair to put you back like he doesn't even make efforts for you? Nope. Ignores you? Robot sex? Gtfoh
I don't wanna see you get hurt anymore..
Thank you for your advice. I really appreciate your honesty! I don't want to get hurt anymore either. When I first met him he was so sweet, and then the mask just fell off. But hey everything happens for a reason. Just gotta keep high hopes for the best
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Sounds like his mind is elsewhere. I know you want dmv and I am not her, but you should block him.. and watch most likely as soon as you do he'll come chasing you.He's taking advantage of your energy and your company. Whatever is going on, that's where his mind is...still not fair to put you back like he doesn't even make efforts for you? Nope. Ignores you? Robot sex? Gtfoh
I don't wanna see you get hurt anymore..
Posted by Islandgal24
Thank you for your advice. I really appreciate your honesty! I don't want to get hurt anymore either. When I first met him he was so sweet, and then the mask just fell off. But hey everything happens for a reason. Just gotta keep high hopes for the bestPosted by HarleyTwinFlame
Sounds like his mind is elsewhere. I know you want dmv and I am not her, but you should block him.. and watch most likely as soon as you do he'll come chasing you.He's taking advantage of your energy and your company. Whatever is going on, that's where his mind is...still not fair to put you back like he doesn't even make efforts for you? Nope. Ignores you? Robot sex? Gtfoh
I don't wanna see you get hurt anymore..
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Hmm.. Whats his Venus sign do you know?
I have no idea... all I know is his birthdate is December 8 so he's true sag
Hes one sided. Selfish. Only cares about what you can do for him. He hasnt learmed how to be a man yet. Doesnt know give n take.
Any man who.takes from a woman is not a man. Hes a girl.
Id give him no closure cause he wouldn't care anyway.
Amputate him. If you see him in the streets, its a happy smirk and that is it.
Ive been there 2. Learned the hard way. Don't feel used. Its all practice for the good one coming.
Dust to these bum dudes.
Every one juat wants acknowledgement at the end of the day.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Sounds like his mind is elsewhere. I know you want dmv and I am not her, but you should block him.. and watch most likely as soon as you do he'll come chasing you.He's taking advantage of your energy and your company. Whatever is going on, that's where his mind is...still not fair to put you back like he doesn't even make efforts for you? Nope. Ignores you? Robot sex? Gtfoh
I don't wanna see you get hurt anymore..
Broke and can't even lay the pipe right
Shame
Shame
Shame
Posted by Islandgal24
I have no idea... all I know is his birthdate is December 8 so he's true sag
How old is he?
well, that's the thing. I gave him closure on Sunday, but then we hung out Monday and he was very mean. So, I went back on my word and hung out with him monday only to be treated like garbage. I know there was purpose for coming into my life. I appreciate the lesson, but deserve better. As you said dust to these bum dudes. I will say the sex was always great the times before, but this last time it was like he was disconnected. You know that s*** go. lol
Posted by DMV
Hes one sided. Selfish. Only cares about what you can do for him. He hasnt learmed how to be a man yet. Doesnt know give n take.Any man who.takes from a woman is not a man. Hes a girl.
Id give him no closure cause he wouldn't care anyway.
Amputate him. If you see him in the streets, its a happy smirk and that is it.
Ive been there 2. Learned the hard way. Don't feel used. Its all practice for the good one coming.
Dust to these bum dudes.
. 27 year old with a daughter.
Posted by Islandgal24
I have no idea... all I know is his birthdate is December 8 so he's true sagHow old is he?
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how some guys/boys are! Doesn't matter what sign they are, first they sweet talk you get you all interested then start showing their true colors, by then you are so stuck on how it use to be that you hoping that it goes back how it was. But once they show their true colors, there is no going back, that is the person they really are. I know it is easier said than done but just try to move on, find someone that is going to treat you like the queen you are! Good luck, know its hard but you can do it...
Posted by Islandgal24
Thank you for your advice. I really appreciate your honesty! I don't want to get hurt anymore either. When I first met him he was so sweet, and then the mask just fell off. But hey everything happens for a reason. Just gotta keep high hopes for the bestPosted by HarleyTwinFlame
Sounds like his mind is elsewhere. I know you want dmv and I am not her, but you should block him.. and watch most likely as soon as you do he'll come chasing you.He's taking advantage of your energy and your company. Whatever is going on, that's where his mind is...still not fair to put you back like he doesn't even make efforts for you? Nope. Ignores you? Robot sex? Gtfoh
I don't wanna see you get hurt anymore..
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Posted by Mic2016
That's just how some guys/boys are! Doesn't matter what sign they are, first they sweet talk you get you all interested then start showing their true colors, by then you are so stuck on how it use to be that you hoping that it goes back how it was. But once they show their true colors, there is no going back, that is the person they really are. I know it is easier said than done but just try to move on, find someone that is going to treat you like the queen you are! Good luck, know its hard but you can do it...Posted by Islandgal24
Thank you for your advice. I really appreciate your honesty! I don't want to get hurt anymore either. When I first met him he was so sweet, and then the mask just fell off. But hey everything happens for a reason. Just gotta keep high hopes for the bestPosted by HarleyTwinFlame
Sounds like his mind is elsewhere. I know you want dmv and I am not her, but you should block him.. and watch most likely as soon as you do he'll come chasing you.He's taking advantage of your energy and your company. Whatever is going on, that's where his mind is...still not fair to put you back like he doesn't even make efforts for you? Nope. Ignores you? Robot sex? Gtfoh
I don't wanna see you get hurt anymore..
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Omg yes. Stuck on the potential, or who they sold themselves as.
Its hard to leave "that" man. But that man isn't who he really is.
Sag Sun
Sag Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Aries Mars
Taurus Jupiter
The mean treatment is no bueno.
I really dont get men who treat the women they sleep with, with such disregard. At what point did i become less of a woman? Less of a human being? When your dick was in me? So your dick dehumanized me? Whose damages goods? Me or you?
Check ya self.
I'll start by saying Venus in Scorpio (like me) is all or nothing. It's oversaid and cliché but it's the truth.
Based on his behavior he's already not giving anything close to his all and is just doing it for the hell of it. His heart is not into your relationship whatsoever.
More the reason to leave him.
So pretty much a true sag? What does venus mean?
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Sag SunSag Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Aries Mars
Taurus Jupiter
Thank you so much!
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
I'll start by saying Venus in Scorpio (like me) is all or nothing. It's oversaid and cliché but it's the truth.Based on his behavior he's already not giving anything close to his all and is just doing it for the hell of it. His heart is not into your relationship whatsoever.
More the reason to leave him.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
When a SAG wants you and LOVES you, you will know.i think they only get one love in their life.
That's a lie.... We have more feelings then you think.
Posted by Islandgal24
Everything he showed me gives me every reason to never talk with him again, but here I go thinking that maybe he's just going through a tough time, with his ex keeping his child from him. For reasons beyond my knowledge.This is why I like Cancerians. Always so thoughtful 🙂
The sags I know are moody and as you get to know them better they'll get comfortable around you and be even more moody - which doesn't mean they don't like you.
I don't know if that's the case for you, but anyway, I'd cut off contact with him for a while to get a reaction - this way you'll find out if he misses you. Just ignore him instead of blocking.
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This is true. We can get really mean... And I mean it. You'll actually start to see the side we don't show everyone. The smile is sometimes a front, but we can be cruel...
Just give him space and mess with someone else.. Don't let him know you completely like him. Matter of fact, start being mean to him back... And if he sticks around, I promise he truly likes you. It sounds so crazy, but sometimes we can be destructive.
Good Luck.
really nasty text message stating how he thinks I'm beneath him when really I'm above him. How he's very mean and so on. He was very rude to me on July 4. face timed me, then when I FaceTime him an hour later he asks me what do I want? Why do I keep calling him so much.Then hung up the phone on me. At that point I knew it was time to stand my ground and let this Sag know that you shouldn't take my kindness for weakness, and I sent him probably the meanest text Ive ever sent anyone EVER. I got 2 responses from him one asking me why I'm in my feelings and he said smh bye. 37 minutes later sent another text explaining why he hung up and it was because his phone was dieing lol then told me when he got him he put his phone on the charger and on vibrate took his drunk a** to sleep only to wake up to a nasty text lol. Then followed with hope you have a blessed life. That was it. Left it just as it is. AS nice as I was I didn't deserve that treatment, and even though its not in my character to send such vile text messages, he needed to know he will no longer treat me like garbage. Yep 🙂
Posted by Islandgal24
Everything he showed me gives me every reason to never talk with him again, but here I go thinking that maybe he's just going through a tough time, with his ex keeping his child from him. For reasons beyond my knowledge.This is why I like Cancerians. Always so thoughtful 🙂
The sags I know are moody and as you get to know them better they'll get comfortable around you and be even more moody - which doesn't mean they don't like you.
I don't know if that's the case for you, but anyway, I'd cut off contact with him for a while to get a reaction - this way you'll find out if he misses you. Just ignore him instead of blocking.
This is true. We can get really mean... And I mean it. You'll actually start to see the side we don't show everyone. The smile is sometimes a front, but we can be cruel...
Just give him space and mess with someone else.. Don't let him know you completely like him. Matter of fact, start being mean to him back... And if he sticks around, I promise he truly likes you. It sounds so crazy, but sometimes we can be destructive.
Good Luck.
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
When a SAG wants you and LOVES you, you will know.i think they only get one love in their life.
That's a lie.... We have more feelings then you think.
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I think i can agree with cancer girlie. Im so cynical i resist falling in love.
Yes... I resent love sometimes also.. But I feel like people here only see the smile we put on in public and nothing past that.
But I understand. I don't think I'll give love another shot for years to come... But that doesn't mean I'll go around hurting people for the heck of it.
And don't get confused a sag chasing you for him loving you... That's where you guys are going wrong. Sometimes we all have something/someone we crave. Just give it time, you'll know if he's the one.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Sounds like his mind is elsewhere. I know you want dmv and I am not her, but you should block him.. and watch most likely as soon as you do he'll come chasing you.He's taking advantage of your energy and your company. Whatever is going on, that's where his mind is...still not fair to put you back like he doesn't even make efforts for you? Nope. Ignores you? Robot sex? Gtfoh
I don't wanna see you get hurt anymore..
Broke and can't even lay the pipe right
Shame
Shame
Shame
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Lol one of the bset comments I've seen
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Had to make a new thread, because your advice is 100% and I feel pretty used right now. Um so my previous thread was talking about the Sag guy. I saw him one more time after that encounter. Matter of fact it was this last Monday. He was completely mean, said some foul shit, the sex was not connected (as in it was like I was sleeping with a robot). Everything he showed me gives me every reason to never talk with him again, but here I go thinking that maybe he's just going through a tough time, with his ex keeping his child from him. For reasons beyond my knowledge. After I spent the night I wanted him to walk me to my car, he didn't want to do that, but did anyways. I got to my car and he didn't want to kiss me. Like his whole vibe changed over the course of 1 week. I'm summing EVERYTHING up for you, simply because theres a lot more to the story, and I really don't feel like typing it nor do I like the fact of being judged. Um he told me to text him when I made it home, and I texted him and thanked him for walking me to my car. He read the text, and we haven't spoken since I last texted him on Monday. He watches my snaps, which Ive been contemplating on whether or not I should just block him, because of how disgusted I feel. I did things for him, that proved my interest. He was broke and I came out of pocket, yet every time he cooked he couldn't invite me over. Would give him massages. Listen to him when he needed to vent about issues with his baby momma keeping his daughter. I know, I know, so foolish of me. I feel so used and taken advantage of, yet; I allowed it. What would you do in this circumstance? Block this fool from your life?