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Sagittarius's Darling Appreciation Thread
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Call For Paper
just kidding...
I mean isn't aquasagi annoying? She keeps asking "How to keep you at toes?" Well, I don't know your man.
Wait!!!! But I know my man.
Ok, let us do compromise. In this thread you could write,
What does keep this Sag stay with his/her Darling?
Terms of Condition:
1. Only real life Scenarios please.
2. If you are currently not in a relationship, talk about your past ones.
3. Other Sign's posts? Please only if you have heard it clearly from a Sag telling it to you or to his/her Darling.
-- have fun!
Yes you don't know my boyfriend but you do know yourself and the partners that you want to keep. I am only interested in seeing how a Sag thinks (male or female). I usually expect that male sags answer my questions but we only have a few of them and they are quiet. In the mean time female sags will suffice.
So, How to keep you at your toes?
By the way thanks dwellingonthe move, I appreciate that you started this thread. This is soooo full of insights, thank you. I am all excited. 🙂
i think OP is trying to say that Sag people arent this hard.
From the sag man i knew for 5 years, it was effortless. Compared to my confusion with other men, its like night n day when it works. when i doesnt and you find yourself have to navigate and read endless astro blog after astro blog, somethings wrong.
people say it all day here. people make time for what they want to make time for. everything else is an afterthought.
From the sag man i knew for 5 years, it was effortless. Compared to my confusion with other men, its like night n day when it works. when i doesnt and you find yourself have to navigate and read endless astro blog after astro blog, somethings wrong.
people say it all day here. people make time for what they want to make time for. everything else is an afterthought.
also, asking question after question we see it as annoying.
Posted by DMV
i think OP is trying to say that Sag people arent this hard...
Actually I'm trying to build a collection. Of facts. Of memories.
What have you done or talked together. Why did you keep fall in love with him?
No discussion. No impressions. Just facts and memories.
Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by DMV
i think OP is trying to say that Sag people arent this hard...
Actually I'm trying to build a collection. Of facts. Of memories.
What have you done or talked together. Why did you keep fall in love with him?
No discussion. No impressions. Just facts and memories.click to expand
ahhh. you mean people should fall in love with real life experiences? ive been guilty of being in love with potential. shit, venus in capricorn alll day long.
Posted by DMV
also, asking question after question we see it as annoying.
that's right.... but if she insists on and if we can help (I said "if we can"), then why not? And from her second post I see she got it.
Posted by DMVPosted by DwellingOnMovePosted by DMV
i think OP is trying to say that Sag people arent this hard...
Actually I'm trying to build a collection. Of facts. Of memories.
What have you done or talked together. Why did you keep fall in love with him?
No discussion. No impressions. Just facts and memories.
ahhh. you mean people should fall in love with real life experiences? ive been guilty of being in love with potential. shit, venus in capricorn alll day long.click to expand
LOLOLOLOLOL Blame me on my bad english. 😉
I mean think back to a time when you were in a relationship. What was about your darling that made you stay by him? Anything found? Write them here.
i stayed with my ex leo because of the way he made me feel and how he looked at me. he made me feel beautiful and desired.
that was enough for me.
that was enough for me.
a little and found this (4/19/2006):
Posted by sweethearts_1969
aquiella:
I dated a Sag and I am a Sag about 8 years ago and he was too much like me but the male version. He could have so many projects going on and sometimes he would get so overwhelmed that he would just keep his distance from other people. We had a great time together because we both liked to play and goof around and we could also be serious but we were very careful of letting each other really know our true feelings. He was kind but a huge smart*ss and so am I so it was like a game for us. I think it is hard to crack and Sag and nail them down but it can be done. I think there is too many misunderstandings about Sags. I know when I really truely care about someone then that is all I can think about and want. I never cheat but I do flirt but never do I let it get out of hand. I always let people know that I am not single when I am in a relationship. I wish you luck.
Then 2009 she was with another Sag:
Posted by sweethearts_1969
... We have been dating well over a year now and he is my ideal man for me. He never bores me, he always treats me like I am so special. He is affectionate and knows how much the little things count just like I do. ...
Posted by sweethearts_1969
... We both like our space. We both don't like to me smothered and neither one of us do that. Neither one of us are jealous so we don't worry about that and we don't play games and try to make the other one jealous because it won't work. We don't like those games. We like fun and sarcastic games but nothing that would actually intentionally hurt someone. If either one of us felt that we were intentionally trying to hurt the other well, I think it wouldn't be the success that it is now. We are both extremely active and he is more so then me. We both consider each others feeling and neither one of us believe in cheating on our partner. If it ever came to that then the relationship would end but both of us are strongly against cheating so I don't believe it will ever be an issue. ...click to expand
she continues:
Posted by sweethearts_1969
...I can go without seeing my Sag male for a day or two (and he lives around the corner from me) and we may not even talk but, I don't worry about him and he doesn't worry about me and we don't ask a million questions about what we did when we were apart. However, we do like to tell our partner what we have been doing without them even asking...
I'm not quite sure this can be considered as valid one here.
I love my sag because...
1. We all both love watching YouTube, and she always shares her favorites with me. Once we watched a video on my laptop, it couldn't show up English subtitles (the video is made by french, and she is a french.) due to some problems. She tried to use her cell phone to play it. Although I could see subtitles, the whole video was black. Then what she did really surprised me, every time the guy in that video said something, she immediately paused it and play the same video on her phone to show me subtitles. We didn't finish that video, but she could be doing this for me for almost 6 mins. 6 mins may sound really short, but you have to pause and play every few sec. I don't think many people can do this. It's enough. I was really appreciated, because I haven't ever seen someone so patient like her, and she could do this just for me.
It's just the first one, which means here are more coming up.
I love my sag because...
1. We all both love watching YouTube, and she always shares her favorites with me. Once we watched a video on my laptop, it couldn't show up English subtitles (the video is made by french, and she is a french.) due to some problems. She tried to use her cell phone to play it. Although I could see subtitles, the whole video was black. Then what she did really surprised me, every time the guy in that video said something, she immediately paused it and play the same video on her phone to show me subtitles. We didn't finish that video, but she could be doing this for me for almost 6 mins. 6 mins may sound really short, but you have to pause and play every few sec. I don't think many people can do this. It's enough. I was really appreciated, because I haven't ever seen someone so patient like her, and she could do this just for me.
It's just the first one, which means here are more coming up.
@richie8813,
it is nice that you kept your promise. Please note, the question is:
"what did she say to praise your relationship? To what she refer to say this is a great friendship/love?".
it is nice that you kept your promise. Please note, the question is:
"what did she say to praise your relationship? To what she refer to say this is a great friendship/love?".
what does the fox say?
oh I forgot the question :p my bad
what did she say to praise your relationship?
She told me that she had several bad relationships before me. Those her exes were all nice in the beginning, but after few months, they became assholes. Why her last relationship was over is because they had too many arguments, and most of them were started by her ex's disrespect. But it has been few months since we were in the relationship, my personality haven't ever changed, I'm always so nice to her. And I can truly listen to her opinions for anything. When she encountered some problems, I can always help her.
To what she refer to say this is a great friendship/love?
From my memory, she hasn't ever said this to me. Even she had, I can't really remember...
what did she say to praise your relationship?
She told me that she had several bad relationships before me. Those her exes were all nice in the beginning, but after few months, they became assholes. Why her last relationship was over is because they had too many arguments, and most of them were started by her ex's disrespect. But it has been few months since we were in the relationship, my personality haven't ever changed, I'm always so nice to her. And I can truly listen to her opinions for anything. When she encountered some problems, I can always help her.
To what she refer to say this is a great friendship/love?
From my memory, she hasn't ever said this to me. Even she had, I can't really remember...
Posted by richie8813
... From my memory, she hasn't ever said this to me. Even she had, I can't really remember...
It's sad. It's strange. Maybe you can't read her lips. Maybe her lips are closed. Maybe actions are currently all you can get from her (refers to your last post). And if you've forgotten, why? too many guesses and questions.
Ok, one thread on the internet is not worth to interfer your relation/friendship. But if I were you and if everything were ok, I'd ask my friend, "tell me what you find nice in our relationship. I'm asking this for a survey in Internet regarding Sagittarius's relationship". As mentioned if only I knew it were just a harmless question.
rking. Last time I found a few Sags praising their relationships. Today I could find Aries praising their relationships with a Sag. Maybe there's something to learn in this too. (then again why did I cut Ritchie when he was doing this? Maybe maybe maybe because Aries has a similar view as Sag. so what did the Firefox say?)
Posted by Run262
...
Sticking with the Sag boyfriend for now - lots of fun, great conversation and tons of RESPECT for one another.
and
Posted by fieryimpulse
... Sagi. Been married to mine for 10 years in March. Fun. Great sex. Good conversations. Compliment us and match our personality very well. Adventurous and love to go out and experience the world just like Aries. Fiery and passionate. These guys can handle an impetuous, impulsive, fiery Aries woman better than most guys can. Open me up to new places, things, ideas.click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by richie8813
... From my memory, she hasn't ever said this to me. Even she had, I can't really remember...
It's sad. It's strange. Maybe you can't read her lips. Maybe her lips are closed. Maybe actions are currently all you can get from her (refers to your last post). And if you've forgotten, why? too many guesses and questions.
Ok, one thread on the internet is not worth to interfer your relation/friendship. But if I were you and if everything were ok, I'd ask my friend, "tell me what you find nice in our relationship. I'm asking this for a survey in Internet regarding Sagittarius's relationship". As mentioned if only I knew it were just a harmless question.click to expand
It's totally opposite to my personality. I haven't ever asked my girlfriend or my friends the opinions about our relationships, because this question isn't even existent in my brain. They may actively tell me how they feel about that, but it doesn't happen often, sometimes it never happens. For example, I do have one sag bff, and we have been in such a good friendship for 5 years.(I'm 22, he is 23, so 5 years are really long for both of us.) In past 5 years, the only thing he said regarding our good friendship is, "You're like my family." That's it, nothing more. It doesn't mean this isn't a good friendship, because the actions have proved it.
If I still ask them this question, the answers which they give me must be really simple like, "hmm...just good!? I don't know what to say...". It sounds like they don't even really take this thing serious or they just can't come up with anything right now. However, when I try to push them, they may seem stressful.
For anything emotional, it seems like my good friends all have tendency of being not expressive. I always wonder where is the problem. Maybe it's either my country's culture, our ages, or just our personalities. Or maybe all of those things should be attributed to my personal issue, it's like how I interact with people is how they interact with me.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
I'm still lurking. Last time I found a few Sags praising their relationships. Today I could find Aries praising their relationships with a Sag. Maybe there's something to learn in this too. (then again why did I cut Ritchie when he was doing this? Maybe maybe maybe because Aries has a similar view as Sag. so what did the Firefox say?)
Posted by Run262
...
Sticking with the Sag boyfriend for now - lots of fun, great conversation and tons of RESPECT for one another.
and
Posted by fieryimpulse
... Sagi. Been married to mine for 10 years in March. Fun. Great sex. Good conversations. Compliment us and match our personality very well. Adventurous and love to go out and experience the world just like Aries. Fiery and passionate. These guys can handle an impetuous, impulsive, fiery Aries woman better than most guys can. Open me up to new places, things, ideas.click to expand
I can definitely see the common places between these two quotes. But I always think that my girlfriend and I don't have really good conversations or lots of fun. Maybe it's just what I think from my deep inside, because I prefer the conversations associated with philosophy, and my sag friends or sag girlfriend seem like they're not interested at all. We do have fun. But I can't say lots of fun. I think why they like sticking with me is because I keep them really grounded, and my loyalty can be seen in my behaviors.
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"I think why they like sticking with me is because I keep them really grounded, and my loyalty can be seen in my behaviors."
well, I'll be lurking in Cancer forum too. We'll see whether this is the most mentioned. Thank you for sharing so far.
well, I'll be lurking in Cancer forum too. We'll see whether this is the most mentioned. Thank you for sharing so far.
Posted by Cilogy
... Initially I disliked the fact that Taureans "possess" their partners, but now I'm kind of liking it. I guess you could say that I used to be the typical "nice guy" and now I'm trying to be a real mature man instead. It could just be my Leo rising, but I kind of like to flaunt my masculinity around her. In a way, I like to remind her that the man she "has" is a great man...
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
I am recently married to a great Cancer guy. I am a very earthy and watery Sag though. My brother is a Sag too and he has been married over 15 years to his Cancer wife. I never knew any Cancer men while I was growing up or dating. My first husband was an emotionally detached Aquarius. I love the difference that a Cancer has. He makes me feel secure and protected. The two main things my cancer mars needs!
(Didn't I say a Sagittarius abroad is like a fish in water?)
Check what Tina Turner says about his now husband. She dated Sag, Cap, Taurus, Scorpio, Leo and Aqua. The best relationship goes to an Aqua. His Chart:
Sun/Mercury Aquarius, Moon Gemini, Venus Pisces, Mars/Saturn/NN Sagittarius, Jupiter/Uranus/Pluto Leo,
It's worth noting that they have Saturn-Sun, Saturn-SN, Jup-AC, Sun-NN, Moon-SN each pair in the same sign.
She says he is much more mature and conservative than me. When I work he comes to me because I cannot come to him. It's a wonderful relationship not like anyone that I have had before. We talk a lot on telephone. He is conservative, I'm youthful, that's a good point to meet.
Check what Tina Turner says about his now husband. She dated Sag, Cap, Taurus, Scorpio, Leo and Aqua. The best relationship goes to an Aqua. His Chart:
Sun/Mercury Aquarius, Moon Gemini, Venus Pisces, Mars/Saturn/NN Sagittarius, Jupiter/Uranus/Pluto Leo,
It's worth noting that they have Saturn-Sun, Saturn-SN, Jup-AC, Sun-NN, Moon-SN each pair in the same sign.
She says he is much more mature and conservative than me. When I work he comes to me because I cannot come to him. It's a wonderful relationship not like anyone that I have had before. We talk a lot on telephone. He is conservative, I'm youthful, that's a good point to meet.
The other day while lurking I found this:
Her Chart:
SAG SUN/MOON/MERC/URANUS + CAP VENUS (H/4) + AQUA MARS (H/4) + CAP JUP (H/4) + SCORPIO SAT + CAP/NEPT + SC/PLUTO + TAURUS/N.N. (H/8) + VIRGO/F + LIBRA/ASC + CANCER/MC + GEM/CHI (H8).
His planet Placements:
Sun/Moon/Mercury/Saturn/Pluto in Scorpio + Venus/Uranus/Neptune in Sag + Mars/Jupiter in Capricorn + Leo/AC
Posted by SagChick411
I am learning/changing/evolving everyday thanks to my Scorp. He doesn't always make sense when he talks, answers a question with a question but he sure is as smart as hell when he talks about an important topic. He's one of the most intelligent people I know and that really turns me on. He's also very open minded and is always willing to look at another point of view (mine) lol.
Her Chart:
SAG SUN/MOON/MERC/URANUS + CAP VENUS (H/4) + AQUA MARS (H/4) + CAP JUP (H/4) + SCORPIO SAT + CAP/NEPT + SC/PLUTO + TAURUS/N.N. (H/8) + VIRGO/F + LIBRA/ASC + CANCER/MC + GEM/CHI (H8).
His planet Placements:
Sun/Moon/Mercury/Saturn/Pluto in Scorpio + Venus/Uranus/Neptune in Sag + Mars/Jupiter in Capricorn + Leo/AC
I forgot to make them bold. Here once again:
Tina Turner, she says he is much more mature and conservative than me... He is conservative, I'm youthful, that's a good point to meet.
Tina Turner, she says he is much more mature and conservative than me... He is conservative, I'm youthful, that's a good point to meet.
still invited to share their love confessions with us.
1. If you are a Sag, why are you staying with your darling?
2. If you are in a partnership with a Sagittarius baby, what compliments does she/he make to you or say to friends about you?
3. If you know a couple with at least one Sagittarius in them, what have you heard or read about that Sag praising her/his babe?
What is the essence of that togethership from the sag's view?
Ok, here is the statistics so far:
Posted by DwellingOnMove on Cc-Leo bf...Posted by DMV on Leo bf...
By lurking:Posted by sweethearts_1969 on Sag bf...Posted by RainDancer88 on Taurus bf...Posted by Cilogy on Taurus gf...Posted by TheLadySagittarius on Cancer husband...Posted by SagChick411 on Scorpio bf (maybe married now)...click to expand
By media: Tina Turner on Aqua husband.
Posted by shorty1978
... he is a wonderful man he treats me very well and treats my kids like they are his own we have a nice family and home... he is a man of honor...
Sag-Leo
Posted by muffdivingvirgo 1/10/2014 7:56:53 AM
... married my sag back in April... She's the free spirit and I'm the nerd of the relationship. We need each other. She brings me up and I bring her down... She's never loved anyone like she loves me. She says I'm the greatest man she's ever met.click to expand
Sag-Virgo
Posted by beautifuldiaster
1. I stay in contact with "my darling" because we both encourage each other's personal spiritual growth.
2. When I dated a sag in my past, he would compliment me, saying things of the like, "I am witness to the happiness you bring to others." That always made me feel like the little things I did actually meant something to someone and that is important. The change I wished to make in others was evident.
3. My bff said her male sag would always listen intently and respond properly on the subject with helpful insight.
4. The essence of "togetherness" ... For me, it is sharing our goals and having the mutual admiration for each other's faults, struggles, strengths and desires. It is a known confidence in each other.
Wow, thanks for sharing. (That compliment was for sure one of the best a Sag would like to hear.)
Look, what I found! Sag analysing her relationship through moon connection:
Posted by lunarloveee
... aquarius moons are very forgiving and treat everybody the same. Me and my bf both have aquarius moon and we have a great relationship. I know for sure if he didn't have aquarius moon things would be very different. Anyways, we're both very quirky and weird to be honest. We love to observe people, usually not in person, but on t.v. Since the moon rules emotions, we have a a love for humanity and people...all different types. We may even neglect our own families and treat our friends as family because we rule "friends". We are rebellious and fun, aloof definitely. Not very romantic, more idealistic and intellectual. Me and my bf have longgg conversations every single day. mostly about astrology.
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-- I 'm thankful that I had him in my life.