Sags, question !!!

Sags, if u come back to someone you had a space from either that will be break up or whatever.. Do you normally do it because you have feelings for them or have you returned to them for a sake of a game and to test the water? mind game or perhaps just to boost your ego? do you also often know what you truly want? And if you do do u have a hard time sticking with it?

Usually I don't come back, because I quickly lose interest, and then it's permanent. But, if there was a good connection between us, and I return, I would do it if I think that it could work this time, if there wasn't some big problem. Although, maybe I would come back if there isn't anybody more interesting at the moment...it all depends on the other things. 🙂

If I come back it's only because i have feelings. I do not like games, or tests, or any other mind fuckery.

I'm seeing mixed messages here.. Sag can see love as a game which is tough isn't it

Posted by Phonixxxxx
Sags, if u come back to someone you had a space from either that will be break up or whatever.. Do you normally do it because you have feelings for them or have you returned to them for a sake of a game and to test the water? mind game or perhaps just to boost your ego? do you also often know what you truly want? And if you do do u have a hard time sticking with it?

It's hard for me to come back as well because I lose interest too. It's just the way some of us are. We don't do the subtle games or "distance makes the heart grow fonder" thing. We are always on the move. I'm dealing with a Cap right now and it's been hard. I broke it off with him, he let me go at the time then reached out 3 times. I want to give it a shot but I already feel my feelings for him dulled. It worries me that some signs like a lot of silent space and I just don't.

Yeah..



I do come back around to certain people but it might not be that way.

Sometimes because people get lonely so you never know... Or maybe I just miss a friend.

I don't believe relations have to end badly though.. And just because we couldn't work out that way, don't mean we can't work out in friendship...

It's mainly out of curiosity. When saggs leave they are gone for good and it's possible that if they did have a thing for you they will come right back.

I had a sagg a long time ago. Had many women with me and he moved on. Two years later he returned crying and begging me to take him back promising to do better. I took him back and he did the same exact thing... Only worse. Saw him again this year. But he staring this ass down is just curiosity kicking in because I ain't falling for that trick again. Plus he had a woman with him. Lol.... Same game different player.

It's mainly out of curiosity. When saggs leave they are gone for good and it's possible that if they did have a thing for you they will come right back.

I had a sagg a long time ago. Had many women with me and he moved on. Two years later he returned crying and begging me to take him back promising to do better. I took him back and he did the same exact thing... Only worse. Saw him again this year. But he staring this ass down is just curiosity kicking in because I ain't falling for that trick again. Plus he had a woman with him. Lol.... Same game different player.

Very interesting read.. yay I think sags come back for ego boost? We broke things off late last year I moved on to a different man, he came back saying he missed me.. now we r kind of off again.. Well last person emailed was him I didn't bother relying to be honest.. he cudnt give me the commitment I need I don't think. He was following me around after that n I just gave him the coldness cold shoulde .. well I was out flirting with another man lol.. didn't mean to play game just wanted to move on truly.. havnt heard from him since just getting myself prepared coz I think he will b back.. for what reason is another story.. ofcoz I love him so I don't wanna fall back into that trap again so I'm just preparing lol

Oh n he has a Venus in Scorpio I don't know if that makes a different

Posted by Shanmack
It's mainly out of curiosity. When saggs leave they are gone for good and it's possible that if they did have a thing for you they will come right back.

I had a sagg a long time ago. Had many women with me and he moved on. Two years later he returned crying and begging me to take him back promising to do better. I took him back and he did the same exact thing... Only worse. Saw him again this year. But he staring this ass down is just curiosity kicking in because I ain't falling for that trick again. Plus he had a woman with him. Lol.... Same game different player.

Curiosity sounds like it. Omg ur story. See how can someone beg and cry and do the same shit over and over again! I dont get them I just don't lol

Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by Phonixxxxx

Posted by Shanmack
It's mainly out of curiosity. When saggs leave they are gone for good and it's possible that if they did have a thing for you they will come right back.

I had a sagg a long time ago. Had many women with me and he moved on. Two years later he returned crying and begging me to take him back promising to do better. I took him back and he did the same exact thing... Only worse. Saw him again this year. But he staring this ass down is just curiosity kicking in because I ain't falling for that trick again. Plus he had a woman with him. Lol.... Same game different player.

Curiosity sounds like it. Omg ur story. See how can someone beg and cry and do the same shit over and over again! I dont get them I just don't lol

I totally understand them... They are over "optimistic" that's their problem... They think that the same women they left will fall for their bs time and time again... And it looks like they may be right!!! Too many dumb women out there!!!

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I fink its more

Like dont know what u got untill it's gone scenario .. n when they got them back.. They again wonder n think the grass again r greener on the other side... it's sad though.. I wudnt wanna be like them.. Again sag men have bad rep for this exact reason. I think mine will finally settle down when his penis no longer work .. Maybe when he's 70 hahhaha

Again,'I don't agree women r dumb.. When love is involved it makes u blind most of the times... Sad but true...

It's hard for us to operate from firm boundaries, Play lots of games and testing out everyone we're attracted to waters. But deep down we have a secret urge to merge with someone just as fun, spontaneous and adventurous as us so coming back from a break can either be because we're really into you and want it to work or it could just be we never established boundaries so wether they come or go it doesnt matter. All of my exes still hit me up because I never said "Hey! Its over, dont call me anymore... It just slowly went to me loosing interest and slowly drifting off. So they radomly hmu thinking they can come back in my life whenever butb I curve them... Whoa, Im just realizing all of this.....

Ok,

we don't come back for "ego boosts" or to "play games. "

If we do its out of genuine curiosity to see if we can work things out. If we discover that the other person hasnt changed...we're right back out and usually for good.