@Sagittarius2315
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Sexual highs and Lows
Sorry meant "Extreme sexual urges."
I'm going to bet it's your Aqua Venus.
The Aries describes this exactly like you do..it made me really worried in the beginning.
Posted by Damnata
I'm going to bet it's your Aqua Venus.The Aries describes this exactly like you do..it made me really worried in the beginning.
Thank you Damnata......it drives me insane at times....lol. I think my BF as well gets worried cause he begins to ask me questions like "Do I still turn you on."
And I tell him yes all the time.
The questions arise when I'm in my sexual lows.
Yes, not going to lie, it threw me off track.
He was dead honest about it and I trust him. I don't know how this thing flows though..it certainly made me calm down a little.
Posted by Damnata
Yes, not going to lie, it threw me off track.He was dead honest about it and I trust him. I don't know how this thing flows though..it certainly made me calm down a little.
I've also noticed that my highs are during a new moon. Have you noticed the same in him?
Yes. And I have a venus in aqua too haha
Posted by Sag89
Yes. And I have a venus in aqua too haha
Lol.....I wonder what causes this? I also wonder if other Sun signs with Venus in Aqua have the same problem. Then good thing is that, it's not that something is wrong....lol.
However, my BF is a Cap and his Venus is in Aqua as well, and he's always on....lol. He doesn't go through lows. Which makes me wonder why not?
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Posted by Sag89
Yes. And I have a venus in aqua too haha
Lol.....I wonder what causes this? I also wonder if other Sun signs with Venus in Aqua have the same problem. Then good thing is that, it's not that something is wrong....lol.
However, my BF is a Cap and his Venus is in Aqua as well, and he's always on....lol. He doesn't go through lows. Which makes me wonder why not?
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Hmm yea who knows. It can hard sometimes, I have it really high normally (mars in scorp ) but than I'd go through a month where I just didn't want to have sex or be touched. If I was with a boyfriend it'd be a problem sometimes. lol it's weird.
i have sex about once day. on a awesome day, 3 times a day. right before my period, i am a beast. i will take from anyone.
i dont have an aqua venus
Posted by DMV
i have sex about once day. on a awesome day, 3 times a day. right before my period, i am a beast. i will take from anyone.
I've noticed this as well; before my mentral , I'm in it to win it. It's almost like an addiction.
Posted by Sagittarius2315
Posted by DMV
i have sex about once day. on a awesome day, 3 times a day. right before my period, i am a beast. i will take from anyone.
I've noticed this as well; before my mentral , I'm in it to win it. It's almost like an addiction.
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yes lol
Posted by feby16aqua
Posted by DMV
i dont have an aqua venus
Where is your venus? Gather around everyone for the greatest venus of ALL times!!!!!!!
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bwhahahaha venus in goat (greatest of all time)
Posted by Sagittarius2315
Posted by Damnata
Yes, not going to lie, it threw me off track.He was dead honest about it and I trust him. I don't know how this thing flows though..it certainly made me calm down a little.
I've also noticed that my highs are during a new moon. Have you noticed the same in him?
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No, I thought the moon mostly affects females because of the menstrual cycle. Hopefully he won't turn into a female any time soon lol.
I'll look into it though.
Posted by Sag89
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Posted by Sag89
Yes. And I have a venus in aqua too haha
Lol.....I wonder what causes this? I also wonder if other Sun signs with Venus in Aqua have the same problem. Then good thing is that, it's not that something is wrong....lol.
However, my BF is a Cap and his Venus is in Aqua as well, and he's always on....lol. He doesn't go through lows. Which makes me wonder why not?
Hmm yea who knows. It can hard sometimes, I have it really high normally (mars in scorp ) but than I'd go through a month where I just didn't want to have sex or be touched. If I was with a boyfriend it'd be a problem sometimes. lol it's weird.
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Mars in Scorp here. I can go for months without wanting sex and then for three months it's like I can't get it off my mind lol. I think Mars has more to do with your sex drive than Venus.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
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Posted by Sag89
Yes. And I have a venus in aqua too haha
Lol.....I wonder what causes this? I also wonder if other Sun signs with Venus in Aqua have the same problem. Then good thing is that, it's not that something is wrong....lol.
However, my BF is a Cap and his Venus is in Aqua as well, and he's always on....lol. He doesn't go through lows. Which makes me wonder why not?
Cap sun/Aqua Venus here.
I'd rather have sex than just about anything else on the planet. Put two options in front of me and i will choose sex 9.5 outta 10 times. If i'm on the fence, let's make out and it'll be on.
If I don't wanna have sex, something's wrong with me.
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+ a gazillion lol
Posted by beautifulsoul74
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Yes. And I have a venus in aqua too haha
Lol.....I wonder what causes this? I also wonder if other Sun signs with Venus in Aqua have the same problem. Then good thing is that, it's not that something is wrong....lol.
However, my BF is a Cap and his Venus is in Aqua as well, and he's always on....lol. He doesn't go through lows. Which makes me wonder why not?
Hmm yea who knows. It can hard sometimes, I have it really high normally (mars in scorp ) but than I'd go through a month where I just didn't want to have sex or be touched. If I was with a boyfriend it'd be a problem sometimes. lol it's weird.
Mars in Scorp here. I can go for months without wanting sex and then for three months it's like I can't get it off my mind lol. I think Mars has more to do with your sex drive than Venus.
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So then what does that say about Mars in Aqua?
This week in the beginning I was high; now towards the end in going through a low. Cappy, is a hundred percent in it to win it....lol. He always has a way of talking me in to it.
No complaints though. Rather he want it all the time, then him not wanting it at all. Cause I know something is definitely wrong.
Me I just wish at times I wasn't going through lows; cause it does make it weird. When he wants it and I don't. I mean mentally I do, but my body just says no....lol.
What other aspects can affect sexual drive?
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No his Mars is also in Aqua....lol. I'm not gonna lie he's a freak; which I love cause I'm the same way.
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Posted by Sag89
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Posted by Sag89
Yes. And I have a venus in aqua too haha
Lol.....I wonder what causes this? I also wonder if other Sun signs with Venus in Aqua have the same problem. Then good thing is that, it's not that something is wrong....lol.
However, my BF is a Cap and his Venus is in Aqua as well, and he's always on....lol. He doesn't go through lows. Which makes me wonder why not?
Hmm yea who knows. It can hard sometimes, I have it really high normally (mars in scorp ) but than I'd go through a month where I just didn't want to have sex or be touched. If I was with a boyfriend it'd be a problem sometimes. lol it's weird.
Mars in Scorp here. I can go for months without wanting sex and then for three months it's like I can't get it off my mind lol. I think Mars has more to do with your sex drive than Venus.
So then what does that say about Mars in Aqua?
This week in the beginning I was high; now towards the end in going through a low. Cappy, is a hundred percent in it to win it....lol. He always has a way of talking me in to it.
No complaints though. Rather he want it all the time, then him not wanting it at all. Cause I know something is definitely wrong.
Me I just wish at times I wasn't going through lows; cause it does make it weird. When he wants it and I don't. I mean mentally I do, but my body just says no....lol.
What other aspects can affect sexual drive?
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Mars in Aqua? You approach sex like an Aquarius...full on and then detached or back off. Other factors, stress(emotional, otherwise) or you're simply fatigued
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Thanks,
His Mars is also in Aqua and frankly he's never detached, or tired. His sex drive is definitely higher then mine, at times.
Maybe other factors are in affect. I know I do get very tired after my friend of the month. So that could also be the case.
Thanks for explaining that bit sir
my mars is in libra and my venus is in scorpio and i must have sex all the time and nothing stops me, not even something as minuscule as a cycle.
i have no sexual lows. only lows from no sex.
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This is funny is be writing this. But do any Sagges go through this. Extremely sexual urges, for example. You want it more then two times a day?
And then you go through a low, meaning you don't want to be touched?
This has been happening to me. I've been noticing it. Right now I'm peeking; and it's driving me crazy!