Since we got sag beating season

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Posted by Wynter

... married some blood sucking Scorpio ... Ugh.

Yeah thats probably the only thing about sag thats sad. They often settle for oppressive partners because of the stability
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I'd say it would be the influence of some 12th house (self-dissipation) issues. Of course idealism of a Sag can mislead him/her to such decisions. but for how long?

I gave time a Scorpio only because we have both Moon in Pisces. Yet I saw first hand that he could never be a friend of my freedom loving soul. So I did not beg stability from him. We did not build a pair. I only invest-wast time on telling him about his personality and how he could find love and stability. To me he does not show thankfulness and if he went and applied the knowledge. To me he said he does not believe in Astrology.
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Posted by Wynter

I hate that my best pot-smoking, beer drinking, concert going, partying Sagi friend the best in the whole wide world married some blood sucking Scorpio and is now boring Suzy Homemaker with children. Ugh.

Yeah thats probably the only thing about sag thats sad. They often settle for oppressive partners because of the stability
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Sag are pretty traditional underneath, we want stability and responsibility. If we are oppressed, it won't work, we need freedom.

But we go with the flow as well, that's why we can get wild with other people. We are always up for a fun time.
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Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by Wynter

I hate that my best pot-smoking, beer drinking, concert going, partying Sagi friend the best in the whole wide world married some blood sucking Scorpio and is now boring Suzy Homemaker with children. Ugh.

Yeah thats probably the only thing about sag thats sad. They often settle for oppressive partners because of the stability

Sag are pretty traditional underneath, we want stability and responsibility. If we are oppressed, it won't work, we need freedom.

But we go with the flow as well, that's why we can get wild with other people. We are always up for a fun time.
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Exactly.
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I hate word ‘hate’ being used so loosely. Just saying.

What about Sags - I am irritated by their inability to think logically and except the fact that somebody else might see things in a different way and ITS OKEY!!!

They can’t be wrong even if they ARE...flat out.

That goes both for men and women.

I did however enjoyed my uncle’s boldness and humor while he was alive and I know everyone who ever knew him will never recovered from our loss.

He once fucked up and told me that the worse part of it was that even HE couldn’t say it wasn’t his fault and it was the worse time of his life...🤷‍♀️😂
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I don’t hate them but I do find some dumb and unstable. They end up with people that use them or abuse them. They don’t stand up for themselves enough, directly. They aren’t the clearest thinkers either. Their bluntness isn’t harmful because it’s often something far off. The jolly exterior is a facade.

But... they are mutable so they learn to rise above a situation. And play dumb. No one will argue with you if you just play dumb. Good defense mechanism imo.
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Yess to the lie as they breath part 🤣 The men and women both. The men are little heartbreakers who will prob only settle when they’re old with a cane and can’t keep up anymore lol

I also always find out that I’m not as special as they made me out to be. For example thinking I’m their bestie and the only one who knows a big secret, then come to find out they confided in other people too lol. Or that I’m their girl, then come to find out they’re entertaining other people.

Their loyalties lie with themselves. But whatever. They’re always fun, but I trust them as far as I can throw them.
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Posted by black773

I don’t hate them but I do find some dumb and unstable. They end up with people that use them or abuse them. They don’t stand up for themselves enough, directly. They aren’t the clearest thinkers either. Their bluntness isn’t harmful because it’s often something far off. The jolly exterior is a facade.

But... they are mutable so they learn to rise above a situation. And play dumb. No one will argue with you if you just play dumb. Good defense mechanism imo.


I’ve noticed this as well. The jolly exterior is a facade and they are prone to find themselves caught in a “bad romance”. To get their heart, ignore them and treat them like dirt. They don’t respect you when you’re too nice. And it’s tiring.
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Scorpio here. I only dated one in my late teens so I'm not going to run my mouth like I know-all about sags. And no I dont hate. I just didn't understand his behavior nor wanted to be around it anymore.

There were many red flags. He was a liar and a bad one. Lied about the smallest things. He was jolly until he didn't get his way, then he would throw fits and threaten to harm people. He loved freedom as long as it was his but didn't understand that others had a right to theirs too.

He acted like it was a problem me not wanting to spend every waking second with him. When he felt slighted, instead of talking, he would be in other women's faces to try to teach me a lesson. Yet when he knew he was getting kicked to the curb, he'd come back and beg forgiveness. I stupidly took him back twice. I was younger, 18, he was older, 28. Guess he thought he could dominate me or boss me around because of age. Even his friends asked why I was with him. I tried to see the good in him until I realized there was none. His own mother didn't want to be bothered with him.

Third strike, I let him go. Refused to take his calls, refused to be anywhere I know he'd be. Stalking attempts, trying to send his friends to track me, calling my friends to get my info didn't work. I cut that thing loose. Never dated another one after that. Seems like he had more love and adoration for himself and I was just a challenge to conquer. He didn't like me having my own mind and voice.

I dont hate. I saw the lesson in this which was not everyone deserved time of day and stay away from unstable self serving mfs. I thank him for screwing up, though. Never would have met my husband if he didn't.