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Finallyfree
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9 Years

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Kind of a funny way this all came about.

I have known this sag guy for many years, he was best friends with my now ex husband. My ex and I split (he did some pretty awful things) and I was the one wounded up keeping most of our mutual friends in the divorce simply because of what he turned into and did. Anyhow.....I moved back to my home country and that is where his ex best friend lives also and we had been talking and he was my rock through the whole split. We started hanging out a lot and I started developing feelings after awhile, but he always had an aversion to relationships so things were casual between us for almost a year. Then I decided to give up any ideas of being with him romantically and just be friends, that has gone well for the past 6 months, At new years I met someone and went out with him a few times and my "friend" knew all about it, we have never kept secrets. I knew the Sag guy was attracted physically as he had told me several times, but also said he did not want to be involved with anyone.

Last week I invited him to a show this weekend and he said sure and we went out, he had been cryptic all week (He had wanted to come over during the week but I kept putting him off) saying things like :Things are really going to change for you this weekend" "I see you living your life and doing more after this weekend" so I asked him what he meant and why this weekend was going to be the catalyst to these changes....all he said is "You will see". Fast forward to last night, we went out to the show and when we got back he sat me down and said " I like you, a lot" so I smiled and said "I like you a lot too" then there was silence for about 10 minutes and he looked at me and said "I think I want you to be mine" So I asked him....why such a change in your attitude towards that....he said, the more time we spend together, the more he wants to spend, he loves spending time with me and he said I make him laugh all the time.

I guess my question is.....if you have someone so against relationships do a complete 180 with no real trigger you can see that caused this shift, is this a normal thing for a sag guy...to go for a long period of time (over a year) to decide he wants someone?