So how do you know the Sag will stay?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by ZombieCat on Tuesday, March 18, 2014 and has 11 replies.

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@ZombieCat
15 YearsScorpio

At first they're all over you then after hanging out a few times suddenly you don't exist.
Is that how it is with Sag males?
Because I'm new to them.

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@ZombieCat
15 YearsScorpio

Nooo. Although I do make jokes when apparently he's looking for sympathy in some situation..
We did it for the first time a week ago and he just stopped communicating for a bit.
He texted me last night though.. midnight as usual.
I wish I could tell if he was serious but I guess it's probably obvious he isn't.

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@ZombieCat
15 YearsScorpio

I feel guilty. He texted me about not being about to sleep and I joked about it.
Not sure if I should apologize.
I asked him to hang out today.
I suppose I'll wait til he answers. He's not good about replying during the day.
I wonder where he goes where phones don't exist.

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@beautifulsoul74
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I see. He may not be really sensitive, but it probably bothers him when you do joke and he's being serious. This where Scorps and Leos being opposites plays out. Your Leo moon should aid you in understanding. Don't feel guilty though as he's probably shrugged it off by now. But its probably a good idea to apologize. Change your behavior and he will notice and appreciate it. This will draw you closer. When you do see or talk to him, let him know then that you understand where he's coming from and that you'll be more careful of his feelings.

Why he's disappeared? I wouldn't be too concerned as he's probably buried in trying to accomplish a task. He expects you to trust him and have faith that he still wants to be with you. With both of you having the same moon, its a good thing but it has its pitfalls as well. You'll exhibit the same behavior in a lot of ways. If you know that the behavior isn't above board, the other will sense it and it will cause a disturbance. He'll contact you pretty soon.

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@ZombieCat
15 YearsScorpio

Thank you..
That was wonderful 🙂
I always need a sense of direction from others when I'm lost.

My friend actually says to ignore him til he asks what's wrong, but I would never. I'd feel so awful afterwards.