leeberated
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"take it slow" confusion
Lol. Libras are so cardinal i cant stand it.
Too soo to tell. Let him enjoy his vacation. When he comes back, wait for him to contact. If he doesnt, text him asking about his vacay, do not mention anything else. Wait for him to make a move.
Long distance is not ideal for saggis tho
Too soo to tell. Let him enjoy his vacation. When he comes back, wait for him to contact. If he doesnt, text him asking about his vacay, do not mention anything else. Wait for him to make a move.
Long distance is not ideal for saggis tho
Posted by DMVOh gosh, well I irk myself sometimes. C'est la vie haha.
Lol. Libras are so cardinal i cant stand it.
Too soo to tell. Let him enjoy his vacation. When he comes back, wait for him to contact. If he doesnt, text him asking about his vacay, do not mention anything else. Wait for him to make a move.
Long distance is not ideal for saggis tho
So I shouldn't text him anymore during his vacay then? I haven't been blowing up his phone, just to say good night. He initiated once but to complain about how I ruined a shirt he had with my makeup -_- not necessarily a happy text.
I don't like long distance either, but the nature of my work would allow me to move to New York. I'm not quite sure if he's aware of that or not.
Posted by PlaguedWell he doesn't seem the type to just sleep around. He hasn't been intimate this year at all according to him...And why bother trying to be a "good boy" if that's all it was, you know...
He'll be fuckin someone before lights come out.
You were too flakey on him and wonder why he's becoming the same. Off on his sail boat
This match is a no go anyway. All 3 of the sag men I slept with had girlfriends at the time, just hid em, another reason this energy is distasteful for anything serious and not following through is distasteful on your scale-end.
Yes I know I was flakey but dag, can't people redeem themselves.
I've had good, loyal, consistent Sags and bad, disloyal, no good Sags so can't say they it would automatically be a no-go with all of them. Sorry you had bad experiences though, that sucks~
Posted by leeberatedDamn gurl. Fall back. Let him miss youPosted by DMVOh gosh, well I irk myself sometimes. C'est la vie haha.
Lol. Libras are so cardinal i cant stand it.
Too soo to tell. Let him enjoy his vacation. When he comes back, wait for him to contact. If he doesnt, text him asking about his vacay, do not mention anything else. Wait for him to make a move.
Long distance is not ideal for saggis tho
So I shouldn't text him anymore during his vacay then? I haven't been blowing up his phone, just to say good night. He initiated once but to complain about how I ruined a shirt he had with my makeup -_- not necessarily a happy text.
I don't like long distance either, but the nature of my work would allow me to move to New York. I'm not quite sure if he's aware of that or not.click to expand
Aight, got it...needed that @_@
The first time you met him you acted like a flake. You are the confusing one. No, yes, no, yes, no....
You acted like a "fake" good girl. You said no. He respected that. Then you started to try. Geesh! You are either a good girl or you're not. See how that is so inconsistent and flaky? What is he supposed to think? What would you think about someone who said they were one thing, then acted the complete opposite?
No, I'm not a sag, but I do know Sags aren't stupid. They read between the lines very easily
You acted like a "fake" good girl. You said no. He respected that. Then you started to try. Geesh! You are either a good girl or you're not. See how that is so inconsistent and flaky? What is he supposed to think? What would you think about someone who said they were one thing, then acted the complete opposite?
No, I'm not a sag, but I do know Sags aren't stupid. They read between the lines very easily
Posted by truecap
The first time you met him you acted like a flake. You are the confusing one. No, yes, no, yes, no....
You acted like a "fake" good girl. You said no. He respected that. Then you started to try. Geesh! You are either a good girl or you're not. See how that is so inconsistent and flaky? What is he supposed to think? What would you think about someone who said they were one thing, then acted the complete opposite?
No, I'm not a sag, but I do know Sags aren't stupid. They read between the lines very easily
A fake good girl, yikes. It does sound bad, but in the moment we both seemed to be having fun with it. He didn't seem seriously annoyed. He was also going back and forth, but good point. I plan to follow his "good boy" lead
Posted by strawberrykushThanks ? Basically I need a hobby pffft
"""I was fine with this. except the text the next day he said he was headed to new york and would be there for more than a week because there was "nothing to do." a slap in the face as obviously we could be hanging out duh! """
There is no need to be offended by this. Just because he told you he had nothing to do, that doesn't mean literally that. If he's moving there soon, maybe he wanted to get a break and benefit from looking at the area so he can get a feel of the town. I wouldn't take it too personal. Also the reason why he isnt talking as much maybe he's been busy.
It seems like he likes you and yes, he probably wants to take it slow...if you like him just be patient and when he has more time you guys can talk.
OP, what are your other planets? like moon or mars
'Then when he made a joke that hit me deep I kinda
pulled back from him (I'm a Libra...'
What was the joke, and why doesn't it bother you now?
pulled back from him (I'm a Libra...'
What was the joke, and why doesn't it bother you now?
Posted by Pandora101Apparently a Cancer ascendant and then the below...ut oh, what's the diagnosis
OP, what are your other planets? like moon or mars
Sun Libra
Moon Gemini
Mercury Libra
Venus Leo
Mars Libra
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
We're both from other countries but I'm half American and was Americanized really young, so he joked about my Americanization.
Well time has passed. I had to rem that Sags will just say whatever's on their mind sometimes bluntly but dsnt mean they purposefully mean to hurt you I guess (loveable buttholes). Also it's not like he teased me every day about anything.
Well time has passed. I had to rem that Sags will just say whatever's on their mind sometimes bluntly but dsnt mean they purposefully mean to hurt you I guess (loveable buttholes). Also it's not like he teased me every day about anything.
Posted by Redoctober2000Here we go... LolPosted by truecapThat's a libra alright!! Glad my mantra "Libra: fake Flakes of the zodiac".. Is alive and kicking in true libra form!!!
The first time you met him you acted like a flake. You are the confusing one. No, yes, no, yes, no....
You acted like a "fake" good girl. You said no. He respected that. Then you started to try. Geesh! You are either a good girl or you're not. See how that is so inconsistent and flaky? What is he supposed to think? What would you think about someone who said they were one thing, then acted the complete opposite?
No, I'm not a sag, but I do know Sags aren't stupid. They read between the lines very easily
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He's unsure about you.
I'm going to be honest. First, if you were offended by what he said, why not address it with him? Instead, you pull back and expected him to just figure it out instead of addressing it here on. He picked up on this and you come across as reliable. Thats a red flag.
I'm sorry but I pretty much concur with TrueCap. If you actually want him, be consistent and he'll follow suit.
I'm going to be honest. First, if you were offended by what he said, why not address it with him? Instead, you pull back and expected him to just figure it out instead of addressing it here on. He picked up on this and you come across as reliable. Thats a red flag.
I'm sorry but I pretty much concur with TrueCap. If you actually want him, be consistent and he'll follow suit.
What @DMV said. Let him miss you cause right now he doesn't seem too interested in you.
Yeap, well @SofiaV87 you were right as we won't be pursuing anything. I did ask him to "keep it 100" and he said he'll be nipping it in the bud but that "I'm cool though" HA! Well, lessons learned. Not much more to say to that. I do wish he could have been more upfront when he realized instead of making it as if we had a future, and having to "pull it out" of him so-to-speak when his actions were suspect, but c'est la vie. Will surely be working on my consistency issues though...
Good to know, most def. I did try to redeem myself but too little too late I suppose!
Posted by leeberatedHe was all talking & flirting. He did you a favor. Next lol
Yeap, well @SofiaV87 you were right as we won't be pursuing anything. I did ask him to "keep it 100" and he said he'll be nipping it in the bud but that "I'm cool though" HA! Well, lessons learned. Not much more to say to that. I do wish he could have been more upfront when he realized instead of making it as if we had a future, and having to "pull it out" of him so-to-speak when his actions were suspect, but c'est la vie. Will surely be working on my consistency issues though...
Pretty much right!? LOL. Flirting can be fun but I've never led someone to think we were going to be dating. But anyway, lol.
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