i'm an aqua girl with lots of sag friends who i LOVE so i'm hoping this new crush is blessed by the stars 'cause my luck up till now has been a hot mess. i'll keep it short: he's my professor (OOOOHHHHH!!!!), i'm 26 (27 next month, of course), he's 39, he's hot hot hot & way too smart for words. he totally flirts then runs away then flirts and so on-my department has a commons room for the majors, i'm always there studying like a super nerd...the office happens to be right next to his office (natch) and every time he walks by he looks in and we lock eyes and i fall apart a little. he's like a little kid. a hot, slightly older little kid with a phd. he makes me feel like i'm 12. eeesh. i'm guessing the fact that i'm a student has something to do with him pulling away every so often BUT i hear he's a dirty old man and has totally dated former students in the past. AWESOME. but here's the deal, i have a lot of respect for this man and interest in him. i'd like to venture into like, a real relationship, not just some hot one time thing or situation where we screw a lot but never really get to know each other. i'm one of those hopeless aqua girls, i don't want to just be with someone, i want to BE with someone, hardcore, or it's not worth the effort and i'd rather just hang out by myself. SOOOOOOO, what do i do? i'm getting conflicting advice from all directions. some folks say "don't to it AT ALL 'cause he's your professor". i hear that but...i prolly won't listen. i'd like to let him make the first move 'cause in the past, i've always pounced too fast or too soon and things go sour, i'm thinking that if i let him come to me that'd be better but a lot of people are saying that i HAVE to make the first move because he'd look like a letch if he did it. i feel like if he weren't my professor, i'd just seduce the hell out of him in a second but this dynamic makes things all weird. and like i said, i don't wanna just get laid. i wanna stay up late talking nerd stuff and go for walks in the park (queue the smoke machine and sunset backdrop!) i dunno. i'm kinda perplexed. so far, i'm pretty sure i aced his class which is awesome, i don't want him to think i wanna bone him for good grades. so...i dunno. i know tons of sag people but i've never tried to get one in bed and i've never done the whole business-pleasure mingle either. but he's so dreamy...and such a flirt. he blushes and it kills me. ugh...anyway, any advice would be appreciated.
