wait or not?

ok so im writing this one not because i am becoming impatient. i have alot to do during the day and its more off a "let see how outsiders think of this" always refreshing.

its been a week since sag suggested we should have drink very soon. now keep in my mind we work at the same company daily however not on the same floor.

but we were both a bit hyper during our last convo haha and someone interrupted our awesome talk and we ended with me walking away, him telling me good evening and me wishng him the samen. and when i got home it hit me we didnt set a date nor exchanged phone numbers. not very smart but however its not a thing that bothers me. its more that i could use the opinion of the sag men here: 1. if you suggest the first time you see a lady you like to have a drink very soon, would you like to be the one planning it and that you will approach her when the time is there. or would it be ok and not seem desperate if the lady would contact you first after that?? and how about if you dont get to ask her number? is that something you would forget and then not go back because perhaps you are really to busy?

i dont wanna make the first contact about the "gettin a drink" cause i dont wanna come off pushy. i am still a woman and he a man no matter he is a sag and would like strong women! i am never the person to chase a guy around hahahaha

just ask him. he will be delighted.

Hmmm I think ive used the term unintentionally oblivious before.. sometimes if you don't remind they
will never remember.

Posted by RainDancer
And for some reason, sags are super conventional... In matters of traditional values and roles.

If your the woman, let him take reigns and be the man.

Good luck!!!!

I could possibly see this. Hey, are your PMs turned off?

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Posted by silly1
ok so im writing this one not because i am becoming impatient. i have alot to do during the day and its more off a "let see how outsiders think of this" always refreshing.

its been a week since sag suggested we should have drink very soon. now keep in my mind we work at the same company daily however not on the same floor.

but we were both a bit hyper during our last convo haha and someone interrupted our awesome talk and we ended with me walking away, him telling me good evening and me wishng him the samen. and when i got home it hit me we didnt set a date nor exchanged phone numbers. not very smart but however its not a thing that bothers me. its more that i could use the opinion of the sag men here: 1. if you suggest the first time you see a lady you like to have a drink very soon, would you like to be the one planning it and that you will approach her when the time is there. or would it be ok and not seem desperate if the lady would contact you first after that?? and how about if you dont get to ask her number? is that something you would forget and then not go back because perhaps you are really to busy?

i dont wanna make the first contact about the "gettin a drink" cause i dont wanna come off pushy. i am still a woman and he a man no matter he is a sag and would like strong women! i am never the person to chase a guy around hahahaha

If pursuing a man is not in your nature, then do not start changing now.. Never chase a guy!

Sags don't mind being perused to a degree, they are very liberal and typical metrosexuals. But they are masculine men and should therefore hunt. I suggest you wait it out. If the sag wants you he will find you. Patience is a virtue.

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oh wow i am loving your advice!!! from all of you!! yesssss yessss and he is a verrry masculine man! he used to hunt me down when i was 16 hahahaha exactly! i really dont believe in chasing any man! haha its just not in me. i believe if someone loves you or even just likes you they will come. of course i am no chicken. if there is a legit reason i can go talk to someone then why not. but to chase no. be free and let people be free. whats meant to be will come. in the mean time i am busy with my life lol thanks for your advice. i actually have close contact with a relative of him too. thats not because of him though. we have been friends for a while haha and i can tell they talk about me but possitive . i will wait it out, well not wait 😄 i have a life. but i made the first subtle move. he suggested to have a drink soon. i leave the next move to him. hahahaha i am a weird cancer. i actually love this. i am off the traditional courting, love it yet i am passionate and not whiny HAHAHA i hate clingy peopl

Posted by dontgetmewrong
You don't need to "chase" OP..sag men are men, they will go after what they want. Just show some interest/reciprocation though, that is all they need.

Really though, they are manly men but...if you don't show any love back, they will leave. Real talk.

thanks yeaaa hahaha i think i did that without really having the intention to do so haha and i found out ... he remembers a certain specific food i made ages ago and he loved it. it was the first thing he said .. men and food well me too though not just men.

it was funny it was like he always wanted to say to me just how much he enjoyed that meal, but never had the change, untill now . when he does come with a day/dat for that drink together imma make that dish :p lol

and for some reason i have the feeling he is gonna invite me to his birthday celebration. lol

Posted by Weeds
Hmmm I think ive used the term unintentionally oblivious before.. sometimes if you don't remind they
will never remember.

hahaha true true, but i reminded him haha 😉

Posted by RainDancer

Posted by Weeds
Hmmm I think ive used the term unintentionally oblivious before.. sometimes if you don't remind they
will never remember.

That is brilliant.


I'd throw out bait and let him take the hook. Sags don't mind chasing -like at all lol. It's fun and exciting.

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hahaha when i was young i said i hated him chasing me, but actually he made me feel like a princess he wanted to whoo hahahaha love it!!! but i think that off his example i set the bar so high. i was looking for his way of making an effort for me in the men i fell in love with. well...........an aquarius and scorpio......the scorpio , loyal though, but lazy yet possesive ...noooooooooot great and no fun. too serious . so dramatic

Posted by RainDancer
And for some reason, sags are super conventional... In matters of traditional values and roles.

If your the woman, let him take reigns and be the man.

Good luck!!!!

yesss hahahahaa and we grew up together in church. and we both value roles and certain "what not do" like i love that he invited me to have a drink. and its his birthday soon so my guess is then this way there will be more people and not alone in one room for the first time. i know he is a gentleman but you see that playfull sexyyyyyyyyyyy man behind those eyes hahaha he just brings out a weird mix of goofyness/schoolgirl/innocent yet naughty/playfull "lets do crazy fun stuff together" out in me. maybe because he knew me when i was little.