What Are Boundaries Anyway? *Vent*

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Everyone seems to have different ones. Is there really a right or wrong about this? Is there a " Normal "?

I'll start with the Pisces Virgo friend.

* The day the pisces and I become official he added me on social media and was out with my pisces took a video of him playing ski ball and slid into my dm's saying " your boy is on a roll " ( which I found weird as fuck ) since that day constantly stalks my social media. I've only met him twice.

Went into the pisces work to drop him off some food. He was working with the virgo that day. I walk in the virgo says

" oh shit it's you, how are you? how you been? " The pisces says lets go outside to talk.

Later that night I'm at the Pisces he says the Virgo wanted to come home with us and watch us have sex. "He senses the connection between us." " He's just joking around in a way though I guess but me and you are hot together" WTF why would you tell me that even if it was a joke??

Pisces goes out of town the virgo and I watch his dog. We message randomly here and there but just about the dog. One day he goes over there and ends up in the pisces room and texts the pisces to say " Your room smells like sex " than the pisces proceeds to texts me telling he said that. Again WTF—



The Leo

* Apparently met some women and she is living with him. He informed yesterday he brought her home with him for Christmas. STILL HAS BEEN MESSAGING ME EVERY SINGLE DAY SINCE HE'S MET HER. Referrers to her as " The girl "

He knows I have a boyfriend and says he's happy for me. So why are we still talking? The pisces informed he doesn't think it's healthy and people shouldn't be close with their ex's like that.



Some people will tell you that people who aren't friends with their ex's are people who have never had intimate relationships and who they were with were just activity buddies that they had sex with. That's why it's so easy for them to break off from them.



You what to know what I think? People are garbage. No matter how I try to understand them you can't because every person is totally different than the last yet exactly the same.

Death will be the only time your alone and free.

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Aye, most people are simply shit. It really is often as simple as that.


Meaning?


"You what to know what I think? People are garbage. No matter how I try to understand them you can't because every person is totally different than the last yet exactly the same."

I'm simple afirming that notion.

The comment from the dude who said the bed smelled of sex to your SO seems like he wanted to trigger something or sabotage the relationship between you. The rest of what you described is equally bizzare.

You can spend much time trying to figure out what is going on or try to understand them and learn little as most people are often very simple.
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I agree. But simple in what way? Like what's simple about this?
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Posted by Antiochus

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Aye, most people are simply shit. It really is often as simple as that.


Meaning?


"You what to know what I think? People are garbage. No matter how I try to understand them you can't because every person is totally different than the last yet exactly the same."

I'm simple afirming that notion.

The comment from the dude who said the bed smelled of sex to your SO seems like he wanted to trigger something or sabotage the relationship between you. The rest of what you described is equally bizzare.

You can spend much time trying to figure out what is going on or try to understand them and learn little as most people are often very simple.


I agree. But simple in what way? Like what's simple about this?


Probably envy for the sex room guy, hurt ego/pride for the Leo.

The base motivation tends to be very simple but the expression of it or mental construction of logic and emotions that follows this motivation can be quite complicated.
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True. I see your point. The Leo messaged me saying that he doesn't think it's serious with the girl. Great now it all makes sense. What a lost soul, yet I understand.
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Posted by RooSagicorn

Seems a Leo thing.. but he still messages you everyday?

Virgo -ewwww and well I guess it depends how on the relationship about whether you are still texting other guys. If it was serious and the most important thing, others would be gone. But perhaps if the Leo’s friendship is more important.. it gets complicated.

My ex husband is still worried about the Leo in my life! We’ve been divorced 6 years. Wtf ironically he’s the one who won out & the Leo got burned all those years ago 😂😂 I had no contact until after the divorce. Maybe he should’ve taken care of the marriage?? Weird how things go & what people are concerned about.


Yeah I've come to the conclusion the Leo is incapable of change. I always knew that but the sag optimism gets me every now and then. Like wow okay.

The Leo in your life? What about him? He was a passed boyfriend?

And what about the virgo? Your saying he's gross haha yeah idk what's going on there. Yes me and the pisces gotta decided what level we are on
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Seems a Leo thing.. but he still messages you everyday?

Virgo -ewwww and well I guess it depends how on the relationship about whether you are still texting other guys. If it was serious and the most important thing, others would be gone. But perhaps if the Leo’s friendship is more important.. it gets complicated.

My ex husband is still worried about the Leo in my life! We’ve been divorced 6 years. Wtf ironically he’s the one who won out & the Leo got burned all those years ago 😂😂 I had no contact until after the divorce. Maybe he should’ve taken care of the marriage?? Weird how things go & what people are concerned about.


Yeah I've come to the conclusion the Leo is incapable of change. I always knew that but the sag optimism gets me every now and then. Like wow okay.

The Leo in your life? What about him? He was a passed boyfriend?

And what about the virgo? Your saying he's gross haha yeah idk what's going on there. Yes me and the pisces gotta decided what level we are on


Lol I’ve known him for 30 years. He was crazy about me back then but we were friends & age difference and where we were in life was an issue. He “accidentally” introduced me to my ex husband. We hung out in same circles back then. My ex always jokingly called him my bf even when I hadn’t seen or talked to him in years. But Leo came after me when he found out I was divorced. Said I dated my ex once & was gone for 20 years. Lol it was true.., anyway there were obstacles, but he still calls me 4 years later never goes longer than a month.. still hopes for someday lol. Regardless he’s a great friend and one of those people you need in your corner so we are still in touch.
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Damn! Sounds like a true Leo lol
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Posted by Ellygant

Mutable problems.

Pisces and Virgos dynamic sounds creepy. I’d not be around them both if they got rowdy or drunk. Or maybe I’m just watching too much law and order svu lol. That sounds way off, both of em still. At the very least, Virgo sounds jealous and Pisces doesn’t seem to notice or think it important.

You sound like you’re maybe still in love with the Leo? Not to be presumptuous. But seems like there’s some serious affection still there.


That was really perceptive! Haha thanks. I agree with your view. Yes the Leo. I do love him and I probably always will. I believe we are karmic soul mates. But we will never be together I don't think.
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Seems a Leo thing.. but he still messages you everyday?

Virgo -ewwww and well I guess it depends how on the relationship about whether you are still texting other guys. If it was serious and the most important thing, others would be gone. But perhaps if the Leo’s friendship is more important.. it gets complicated.

My ex husband is still worried about the Leo in my life! We’ve been divorced 6 years. Wtf ironically he’s the one who won out & the Leo got burned all those years ago 😂😂 I had no contact until after the divorce. Maybe he should’ve taken care of the marriage?? Weird how things go & what people are concerned about.


Yeah I've come to the conclusion the Leo is incapable of change. I always knew that but the sag optimism gets me every now and then. Like wow okay.

The Leo in your life? What about him? He was a passed boyfriend?

And what about the virgo? Your saying he's gross haha yeah idk what's going on there. Yes me and the pisces gotta decided what level we are on


Lol I’ve known him for 30 years. He was crazy about me back then but we were friends & age difference and where we were in life was an issue. He “accidentally” introduced me to my ex husband. We hung out in same circles back then. My ex always jokingly called him my bf even when I hadn’t seen or talked to him in years. But Leo came after me when he found out I was divorced. Said I dated my ex once & was gone for 20 years. Lol it was true.., anyway there were obstacles, but he still calls me 4 years later never goes longer than a month.. still hopes for someday lol. Regardless he’s a great friend and one of those people you need in your corner so we are still in touch.


Damn! Sounds like a true Leo lol


Lol yeah. Says he will always try to be there for me.. forever. Whenever I need him he’s there. Seems unconditional at this point. Perhaps I’ll believe lol
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That's such Leo energy lol #fixedmoonproblems
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Posted by AneemA11

Still, when we're talking about trashes and litters here, people will never be free.

However the current gov seems to complicate themselves to the point where escalations happen to promote further disruptions.

If we are about to judge fairly and go to the squares of Donna Karan, Melanoma is one who would take the stress and Paris put masks as much as possible to counter her previous historical revenues.

While the poor ages keep calling from downstairs, they will start using their instincts to again go over-to-you shit.

The damages have been going like Russian Roulette and we can only play the game provided by our sole creature(s).

I am here trying to kill first before I get killed because obviously the language barriers are still strong and the cheats aren't too easy to deal with.

I grinded myself for the sake of food for whatever types of animals out there.

Behind me, surely there were Abu Dhabi collecting Taxes AS PER USUAL.

I myself was like, this isn't a joke. There are casualties and I'm not liking the amount of bills running.

Poeple are getting stressful each day and agents are placed AND CONTROLLED BY THAT FAKE ASS GEMINI RAPIST a.k.a DONALD TRUCK DUMPSTER for God knows what!

Look, I was and still am a teacher, I can only read the front and the behind, even upside down and I can write upside down too!

I KNEW IT, when I heard the news that Donald Trump got elected, I had ALL THE BAD FEELS. I thought, oh this isn't going to go well. Because we all know Xhin Lao were already old enough about that. But then again it's dam complex.

Donald used to be a business man and he lost in most of his fleets due to HIS OWN DOING. And now he is TRYING TO play the blame game and rotate shit in HIS OWN PALACE.

I was like dude, this isn't fair.

Such inhuman basterd.




Yeah that's definitely one way of looking at it.
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Posted by RooSagicorn

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Posted by RooSagicorn

Seems a Leo thing.. but he still messages you everyday?

Virgo -ewwww and well I guess it depends how on the relationship about whether you are still texting other guys. If it was serious and the most important thing, others would be gone. But perhaps if the Leo’s friendship is more important.. it gets complicated.

My ex husband is still worried about the Leo in my life! We’ve been divorced 6 years. Wtf ironically he’s the one who won out & the Leo got burned all those years ago 😂😂 I had no contact until after the divorce. Maybe he should’ve taken care of the marriage?? Weird how things go & what people are concerned about.


Yeah I've come to the conclusion the Leo is incapable of change. I always knew that but the sag optimism gets me every now and then. Like wow okay.

The Leo in your life? What about him? He was a passed boyfriend?

And what about the virgo? Your saying he's gross haha yeah idk what's going on there. Yes me and the pisces gotta decided what level we are on


Lol I’ve known him for 30 years. He was crazy about me back then but we were friends & age difference and where we were in life was an issue. He “accidentally” introduced me to my ex husband. We hung out in same circles back then. My ex always jokingly called him my bf even when I hadn’t seen or talked to him in years. But Leo came after me when he found out I was divorced. Said I dated my ex once & was gone for 20 years. Lol it was true.., anyway there were obstacles, but he still calls me 4 years later never goes longer than a month.. still hopes for someday lol. Regardless he’s a great friend and one of those people you need in your corner so we are still in touch.


Damn! Sounds like a true Leo lol


Lol yeah. Says he will always try to be there for me.. forever. Whenever I need him he’s there. Seems unconditional at this point. Perhaps I’ll believe lol


That's such Leo energy lol #fixedmoonproblems


Lol he’s Pisces moon but Leo sun & mars.. omfg lmao. I’m fixed moon though 😜

He called me 3 days in a row last week cuz I was having flooring install problems telling me what to do, asking questions lol he’s too far away or he’d be here. And then asks me when I’m moving & sends me a song 😍😳🙃🤪🤦‍♀️
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He has a Leo mars too lol sweet Jesus
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Posted by MacDaddyInfinite

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Actually in fact, I just realized your whole point with this thread. You just talked about your BF and his friend, to try and make /him/ look like the hypocrite to justify you being friends with an Ex that you admit you are in love with and make it painfully obvious that it's a very thin line and at any moment you are ready to cheat on your BF.

Hence the title "What are boundaries anyways?". It makes it obvious your real point here is to throw away boundaries, not defend them like you commenting on your BF and his friend implies.


Projection! Lol didn’t your lady cheat all over you? Ahh sorry boy
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Projection! Lol didn’t your lady cheat all over you? Ahh sorry boy

If you want to prove that Sags aren't unprovokedly maliciously sadistic. Break up with your BF before you hurt him.

Y'all play dumb and act like shit wasn't planned, then explain why you're setting things up perfectly to happen in the exactly wrong way?
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I have no intention of cheating on my boyfriend
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Projection! Lol didn’t your lady cheat all over you? Ahh sorry boy

Perfect, instead of denying it you've falling right into my trap by trying to basically say "Mwahahaha, you're a worthless cuck yourself, of course I am going to cheat on him and there is nothing you can do to stop it so you're just butthurt."

Now we begin to see you for what you truly are.
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I’m sorry women have used and abused you. Science will tell you they aren’t all the same!
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It is not even about an ex. Even if there is/were exes, she will definitely make boundaries.

Read the thread title and her posts about the Leo. She has no intention to have boundaries whatsoever.
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And? My objective statement applies, it is her choice to move to that direction.

I sensed that already and I gave her the counter-argument for that. But then again, it's her life
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I’m sorry women have used and abused you. Science will tell you they aren’t all the same

False, science says all women are detached thots. Some just have learned how to go about it in formal/legal/socially acceptable ways.

It's been scientifically proven that when a breakup does happen, a woman hops on another dick VASTLY faster than any man will replace the one he loves. If the guy ever does. Some men literally die and take it to the grave, before they'd ever move on.

Just look at CuddleThot, she moved on from an 8 year long relationship like it's nothing.
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Did your mom molest you? lol
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Posted by Sag898Did your mom molest you? lol

Wow. So now you're trying to wage molestation as humiliation towards someone.

So you're a child rapist. As bad as one anyways.

Probably did lol

If someone says "You must have autism." in response to something said. They are trying to suggest that there is some negative quality that the autist is responsible for or should be shamed for.

Think about it. If I say "Yeah I was." Then some point of yours is supposed to be proven. What point is that? Except to say that a child molestation victim is at fault for their molestation.

It's undeniable. You are using being a molestation victim as an /insult/. You are the most horrible kind of person there is.
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You seem to hate women. Good luck with that. You should probably man up you sound like a total pussy
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You seem to hate women. Good luck with that. You should probably man up you sound like a total pussy

I am a pussy for condemning you for shaming child molestation victims everywhere?

I can't make this shit up. You just keep making yourself look worse and worse.
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Your twisting all my words and trying to make me look bad lol You sound like a little bitch who lets women get to him. That’s so pathetic
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Your twisting all my words and trying to make me look bad lol You sound like a little bitch who lets women get to him. That’s so pathetic

How am I even concievably twisting your words? Just face the fact that your resorted to saying some horrible shit because you're fucking stupid.

At least what I was saying to you made logical sense. But because you don't like hearing the truth you are trying to break me down at all costs. So who is truly the pathetic one, who is truly the one grasping for straws here and at their wits end?

I can't concieve of what your point is supposed to be. You shame me for whay women do to me and then call me a bitch when you're trying to attack where it hurts most.

All the while. I keep my composure. I have been cheated on and molested, but you will never be able to use this against me. I am too strong, too powerful, too unstoppable.
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Composure? You made a whole thread about it lol
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Composure? You made a whole thread about it lol

Yes it's called karma. What you have tried to do has backfired 10 fold back onto you, and so now you are being shamed.

I don't think my reputation will suffer much for questioning your loyalty to your lover. Maybe people won't agree, won't see what I see. But I doubt I look that bad when I am known for it and my intention is only to defend the ideal of true love.

At least what I am shaming is an understandable percieved wrong. But what you did was just disgusting.
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It’s the internet LOL I will never apologize for what I said. You seem like you really have issues, someone hurt you. good luck w your healing