MyLittleUniverse
@MyLittleUniverse
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What would you do? Sag woman only please
I'd wonder why her boyfriend---you know the person who should be setting up these boundaries if he respects the relationship---didn't say all of this. I'd also think she sounds controlling and the relationship doesn't sound every secure. If he has honestly done all of that then said girlfriend shouldn't be threatened. In other words, there are holes and if not this girl someone else would have wormed their way through. Deal with the virus, not the symptom.
PS I read your instructions on who can and can not respond to this thread and I ignored it. See what I did there? If not, translation: trying to control people actions doesn't work.
I take it you're the "girlfriend".
PS I read your instructions on who can and can not respond to this thread and I ignored it. See what I did there? If not, translation: trying to control people actions doesn't work.
I take it you're the "girlfriend".
*very
omg. this is getting really tiresome and boring. would you dump your boyfriend and move on with your life.
I have never competed with another girl. So if I were (in this crazy scenario at all) I would back off.
I hate to have other girls in my business. Too crowded street too dirty street. And I'm too lazy of a cleaner.
Not sure if I am a good representative for the sag girl in your story.
I hate to have other girls in my business. Too crowded street too dirty street. And I'm too lazy of a cleaner.
Not sure if I am a good representative for the sag girl in your story.
Posted by MyLittleUniversei wouldnt give two shits what you wrote to me. In fact, Id laugh and show my crush exactly what you wrote.
You're lonely. Young. You've been dating someone for 2 years, had a few rough patches that were half your fault when you were together but it's a long distance relationship now and you miss him. You love him and don't want to end it. He's from a good family, never had problems and he's in school to have a serious high paying job in the future. He's not a loser. But you're lonely and want someone you can be close to physically. Nothing more.
You meet a man, older and a week later he's under your spell. You don't want anything serious with him, you just wanna have fun while your boyfriend is away for school because you feel empty. That man went to your house twice, you hung out and went to the mall, restaurants and you kicked him out after a few hours. He's just your entertainment. You do wanna fuck him tho. You don't want your boyfriend to know at all.
A week and a half after you met him, you receive a message from his fiance.
She explains that she and her man have known each other for a decade and they've been together for 6 years and that she knows everything about you. She even saw the photos you sent to him. She knows everything personal you discussed with this man. She explains that her fiance and her love each other deeply and that they're working on living a happy life together. Long term plans.
She explains that she understand what it's like to be away from someone as she and this man lived apart for a while, and that she understand what it's like to be depressed and suicidal. Something you told that man. She ask you to please respect her relationship with her man and boundaries. She doesn't sound upset, she's very calm and non aggressive. Very understanding of your situation as well. She finishes her message by saying that using her man just to help herself isn't healthy for her and him, and asks you again to leave him alone.
Would you care or back off? Would you understand that woman's views and respect her or not care and keep doing what you do?
"Would you care or back off? Would you understand that woman's views and respect her or not care and keep doing what you do?"
OP, I'm surprised you're even asking this question. Regardless of what's going on between them, he's not your man. If you want your relationship respected...then respect theirs and move forward. In your words, she asked you nicely and they're engaged. Leave him be and focus on your own relationship instead of borrowing from someone else's.
OP, I'm surprised you're even asking this question. Regardless of what's going on between them, he's not your man. If you want your relationship respected...then respect theirs and move forward. In your words, she asked you nicely and they're engaged. Leave him be and focus on your own relationship instead of borrowing from someone else's.
Posted by beautifulsoul74wait lol. she is the girlfriend and her gemini boyfriend is doing the ol Netflix and Chill with a Sag girl.
"Would you care or back off? Would you understand that woman's views and respect her or not care and keep doing what you do?"
OP, I'm surprised you're even asking this question. Regardless of what's going on between them, he's not your man. If you want your relationship respected...then respect theirs and move forward. In your words, she asked you nicely and they're engaged. Leave him be and focus on your own relationship instead of borrowing from someone else's.
But i agree, lol, the Cap girlfriend needs to respect the wishes of the new couple and back off.
Posted by DwellingOnMovescandalousPosted by dontgetmewrongPosted by DMV
But i agree, lol, the Cap girlfriend needs to respect the wishes of the new couple and back off.
Lol, yep the cap needs to realize the Gem doesn't wamt to be her fiance but the sagi's side D.
gem and sag sounds like angie and brad, what?click to expand
Posted by dontgetmewrongLol my bad. I'm at freaking work and I speed read 😛Posted by beautifulsoul74
"Would you care or back off? Would you understand that woman's views and respect her or not care and keep doing what you do?"
OP, I'm surprised you're even asking this question. Regardless of what's going on between them, he's not your man. If you want your relationship respected...then respect theirs and move forward. In your words, she asked you nicely and they're engaged. Leave him be and focus on your own relationship instead of borrowing from someone else's.
She is not the sagi..she is the cap fiance who wants to send this letter to a sag girl who has a bf out of town but is crushing on her gem fiance.
Lol!! A sagi woman would not write a letter to another woman, she'd go over there and man handle her or/and send the letter to the womans bf and then dump the fiance to finish it off. Then ride off into the sunset. 😄click to expand
When I had heartache with my first love there was this Gem boy I ran into. My mother asked him to entertain/distract me (maybe she thought I was suicidal). We were a strong team. And if it was not for his hesitant way (maybe he was not sure what to do), he could be the father of my children.
Ooook, now that I've read both threads lol:
OP, I'm sorry but...cut your losses. The dude's in his mid 20s and you shouldnt have to get on him about the basics of respecting the boundaries of a relationship. Sending the Sag a letter is foolish and will only embolden her...and that's with any sign frankly. Some will disagree with me saying this about him, but a real man doesn't let a woman fight his battles for him, solves his problems(whether he created them or not), or puts her at risk. In other words...he's a child and you said so yourself. Cut him loose and let karma deal with him.
OP, I'm sorry but...cut your losses. The dude's in his mid 20s and you shouldnt have to get on him about the basics of respecting the boundaries of a relationship. Sending the Sag a letter is foolish and will only embolden her...and that's with any sign frankly. Some will disagree with me saying this about him, but a real man doesn't let a woman fight his battles for him, solves his problems(whether he created them or not), or puts her at risk. In other words...he's a child and you said so yourself. Cut him loose and let karma deal with him.
Lol, Gems.
They love creating drama, sometimes it's fun.
They love creating drama, sometimes it's fun.
Posted by beautifulsoul74but it was hilarious and spot on thoPosted by dontgetmewrongLol my bad. I'm at freaking work and I speed read 😛Posted by beautifulsoul74
"Would you care or back off? Would you understand that woman's views and respect her or not care and keep doing what you do?"
OP, I'm surprised you're even asking this question. Regardless of what's going on between them, he's not your man. If you want your relationship respected...then respect theirs and move forward. In your words, she asked you nicely and they're engaged. Leave him be and focus on your own relationship instead of borrowing from someone else's.
She is not the sagi..she is the cap fiance who wants to send this letter to a sag girl who has a bf out of town but is crushing on her gem fiance.
Lol!! A sagi woman would not write a letter to another woman, she'd go over there and man handle her or/and send the letter to the womans bf and then dump the fiance to finish it off. Then ride off into the sunset. 😄click to expand
Posted by beautifulsoul74i agree with you. What kind of man do you have, if you have to fight his battles.
Ooook, now that I've read both threads lol:
OP, I'm sorry but...cut your losses. The dude's in his mid 20s and you shouldnt have to get on him about the basics of respecting the boundaries of a relationship. Sending the Sag a letter is foolish and will only embolden her...and that's with any sign frankly. Some will disagree with me saying this about him, but a real man doesn't let a woman fight his battles for him, solves his problems(whether he created them or not), or puts her at risk. In other words...he's a child and you said so yourself. Cut him loose and let karma deal with him.
you have a punk.
My Virgo sister was once involved in a triangle (no sex). The man's fiance cried a jolene river to her. My sister did nothing new. The man went back to his fiance. My sister kept doing nothing. I guess. says my memory. I donno better.
Posted by DMVLol...man DMV ya gotta be able to laugh at yourself 😛Posted by beautifulsoul74but it was hilarious and spot on thoPosted by dontgetmewrongLol my bad. I'm at freaking work and I speed read 😛Posted by beautifulsoul74
"Would you care or back off? Would you understand that woman's views and respect her or not care and keep doing what you do?"
OP, I'm surprised you're even asking this question. Regardless of what's going on between them, he's not your man. If you want your relationship respected...then respect theirs and move forward. In your words, she asked you nicely and they're engaged. Leave him be and focus on your own relationship instead of borrowing from someone else's.
She is not the sagi..she is the cap fiance who wants to send this letter to a sag girl who has a bf out of town but is crushing on her gem fiance.
Lol!! A sagi woman would not write a letter to another woman, she'd go over there and man handle her or/and send the letter to the womans bf and then dump the fiance to finish it off. Then ride off into the sunset. 😄click to expand
Posted by DMVExactlyPosted by beautifulsoul74i agree with you. What kind of man do you have, if you have to fight his battles.
Ooook, now that I've read both threads lol:
OP, I'm sorry but...cut your losses. The dude's in his mid 20s and you shouldnt have to get on him about the basics of respecting the boundaries of a relationship. Sending the Sag a letter is foolish and will only embolden her...and that's with any sign frankly. Some will disagree with me saying this about him, but a real man doesn't let a woman fight his battles for him, solves his problems(whether he created them or not), or puts her at risk. In other words...he's a child and you said so yourself. Cut him loose and let karma deal with him.
you have a punk.click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by beautifulsoul74class="bqfade">click to expand
[...] a real man doesn't let a woman fight his battles for him, solves his problems(whether he created them or not), or puts her at risk.[...]
Lol
While I'm sure I'll get a lot of negativity by being called weak etc, I want to explain something about our relationship.
My Gemini acknowledged being a jerk. He knows he hurt people, He's aware that he's a liar. But he expressed many times that he wants to be a better man. He wants to improve who he is.
He told me many times that he doesn't deserve to be happy in life. To him, that cheating Sag is what he deserves. Not a good woman like me who support him and want to help him achieve his goals and dreams. He thinks pain and suffering is all he deserves in life for people he's hurt before.
To him, women are like whiskey to an alcoholic. Can't say no, knows it's the bad kind of good, still go to it anyways.
That Sag is like a mirror. He sees himself in her, wants to help, but also can't say no. She lives in a house with no electricity, doesn't have a job, has multiple health issues, and she also lied about a lot shit about her life just for my Gemini fiance to go to her house. She cut the power to her own house just to have an excuse to ask him to go there.
I love my Gemini man. I want to fight for him and what we both believe in. Our dreams and goals. But that man has weaknesses. It's part of being human.
Nobody's perfect.
When people wanna change, you help.
My Gemini acknowledged being a jerk. He knows he hurt people, He's aware that he's a liar. But he expressed many times that he wants to be a better man. He wants to improve who he is.
He told me many times that he doesn't deserve to be happy in life. To him, that cheating Sag is what he deserves. Not a good woman like me who support him and want to help him achieve his goals and dreams. He thinks pain and suffering is all he deserves in life for people he's hurt before.
To him, women are like whiskey to an alcoholic. Can't say no, knows it's the bad kind of good, still go to it anyways.
That Sag is like a mirror. He sees himself in her, wants to help, but also can't say no. She lives in a house with no electricity, doesn't have a job, has multiple health issues, and she also lied about a lot shit about her life just for my Gemini fiance to go to her house. She cut the power to her own house just to have an excuse to ask him to go there.
I love my Gemini man. I want to fight for him and what we both believe in. Our dreams and goals. But that man has weaknesses. It's part of being human.
Nobody's perfect.
When people wanna change, you help.
Posted by MyLittleUniverse
[...] I love my Gemini man. I want to fight for him and what we both believe in. Our dreams and goals. But that man has weaknesses. It's part of being human.
Nobody's perfect.
When people wanna change, you help.
I know another Cap-Gem story from dxp. They were married. She came to dxp last year. She the Cap. They have been doing a lot together in the earlier years of their marriage. But in the last two-three years the Gem husband did not like to share off-time with her. She created all the threads which were necessary to get her to the point tha t she has to let go of him.
If you both are in your 20ies, you can get him to marry you and have two children. In 10 years he'll think he was good enough to be stranded for a while. Now he can pay child support and enjoy life from a distance.
Don't listen to me. I'm a pessimist. I just poisoned your mind. But life sucks too. Doesn't it?
Posted by MyLittleUniverseYou can only help someone that wants to see change. You can tell the difference when the person makes better choices for him/herself. Has he? So, he isn't lying, he's telling you that he's hanging out with a girl that sends him lingerie pics and wants to f*ck him. Much better. He isn't a complete ass, because he has acknowledged he's a jerk. Okay, much better. How about stop being a jerk or doing things that you would want to lie about? Especially if it's hurting someone you're planning a life with and they've expressed that to you. You have done that right? Or did you merely plan to go after this girl? Better yet, how about you tell him the importance of not threatening to break up with your girlfriend when she offers to "help you" tell a girl you're not interested to bugger off. He may have missed that is the jerk's anonymous handbook 😕. Oh lawd the excuses just keep coming.
While I'm sure I'll get a lot of negativity by being called weak etc, I want to explain something about our relationship.
My Gemini acknowledged being a jerk. He knows he hurt people, He's aware that he's a liar. But he expressed many times that he wants to be a better man. He wants to improve who he is.
He told me many times that he doesn't deserve to be happy in life. To him, that cheating Sag is what he deserves. Not a good woman like me who support him and want to help him achieve his goals and dreams. He thinks pain and suffering is all he deserves in life for people he's hurt before.
To him, women are like whiskey to an alcoholic. Can't say no, knows it's the bad kind of good, still go to it anyways.
That Sag is like a mirror. He sees himself in her, wants to help, but also can't say no. She lives in a house with no electricity, doesn't have a job, has multiple health issues, and she also lied about a lot shit about her life just for my Gemini fiance to go to her house. She cut the power to her own house just to have an excuse to ask him to go there.
I love my Gemini man. I want to fight for him and what we both believe in. Our dreams and goals. But that man has weaknesses. It's part of being human.
Nobody's perfect.
When people wanna change, you help.
You were very right about something. The Sag is his mirror. Therefore, what she's doing is reflection of what he has/will do. Do you plan to chase after a man everytime he needs his ego stroked and a pretty girl offers her crotch because "he doesn't believe he deserves better"? 😭
I knew there were holes in this relationship. You wouldn't be sweating this girl so hard when you're sleeping beside the issue causing you the pain.
so she needed one and a half dxp year to accept he was seriously hurting her. They both had Cancer placements and did not want to lose each other. But he was seriously hurting her. She was about feeling she was a control freak. I have in my memory that she came to the conclusion that divorce was the best solution.
I've seen this behavior from Gem-Cancer and Taurus men. They want to have and eat it. Probably polygamy was created for them.
I've seen this behavior from Gem-Cancer and Taurus men. They want to have and eat it. Probably polygamy was created for them.
"He thinks pain and suffering is all he deserves in life for people he's hurt before."
Rhetoric.
Won't he do the same again? Unless he is 55 by now.
Rhetoric.
Won't he do the same again? Unless he is 55 by now.
OP:
You're not weak at all. What he told you is the typical excuse people use to consciously half ass it. He's playing to your nature as a woman to nurture him like a child and he's knows you'll be patient. Hence, there's no incentive to change. If he's aware of the problem and that it hurts you, why not change immediately? No, he wants you to carry the relationship and "take up the slack"(be the mature one) while he gets to run around like 5 year old.
The Sag ain't putting up with that and that's probably why he's atrracted to her. He's a luxury to her because she already has a man. You shouldn't have to constantly put your foot down for basic level stuff. While love is unconditional, a relationship is not.
You're not weak at all. What he told you is the typical excuse people use to consciously half ass it. He's playing to your nature as a woman to nurture him like a child and he's knows you'll be patient. Hence, there's no incentive to change. If he's aware of the problem and that it hurts you, why not change immediately? No, he wants you to carry the relationship and "take up the slack"(be the mature one) while he gets to run around like 5 year old.
The Sag ain't putting up with that and that's probably why he's atrracted to her. He's a luxury to her because she already has a man. You shouldn't have to constantly put your foot down for basic level stuff. While love is unconditional, a relationship is not.
Posted by dontgetmewrong+1
This is not about being weak..it's about being strong enough to walk away from something/someone that has a hold on you.
I was talking about CarRiderGirl and for example this thread:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/getting-that-divorce-5294937/
you can go through her other threads and posts.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/getting-that-divorce-5294937/
you can go through her other threads and posts.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveDo it! Write Jolene, beg her not to take your man.
I still think you could write that letter to that Sag girl.
desperate situations call for desperate remedies!
Make your stand.
Posted by dontgetmewrong
...and to think there's a wonderful man who would cherish a woman like you, amd you settle for this dipshit. Smh
Read what the Cap colored people write on dxp. 1.there is something like "a classy lady" and the rest of the women are hoes. 2. Caps are classy (gem and sag sluts), they test their candidates a lot. 3. actions do not confirm the claims.
I mean she does not even need to test that poor boy. Life is testing him 24 hours a day. he's failed long time ago.
Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by dontgetmewrong
...and to think there's a wonderful man who would cherish a woman like you, amd you settle for this dipshit. Smh
Read what the Cap colored people write on dxp. [...] 2. Caps are classy[...] they test their candidates a lot. 3. actions do not confirm the claims.[...]click to expand
Do classy ladies need FWB? One year until they find out the investment is not worth it?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/caps-and-sex-5678556/
At the end of the day I don't believe I could/should teach a Cap girl to think differently. It is a roadmap for them. They need to think that way. Sometimes they succeed with it. Sometimes they fail. Like we lose and win by our (not so classy) ways.
wet blanket LOL
did he cheat on you?
did he cheat on you?
"how they words things"
Master of words. I know.
Master of words. I know.
"What makes you ask if he cheated? "
I just imagined someone who betrayed you and cried a river to get you back. This is typical for cheaters. I did not relate it to his Sun sign.
I just imagined someone who betrayed you and cried a river to get you back. This is typical for cheaters. I did not relate it to his Sun sign.
I gotta admit its pretty sad when a woman still falls for the "poor me its all I know"
Bit
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Posted by DwellingOnMoveDear Dwelling, what does this mean?
Read what the Cap colored people write on dxp.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DwellingOnMoveDear Dwelling, what does this mean?
Read what the Cap colored people write on dxp.click to expand
AC, Moon, Mercury, Sun... in Cap.
Posted by WynterlolPosted by DwellingOnMoveDo it! Write Jolene, beg her not to take your man.
I still think you could write that letter to that Sag girl.
desperate situations call for desperate remedies!
Make your stand.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisinglmao. I read the same thing and could not contain myself.Posted by DwellingOnMoveDear Dwelling, what does this mean?
Read what the Cap colored people write on dxp.click to expand
Posted by DMVPosted by PhoenixRisinglmao. I read the same thing and could not contain myself.Posted by DwellingOnMoveDear Dwelling, what does this mean?
Read what the Cap colored people write on dxp.click to expand
It comes from analogy to the spectrum of white light. In a similar manner a person is made of the different sign vibes which make the whole character. I claim. 😉
well, I don't know if there is a white horoscope chart at all. So it mus be more like spectrum of substances. In chemistry/physics laboratory.
It waz hilarious
Cappie you gotta sit back and really ask yourself what it is you are attached to. Is it the time invested in your relationship? Is the attachment to your future together? Are you now attached to the way he's treating you? Or is your attachment to him?
Idk. Im a Cap too, and we can be tricky in that way. It sounds like youve invested time into having your ideal future/life with him. Make sure you are not putting up with so much in order to stick to your plans. Make sure your plans are not blinding the severity of this situation. And make sure your plans has not made you forget about him, allowing him to seek attention elsewhere.
@Virgoflirt
I could easily overlook cheating if its a situation Im a little less emotionally invested in, and the benifits outweigh the actions...easily. Sometimes I feel we can be some "as long as I dont see it" women, but thats only because we havent given 100% emotionally imo.
btw, the Sag owes you absolutely nothing.
Idk. Im a Cap too, and we can be tricky in that way. It sounds like youve invested time into having your ideal future/life with him. Make sure you are not putting up with so much in order to stick to your plans. Make sure your plans are not blinding the severity of this situation. And make sure your plans has not made you forget about him, allowing him to seek attention elsewhere.
@Virgoflirt
I could easily overlook cheating if its a situation Im a little less emotionally invested in, and the benifits outweigh the actions...easily. Sometimes I feel we can be some "as long as I dont see it" women, but thats only because we havent given 100% emotionally imo.
btw, the Sag owes you absolutely nothing.
I get that as a venus in capricorn. You already climbed that mountain. But it was a shitty mountain
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